bobdesigns4262
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Thu 08/09/07 12:51 PM |
| oh and by the way ladies, i am dancing tonite at "danny's" in windsor, ontario, canada, a male stripper bar...it is "fat, balding, middle age guy nite" and i can't wait to get them ladies wound up....stop by and drop a few "loonies"(canadian coinage) in my "pouch" |
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bobdesigns4262
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Thu 08/09/07 12:41 PM |
| what is worse, to me, is when i look at the other comments after mine, and peopel joke about passing the cookies, cakes and pizza's...and i am the bad one? lets give more drugs to the crack addict and clean em up...sheez.... |
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bobdesigns4262
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Thu 08/09/07 12:37 PM |
| why doesn't anyone cry out when the skinny crack whore writes i am not loved? well, besides the fact she sold her computer as well as her body for drugs, you have to set a priority in your life and work to achieve it...my ex wife was drop dead beautiful, 5 foot 10 135 pounds; came here from a different country and turned heads no matter where we went...decided to attach herself to the couch and gain 20 plus pounds, gave up taking care of herself and generally gave up on living...tell me, how do i, find myself content with some one who gives up? just because we get married, that is a liscense to stop caring about yourself and let yourself go and then wonder why your spouse cheats? when i was younger, my depression kept me chained to my room, i stayed and cried to myself for what was hours, not wanting to deal with or understanding life...is it any better? truthfully no, i still wear out from life's stresses and hide away at times, but facing my fears and trying to live up to the truths has saved my life...it is not the same for everybody; i am an artist and i have my ups and downs, creativity is a ***** and it is also a killer, it is a price we pay...am i healthy? far from it; do i try and deal with it, darn right and watching people allow their selves to settle for less gets no pity from me at all |
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bobdesigns4262
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Thu 08/09/07 12:27 PM |
i am not targeting or picking on fat people; in your minds, i am....i am just trying to truthfully answer when a woman writes, "i am fat and no one loves me"..waa waaa waa...i suffer from seizures in my none too healthy body from epilicy( i know i miss spelled it)sudden changes in tempatures can and does trigeer it and for what appears to be no reason, i had a large one today.
as for skinny people and healthy people dying, hell we all die babe, so will i....but if i smoke, drink, do drugs and any other thing to hasten my demise, damn right i should take note and better my own actions, unless of course i have a death wish...
as for being positive, how is being is a group of enablers, which help you continue down a path of decline, a positive outlook or help...i am sorry, once again, it seems no one wants to take responsiblity for their own actions or lack of there-for and want the rest of the world to pity them and feed into their pipe dreams...and you folks keep missing the beat here, its not just about weight, or women's weight..it is the fact that we are not helping ourselves or others by denying the truth...tuff love...hell i know i am ugly, but i don't give up... |
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bobdesigns4262
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Thu 08/09/07 09:39 AM |
| well, hello my favorite bunch of chubby chasers and haters; i knew when i got off, that the **** would kinda hit the fan....of course, the major topic again was bob is a jerk and lets all rally around our (insert here)_____ group we belong in...we all, and i mean we all have our reasons for our ill health; i had the worse seizure i ever had this morning and it is still wearing on me so...but, rather than all gathering around the chuck wagon and feeling good about our bad selves, and getting lots of positive support from "like" people, when it comes down to it, we are still all alone....we can have fat friends, druggy friends, red neck friends, what ever, unless they are friends with benefits, that is all they are, friends...if we can't have that hunky guy, or skinny girl, maybe we need to look deep within, and better our selves, rather than setting the bar too high, or setting the bar too low...your potential mate is your life partner, i want my mate as healthy as she can be, not just for my sake; i love knowing my wife turns heads and turns my toes at nite as well...more cushion, more meat, chubby chasers, what ever; these are all enablers; ones that do us more harm than good..just now who is the one dying of the heart attack at 45?...not mr or ms. meat market, who just wants a quick thrill with you...yes, yes, yes, i know there are plenty of us that have medical problems that have weight gain as well, but never never let a cop out be just that...i will bet every doctor you speak to will also tell you that weight gain still can be countermanded and we move on...if we give up, we give up...having a pity party with your so called like friends is all fine and dandy, but do you still sleep alone at nite? |
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 05:18 PM |
| well, folks, i must bid adu...i have to get ready for my next gun club meeting and card carrying redneck club..i got to get a woman to press my t-shirts and keep chained out back in the shed...i let my dogs sleep in the house..at least they don't snore...later |
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 05:15 PM |
| i have them make it sans the msg...i can't have finhes turning into turkeys |
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bobdesigns4262
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bobdesigns4262
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 05:06 PM |
| yeah, well i ate my wives too...but that is another story...i think i need another anti-depressant while i get my wife beaters out of the dryer |
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 05:04 PM |
| again, if anyone thinks i am picking on one person, you are wrong...there is no way to not cast the first stone, if i can't hit my own self....weight, drugs, mental health, money, the list goes on...if we can't see our own faults, who is gonna tell you? |
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 05:01 PM |
| if being a male genitalia is what i am for saying while i watch people i care about, shove yet another whopper down their throats as the slowly kill theirself is so bad, then i am a big penishead...again, men and women both, need to look in the mirror, myself included, if you want change, maybe change is not the other guy, but our own selves |
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bobdesigns4262
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 04:56 PM |
| not all of us are perfect weight, and may never be, but if we are taking the steps to prolong our healthy life, then we are doing great...as for frogs, kool...but remember, men are visual...we want to see you.... |
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 04:54 PM |
| hey, i am not out to p*** off every body...i just don't understand why people have to ask stupid questions like" why doesn't anyone like fat men/women" or " bib men/women need love too", etc....sure there are plenty of chubby chasers, but the real issue here is that fact the large person in question is upset because they can't have the sexy guy or girl either, and think the whole world is still dumping on them |
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bobdesigns4262
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 04:46 PM |
| hey, i raise and have over 100 exotic finches...but that is no reason to sit on the couch and wonder why life has past me bye...you have plenty of time to reflect when you are dead...get a move on |
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 04:45 PM |
| if all the bbw's rush over to stampede all over me(sorry the visual is killing me) maybe that will get them to exercise and see that for once, maybe, some one has the balls to stand up and say hey, we care enough about you, now it is your turn to do like wise....and there are a equal amount of big boys that need to heed this advise as well.. |
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bobdesigns4262
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Wed 08/08/07 04:41 PM |
| thank you for that; i am not the bad guy here, i am just in complete amazment at others when they feel the whole world is dumping on poor me....no matter how ****** it maybe for you in your world, there is always some one with whole lot more going against him....i always wonder why, when women post photos of cats, animals, their eyes, a setting of their face in a flower vase, what ever, to hide what we already know, by them doing the above said items...trying to say, hey, accept me for who i am is fine, in fact, even better; but i, as well as countless other men, want to see you and what we are getting....sorry if the truth hurts; i damn sure am not buying a car unseen, or a house, why would i commit to a life long relationship to some one who can't be truthful from the start? have you ever read a personal from the women's profiles? try it once...it will open your eyes..the men must have a full set of straight teeth, full mane of hair, a huge house, 6 pack abs, ceo of a big company, etc....talk about shallow!!! and women complain when we look at or hope for large breasts and blonde hair...come on...if you want the best in life, it comes with a cost...but the most important cost is and should be, your own health...whether you do it for me, or yourself, you have to play the game |
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