Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: The Saddest Time of the Year |
Sat 11/24/07 05:20 PM |
Its sad because people make such a big damn deal about it. Like you are nothing if you don't go with your family and eat turkey, than everyone feels bad for you.
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: What to do? |
Sat 11/24/07 05:16 PM |
| Maybe you should remind him that you are leaving because you need a man that can be his own person, without you having to hold his hand. Make him realize he doesn;t need you for him to go on living. I agree, it's a bad deal and you should get out of that relationship ASAP |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: How does this work???? I am so confused. |
Sat 11/24/07 05:10 PM |
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I would love to know how on line dating works. I seem to attrack men I am not really interested in. They either live a million miles away. Or they live with my community and are just not my type. How does this work? Maybe I dont understand how it works. I am confused.
This works by you just being you, let your personality come thru and you will attract people that you have things in common with.
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: i'm hurting..bad. |
Sat 11/24/07 04:33 PM |
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anybody who's willing to listen
and give advice..
can you send me a message on here?
i really don't wanna post it on here.
I sent you a message... I'll be happy to listen. Many Many of us here have been 18 before, been thru hell and back. If you're that upset, talk to anyone that will make you feel comfortable. There is someone here that has been thru what you are going thru, no need to feel alone. |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: i'm hurting..bad. |
Sat 11/24/07 04:28 PM |
| What do you need??... I'll give any advice I can give, lots of people here to listen and help, that's what this is for. |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Let's Try This Again |
Sat 11/24/07 04:27 PM |
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So now I have added more pic and info to my profile. Hopefully this will help the ladies to see more clearly what kind of man I am.
You put a pic holding a bible and a roseary dressed a s father... It still doesn't tell me if you're a good priest. a pic doesn't show character. |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Let's Try This Again |
Sat 11/24/07 04:23 PM |
| a pic has nothing to do with "the man you are". I agree... with what was said earlier. Talk about you, what kind of person you are, what you like and don't like, etc etc |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: favorite band |
Sat 11/24/07 04:21 PM |
| Metallica, no question about it |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Simplifying Complication |
Sat 11/24/07 04:17 PM |
This is never an easy thing to do... I agree you don't want to hurt him but when he eventually finds out, and he will, he will be hurt even more.
I say you just talk to him, tell him the truth, that it hurts, you aren't comfortable. Maybe you two can find an alternative to make you both happy. Maybe you can't, either way, it needs to be worked out and brought up.
Maybe tell him you just aren't into sex right now... |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Simplifying Complication |
Sat 11/24/07 03:55 PM |
honestly, what I think... you are just not that into him. Maybe you really like him and enjoy cuddling and things because you are lonely and he is a decent guy to be around.
If you are not attracted to him than you really should tell him... |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Simplifying Complication |
Sat 11/24/07 03:48 PM |
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I guess I should also mention that he is quite a bit larger then me. And sex is just painful and awquard.
Have you talked to him about this?? |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Simplifying Complication |
Sat 11/24/07 03:43 PM |
| have you tried spicing things up a bit? When you first started dating were you attracted to him? If you were... then I guess you need to figure out why you are not anymore... |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Why???? |
Sat 11/24/07 03:40 PM |
You can't move on while you are still living together... and obviously you still love your ex so it's really not fair to this other guy that you want to meet.
You need to be able to cut your ties with your ex (besides things that have to do with your child) Only talk to him about things that regard the child you have together. Before you get into another relationship, you can't still be in the middle of one with your ex, trust me, I tried it... It fails miserably everytime.
One of you needs to move out so both of you can move on.
He doesn't have the right to be jealous if he is not with you anymore.
I hope this helps. |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: How do you approach a beautiful girl that you don't know? |
Sat 11/24/07 10:57 AM |
What could the possibly do to you besides tell you no?? At least you tried to talk to them, otherwise you will never know what happenes.
Look at it this way, if she doesn't like you, you don't even know her and she means nothing in your life, so in the end it really doesn't matter if she rejects you.
To many people are afraid to get rejected by a total stranger... makes no sense.
Just try to be cool and talk to her like she is a person, you might get somewhere... |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Breakup |
Sat 11/24/07 10:14 AM |
| my problem is that I am a "closure" person... For some stupid reason I feel I need that, I never got it so it drives me crazy. I want a "final answer" so to speak but I get nothing. Should I take that as my "final answer"? |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Breakup |
Sat 11/24/07 09:57 AM |
| Thats the problem, he's been dragging it out... I never get an official answer to anything. Sometimes he won't speak at all, sometimes he will talk and then stop talking all together. It drives me crazy. |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Breakup |
Sat 11/24/07 09:38 AM |
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start a lynch mob ? 
LOL I like the idea! But I'm trying to not go to jail lol |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: alone |
Sat 11/24/07 09:37 AM |
| I know the feeling... |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
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| Topic: Breakup |
Sat 11/24/07 09:32 AM |
What's the best way to get over a bad break up? You know the ones you just can't seem to get off your mind ...
Looking for some advice... |
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Jill298
Joined Fri 11/09/07
Posts: 9909
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| Topic: Why oh WHY do men love B%#!@s??? |
Wed 11/21/07 03:32 AM |
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ummm women do the same thing.they say they want a nice,caring guy that will listen to them but when they find it,all they can do is talk about their "a$$hole"ex bf
Agreed... It can go both ways |
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