Voluptuous
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Tue 11/04/08 01:03 PM |
I like "Thick" guys.
Someone that makes me feel little in their arms...well protected. I like Thick, SOLID guys.
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Voluptuous
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Mon 11/03/08 09:26 PM |
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Chubscout reporting for duty 
Alright soldier....now run over their to that crowd of men and shake your thang! 
Shook my "thang" sir but unfortunately my back went out
Help, I have fallen and I can't get up...(bring a few of your friends cause you can't do it alone) |
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Voluptuous
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 10:04 PM |
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omg your situation sounds like me and my best friend.
him and i have been friends for 7 years. we live states apart. his wife insists i want her husband and so i should leave him be.
well im not going to let that tear up our friendship so we are friends behind her back.
and its purely friendship.
so she found out the other day and was threatening me. and im scared of her why?!?
stupid drama lol.
You really need to be friends so much with someone that you'll go behind the back of their supposed life partner? No matter how petty she is being, he chose her and it seems pretty disrespectful of both of you to continue on behind her back. I would say why not get to know her as well and maybe she won't feel threatened by you. Then you get an added friend and get to keep the man friend as well. I just think that would be so much better for all concerned.
My best friend is a man.
I don't EVER do anything involving him that doesn't involve his wife.
He is my best friend but I love her too. I have a lot of respect for the marriage. I have stepped in and saved it twice already. |
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 05:22 PM |
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what are you talking about "within himself"
he can't control his ex, why are you blaming him
He allows her to treat him this way.
Most people have boundries and he hasn't established those with his EX.
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 12:14 PM |
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I agree with you...she should never have even gotten your phone number to text you.....still this guy sounds nice since he is genuinely interested in you....you might want to reconsider or at least discuss it with him & then decide
I talked to him but I didn't give him a chance to change my mind.
Things have to change with his EX and within himself before he can change my mind. |
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 12:12 PM |
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omg your situation sounds like me and my best friend.
him and i have been friends for 7 years. we live states apart. his wife insists i want her husband and so i should leave him be.
well im not going to let that tear up our friendship so we are friends behind her back.
and its purely friendship.
so she found out the other day and was threatening me. and im scared of her why?!?
stupid drama lol.
Yup.
DRAMA!
Similar situations EXCEPT she is an EX.
She shouldn't have ANY say what women he involves himself with- friendship or not.
He told me he had several female friends before the marriage but because she was insecure, she had him sever all ties with his female friends.
^^^
If he is allowing that female to run him into the ground like that...I can't help him.
He needs to learn to stand up for himself and those he cares about |
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 10:48 AM |
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I didn't say that.
Yes, I would have liked for him to stick around.
Yes, I would have liked "more" from him...eventually.
No, I refuse to place myself in a situation where things start off hostile with an EX. If later down the road, I did something to offend her or upset her, then an apology is due.
I can't see myself getting involved with him anymore if she still runs his life.
SHE isn't worth the hassle |
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Voluptuous
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 09:08 AM |
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okay i looked at ur pics and u r not fat...ur built like a woman is suppose to be w/ curves *welcome to the club* and don't worry over it the drama comes and goes...she's probably just some witch who realizes how bad she screwed up and blames everyone else
Thank you ma'am |
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 09:07 AM |
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Ouch!
I hope you find someone worth your time
I agree with Yaya
Thanks.
Not worried about it...
Just here for the conversation.
...The "butterflies in the stomach" when you might have met someone that could be more is just a bonus. |
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 09:04 AM |
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I can't control my ex...
despite breaking up with her every time i see her, she still comes back and stalks me and tries to start fights with every girl I interact with.
It's annoying and there is nothing I can do about it without breaking the law. Restraining order will make her go even crazier
what makes things worse is she is the mother of my baby.
THIS IS THE EXACT SITUATION HE IS FALLING INTO
...sad thing is, I gave him the link to this chat because I wanted him to see what others thought about the ex and he thinks it's a direct attack on him. He feels as though I am making him out to be a liar.
Bottom line is, I stated in my profile:
"I am only here for friendship but if more emotion happens to evolve, I wouldn't be a fool and push it away..."
He seems like the type that is considered a "good catch". He makes an Excellent friend.
...UNFORTUNATELY, he comes with a little bonus, his ex wife.
She shouldn't be in the picture any longer because she has been "X'ed" BUT he has a little boy with her.
Unfortunately for him, that woman will ALWAYS have an attachment to him. She clearly doesn't want him to be happy...and to be honest, I WON'T willingly walk myself into a situation like that. She is more than a red flag- she a burning heat lamp that consumes him.
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Voluptuous
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Sun 11/02/08 08:52 AM |
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I'd tell them both to go play in traffic. You don't need that kind of drama no matter what you look like, they're both trashy and ignorant.
I would LOVE for HER to play in traffic. |
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Voluptuous
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Sat 11/01/08 09:34 PM |
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<<<<<<<<<<< For some unknown reason I would love to inflict this kind of pain on that kind of woman 
Mental note.....never piss off Voluptuious.
I wouldn't hurt you Goof |
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Voluptuous
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Sat 11/01/08 09:31 PM |
| <<<<<<<<<<< For some unknown reason I would love to inflict this kind of pain on that kind of woman |
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Voluptuous
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Sat 11/01/08 09:24 PM |
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My cellulite dimples are so big, I gave them names...Big Bertha and Dolores.
Sad to say...they some how got invitro and gave birth to a chunky little boy named Beauford
Oh yeah?.....well, my bologne has a first name...
...M. I. C. K. E. Y mouse...! |
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Voluptuous
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Sat 11/01/08 09:22 PM |
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My mother in law LOATHES me!
Well with you having that nasty habit of sticking a finger in your nose....who can blame her??? lmao
...That and I rip my teddy bears apart |
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Voluptuous
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Voluptuous
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Sat 11/01/08 09:05 PM |
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No idea!
Unfortunately there are a few guys out there that have practiced enough to mislead women...
Those are the pricks that have ruined it for everyone else.
I can say, when my husband would look at me, I felt his love. That man was head over heels inlove with me. It would hurt his heart to touch me because he knew just how much damage I could do to him...little did he know, he had me the same.
That's so cool! I soooo want that! 
I know it!
Sad thing is, once you've had it, you spend the rest of your life hoping to get it again |
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Voluptuous
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Sat 11/01/08 09:01 PM |
No idea!
Unfortunately there are a few guys out there that have practiced enough to mislead women...
Those are the pricks that have ruined it for everyone else.
I can say, when my husband would look at me, I felt his love. That man was head over heels inlove with me. It would hurt his heart to touch me because he knew just how much damage I could do to him...little did he know, he had me the same. |
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