briancarr
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| Topic: Broken up on x-mas eve |
Tue 12/25/07 05:42 PM |
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Have her meet you somewhere and give her gifts for kids. They shouldn t suffer....
If she agrees to meet you try and talk if all she wants is kids gifts then move on, BUT if she is willing to talk be polite but stern and make sure she knows your upset and ask obvious questions.
Based on answers you can make your own decision.
Good luck
Wow what a doctor Phil moment. Why dont you tell him to fall on a knife. If she cared about him, or her kids she wouldnt be trampin. DONT SPLIT YOU TIME WITH ANOTHER MAN. |
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briancarr
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| Topic: Broken up on x-mas eve |
Tue 12/25/07 05:12 PM |
| I promise you if you dont leave her alone, she will be leading you around by your nose. The one and only thing you should be thinking about is yourself. Look your best, be your best. Work on yourself. The one thing that a women like that hates, is to see that you are doing better without her. The more you beg the more she knows you will be there to fall back on. Build you life so that she and everyone else knows you are the prize. A real MAN |
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briancarr
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| Topic: DONT MARRY HER |
Tue 12/25/07 04:50 PM |
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Everyone is intitled to an opinion.
Some are just way off from the truth.
I can not agree with the OP on this.
Well in your generation woman and men may have been different, but in most of the US the values have changed.I just dont want a man,or a woman to get stuck with a lemon, especially men. |
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briancarr
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Tue 12/25/07 04:35 PM |
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What is a "pro man"? A pimp or what? Sounds nasty, all the way around to me.
A pro man, means i support mens veiws, or willing to listen to mens veiws about woman. Men have to separate thier genitals from there brains and make better choices when it comes to woman. The only way to do that is to communicate with each other. No pimpin. |
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briancarr
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| Topic: ORGY! JUMP IN! |
Tue 12/25/07 03:29 PM |
| I like there stuff, but its hard to find my size |
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briancarr
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| Topic: DONT MARRY HER |
Tue 12/25/07 02:53 PM |
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QUOTE: there is no every and all. but the percentage is so high right now. Men and Woman share in the problem. All im saing is for both to beware. I did say that each should put the time in to reap the rewards of a good relationship. I am a man so i want to caution men even more. a lot of men have to start over with nothing. The law and another man is on the woman side. All im saing is stop just using your body as a test tube, and put in the work to have a good relationship.
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briancarr
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| Topic: Is this guy a jerk or what? |
Tue 12/25/07 01:42 PM |
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I have been talking to a guy online and phone for close to 3 months. We were supposed to meet Saturday before New Years and spend New Years together. As of today he called me mentally retarded because the other night on the phone I wasn't really talking just kinda doing uhhhh. I was at work all week with no day off and tired. I am hard of hearing and don't do well on the phone, and when I am tired my hearing is even worse.
So when he said something I didn't understand I said uhhhhh trying to figure it out. For close to 20 minutes he kept calling me retarded and screaming in my ear. When I said all he does is mumble when he has been drinking he said "Don't try and turn the tables on me because you are retarded and I don't do that when I drink." Then he hung up on me.
So is this his way of saying I don't want to meet you or is he really just a 100% jerk.
You are a retard if you go. would you jump off a 10 story building, or a 12 story building. |
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briancarr
Joined Mon 12/17/07
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| Topic: DONT MARRY HER |
Tue 12/25/07 01:14 PM |
| With the way people are practicing relationships now, someone will always get hurt. Everyone wants everything now. I want money now, iwant a big car now, i want sex, now, i want a baby now. Everything now, but what about doing the work for it. Its all a trap. Heres the Baby,Cars,money,and Sex. Now this is the price you have to pay. The people that are willing to put in the time to get what they want are less than the get it now people. We are treating our lives like material things, so Man, or Woman, BEWARE. Stop,Look,and Listen to what is good for a long and prductive life, and stop just letting your bodies be a dumping ground. Thank You |
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briancarr
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| Topic: DONT MARRY HER |
Tue 12/25/07 11:30 AM |
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To put women in a sentence like this is to forget their humaan beings women and cars have nothing in common.
Of course noy physically. Im not tring to make them object. Much respect to all woman. I wouldNT be here if it wasnt for one. All im saying to men is, before you give everything you have, BEWARE.If the woman is going to date and allow a test drive, then keep it out as long as you can before you buy it. |
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briancarr
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| Topic: DONT MARRY HER |
Tue 12/25/07 11:27 AM |
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DUDE, if you say "anything to get in her pants", Then the problem is with you. You should be more sincere and you will attract sincere women. If you act like a player, then you will attract the gold diggers.
Not true we all court the same way. We like our egos stroked. We like someone to make us feel good. To keep that feeling going, you will say what you need to. Sometimes do what you need to.
Well, the wording seems to indicate that sex is your primary motivation. And if that is the case, there is the problem. A focus on sex is not a focux on the relationship and therefore, pitfalls to the relationship are overlooked, and then things don't work out. Leading to bad feelings and bitterness on both sides.
Please everything a man does is just about motivated by sex. Thats the way the are wired. I dont care what it is. After its done the payoff is sex. There are thousands of examples. when it comes to dealing with a woman, no matter what title you put, for the man the end result is to have sex. Wife,sex. Girlfiend,sex.hot girl at work,sex. |
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briancarr
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| Topic: DONT MARRY HER |
Tue 12/25/07 11:19 AM |
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Wow!!!!
Sorry that you feel so cynical about relationships. Good luck on the lot.
Im not being cynical. If i were wrong, then tell me why everyone has to try it(sex) out first with the person before they think about getting married. Its suppose to be the other way around. So if your going to skip the most important part why not just have sex. |
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briancarr
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| Topic: DONT MARRY HER |
Tue 12/25/07 11:13 AM |
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DUDE, if you say "anything to get in her pants", Then the problem is with you. You should be more sincere and you will attract sincere women. If you act like a player, then you will attract the gold diggers.
Not true we all court the same way. We like our egos stroked. We like someone to make us feel good. To keep that feeling going, you will say what you need to. Sometimes do what you need to. |
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briancarr
Joined Mon 12/17/07
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| Topic: DONT MARRY HER |
Tue 12/25/07 10:57 AM |
| Dont her. The sequel is never better than the original. The show, or wedding is the most important thing to her. The same way a man will say anything to a woman to get in her pants, a woman will do anything while your in her pants to get to the show(wedding). Just look at all the single woman. Devorced,single,widows. Its like going to a used car lot of luxury cars. Just pick one with low miles, drive for a while, and before it starts costing to much money, trade it in. It works out for everyone. Everyone gets a new start. I know it sounds wrong, but the truth hurts. Im just pro man. |
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briancarr
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briancarr
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| Topic: Hmm..... |
Tue 12/25/07 09:31 AM |
| No its not cheating. Cheating is when you go on the pono sites, and download a bunch of thumbnail clips so you can have fun without having to look at her dissapointed face. I only heard about that of course. |
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briancarr
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briancarr
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briancarr
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| Topic: What are you tired OF? |
Tue 12/25/07 09:07 AM |
| Thanks lex man. Its been a long time since i laughed so hard. |
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briancarr
Joined Mon 12/17/07
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| Topic: to get a date is it all????? |
Tue 12/25/07 09:04 AM |
| Since ive become older i have to reset my eyesite to what a woman in my age group looks like, so its a little less about the looks. I not rich, so i she doesnt make her own money, it becomes about the money. i think you have to evaluate the whole package. Health is also a question, mental, and physical. Who wants a crazy goood looking broad, or a old broke down babe. Its the whole package. Buyer beware. |
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briancarr
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| Topic: What are you tired OF? |
Tue 12/25/07 08:48 AM |
| Did you ever wonder how you got thru something because you where so tired of dealing with it? like working the third shift,dealing with a partner who allways has an excuse to not have sex,or why you cant have sex with someone else, paying bills, taking care of kids all day, every day, washing your hands after you go to the bathroom, kissing your bosses butt for a quarter raise per year, waiting for dinner from a wife that has been home allday, waiting for you husband to finish fastening the toilet seat so you can just sit down without slidding off. What are your being tired of? |
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