Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: Useless Information ..... enjoy ! |
Mon 11/26/07 08:56 PM |
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hahahaah. omg, i love it. i totally tried licking my elbow...even though i must've tried like 7 times before! haha.
AHHH HA! So YOU are the one who tried it!  LOL |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: have you.. |
Mon 11/26/07 08:54 PM |
Hence many company policies were made...no dating co-workers. Its really all up to you and her, because some people can do it, some can't. Just like some can "be friends" after a relationship...others can't.
So its up to the both of you and what you are comfortable with.
Hope this helps! |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: New from Oklahoma |
Mon 11/26/07 08:41 PM |
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yeah, id leave but my kids are here. looks like im stuck for now.
As long as you are not in the city stuff, like Tulsa, OKC or Lawton, should be still cool, especially to raise the kids...unless the drug scene is happening around (like the meth labs that were popping up all over last I heard)
There is still "old school" people out there..stay with them, your kids will learn some good values as well.  |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: help please.. |
Mon 11/26/07 08:38 PM |
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I think that depends on "why" you broke up with them in the first place.. Really there is no rule for how long to wait, except for taking the time to be sure of your decision either way..
Good point! Make SURE of your reasons for taking them back! But if you are sure..DO NOT WAIT! |
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Topic: New from Oklahoma |
Mon 11/26/07 08:36 PM |
hey!
It's OKLAHOMA!! Where men are men... women are women.. and sheep are nervous!!! LOL
I can say that because I spent most of my life there! Broken Arrow, Oklahoma! They never fixed it either!
Just joking around..but did spend most of my life there. graduated Union High School in Tulsa. Good "down to earth" people in the midwest. |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: Seriously now, just curious |
Mon 11/26/07 08:32 PM |
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ok I admit it I'm shy at face to face with an attractive lady but
getting to know someone on line and getting your points across without that nervousness helps.
Thats a good point as well. you get to show your character first, then your physical side. For men with women, that can be an advantage. Gives her a chance to really talk to the man and see past his exterior. |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: Seriously now, just curious |
Mon 11/26/07 08:26 PM |
| My reason is pretty simple. I don;t do the bar/club scene and thats not really the type of woman i would be interested in anyway. and there is very limited else in this area where i live. So this is at least worth a shot. its better than no shot at all. |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: internal 500 errors |
Mon 11/26/07 08:21 PM |
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Doubt a virus. The system is "timing out" and so you don;t get connected on the server. I could have it fixed in about 20 min if they would let me whack on thier servers.
You work on servers, eh?
talk to me what do you do?
LOL...IT network and systems engineer...17+ years, now "retired". I hate these things! LOL |
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Topic: internal 500 errors |
Mon 11/26/07 08:19 PM |
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im not trying to say that your wrong but i heard it from someone that talked to the owners.
I'm not saying for sure its not. Given the error message, it can one of 50 different causes. Just go from the top of the list and work you way down. The gentleman that talked about the security and scripting could be correct as well.
Computers are very unforgiving. All it takes is a skipped/added/etc "." and nothing works. LOL |
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Topic: internal 500 errors |
Mon 11/26/07 08:11 PM |
| Doubt a virus. The system is "timing out" and so you don;t get connected on the server. I could have it fixed in about 20 min if they would let me whack on thier servers. |
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Topic: There is a difference, right??? |
Mon 11/26/07 08:08 PM |
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flirting is when you are charming a woman or a man with the goal of dating or having sex. complements are used to make people feel good and show you care
Well it is definitely meant as the latter. but now understand why some people could possibly see it as a flirt since this is a dating site. I just had to add in the "dating site" part and realized where it was being said.
But thanks for that definition! |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: There is a difference, right??? |
Mon 11/26/07 08:02 PM |
LOL..ok here is one.
I get an e-mail saying I am "flirting" when I pay a "compliment", like I see a lovely woman with a great smile. So I make it a point to say so..all I say is "hope you never lose that GREAT smile".
Now is that considered a "flirt"? I truly only mean it as a compliment. heck, I'm 42, and I have said iot to some that are like 24. I have just learned to appreciate many things over the years. Like when I see someone, can be anyone, male or female, do something good, use thier brain, can be many things, I make sure I let them know ... like saying "good job" and mean it.
So, am I sending "mixed signals" when I say something as a compliment, like "great smile". To me its like saying "great painting" or "nice car". it's meant as a "compliment" ... not a "flirt". should I change that..at least on a dating site? I just thought about that point too ... I guess on a dating site many things could be taken as a "flirt" huh???
I may have just answered my own question! lOL |
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Topic: Trust |
Mon 11/26/07 07:47 PM |
| They all go hand in hand. Honesty and telling the truth builds the trust. |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: Does the IM system work here?? |
Mon 11/26/07 07:42 PM |
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Well maybe its more personal with me...I prefer emails! I didn't mean that post to be mean. 
Oh, no offense taken at all!
I'm just learning all this, so my questions are in earnest. |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: 5 wishes |
Mon 11/26/07 07:40 PM |
| And don't ever lose that GREAT smile! :-) |
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: Does the IM system work here?? |
Mon 11/26/07 07:37 PM |
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Hint, lots of women on here don't like to be IM anway. Good luck.
Thanks for that reply! is it just here or just no IM in general..like on Yaho?? I know, may be a silly question, but I'm new to this arena. any advise would be helpful. :)
Thanks again! :) |
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Topic: Does the IM system work here?? |
Mon 11/26/07 07:30 PM |
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Try removing pop-up blockers.
Thanks, but the box comes up fine..just no reply on the other end. Their system is not the most solid around, get a lot of system error time outs too. |
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Sumthingdifferent
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Sumthingdifferent
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| Topic: Does the IM system work here?? |
Mon 11/26/07 07:25 PM |
Hello everyone,
I'm new around here and wondered, does the IM system work here? I have tried it a couple of times without success. So wondered if it works???
Thanks in advance!
PS...to the JustSayHi IT dept..fix your servers .. they time out way too much! if you need help I can fix that problem! :) |
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Topic: Does the IM system work here?? |
Mon 11/26/07 07:24 PM |
Hello everyone,
I'm new around here and wondered, does the IM system work here? I have tried it a couple of times without success. So wondered if it works???
Thanks in advance!
PS...to the JustSayHi IT dept..fix your servers .. they time out way too much! if you need help I can fix that problem! :) |
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