heathersaysgobucks
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: Your Polling Place |
Tue 11/04/08 12:59 PM |
| We don't have curtains....lol. I think I might have made an all time world record.....6 minutes in and out the door! I knew exactly what each answer was going to be (except one that somehow I missed on the sample ballots, I had to make an educated guess), we still use the old fill in the circles with dots method. I scanned, got the A-ok and was out the door! There was no line, so it was a very good experience! |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: How to make better friends? |
Mon 11/03/08 05:38 PM |
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How can I make better friends and be more out going?
ok thats it- im moving to the Akron area at the end of the month- we will go hang out and I will teach you how to be outgoing- im gonna be brand spanking new up there and i can do it- let me know if you want to hang
Couldn't have asked for a nicer lady to move into our great state! |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: One more day |
Mon 11/03/08 05:25 PM |
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Lady....with all due respect.... Please provide any link or an honest refrence to your accusations of acorn and this 97 year old woman. To me it is all hersay at this point. Just as they say she isnt able to vote due to her age I would speculate she would not be much of a witness either. First hand experience tells me many old folks wish to vote but are not capable or ble to find the channels available to them so they do not have to travel to the polls. This could be the last election this women ever votes in and the effort to get her to vote could have been well intended. I would at least need a link with a little more info to go along with your accusations.
It's not an accusation....it happened and it's happening other places as well. Of course she won't be a good witness, she had no idea what had even happened. Her family was involved enough to inquire as to just who the hell had been allowed to visit her and "help" her to vote. I don't need to provide you proof of something I was using as an example of the crap that's going on everywhere this election season. Do you provide honest undeniable proof of everything you have posted (9 pages worth since you have last talked about anything else here really) related to politics?
There are stories all over the place, not just this one, of dishonest voting practices. Your argument seems to be that basically it won't stand up in court? If we all did things dishonestly just because we have a good idea that we won't get convicted of it, would we be acting justly?
Even though your giving me grief..I still stand by my words that I appreciate your passion.  You do not seem open to listening to any other opinions and that's your right. Just as it's mine to state my own opinions. Don't look for any "honest references" from me though because I'm not a big fan of coping and pasting other peoples propaganda. I'll just continue to read, listen and think. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: One more day |
Mon 11/03/08 03:52 PM |
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Ohio might be going that way, but I don't think it's anything close to concession just yet. Let's let the people vote can we? Jeesh!
Just down the road from me someone is filing a lawsuit because their 97 year old Aunt (who is in a nursing home and senile) was "helped" by someone to vote Obama. This women hasn't been of sound mind to vote in years, much less kept up on politics this year. Shenanigans like that just tick me off.
A good debate is always entertaining and informative, but this year tops it in the disgusting ways not to act department. It's been full of empty promises and thinly veiled threats. God help us with what's to come, no matter what the outcome is.
I think the times are just awful and have been for the last 8 years, a disaster for america in every way that is measurable. I dont have much faith in a senile 97 year old woman. I dont think she would make a good witness in court or be able to make a good decision on who to vote for, however she does have a right to vote and perhapse the person "helping her" intended to do just that.
Dude, this was the work of ACORN...it wasn't some well intentioned citizen. I guess I should have explained that, just thought you'd all figure that out on your own.
I don't think the last 8 years have been awful at all. You might make a point about the last couple years and the decline of our financial system lately, but the last 8 years? If your going to go that far, better go back to Clinton years too eh? He just MIGHT have started some of what you were calling awful 2 or 3 years later.
I admire your passion and respect you for trying to do something to further a cause, whether I agree with all of it or not. However, I do not think that having tunnel vision is appropriate for any cause. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: What is the #1 rule around your house? |
Mon 11/03/08 02:28 PM |
Sign posted in my house:
~House rules~
1. If you sleep in it - make it up.
2. If you wear it - hang it up.
3. If you drop it - pick it up.
4. If you spill it - wipe it up.
5. If you eat out of it - wash it.
6. If you open it - close it.
7. If you empty it - fill it up.
8. If it rings - answer it.
9. If it howls - feed it.
10. If it cries - love it.
I'd say the number one rule though is....
Whatever Mom says, goes. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: One more day |
Mon 11/03/08 02:14 PM |
Ohio might be going that way, but I don't think it's anything close to concession just yet. Let's let the people vote can we? Jeesh!
Just down the road from me someone is filing a lawsuit because their 97 year old Aunt (who is in a nursing home and senile) was "helped" by someone to vote Obama. This women hasn't been of sound mind to vote in years, much less kept up on politics this year. Shenanigans like that just tick me off.
A good debate is always entertaining and informative, but this year tops it in the disgusting ways not to act department. It's been full of empty promises and thinly veiled threats. God help us with what's to come, no matter what the outcome is.
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heathersaysgobucks
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: Someone you wouldn't marry |
Mon 11/03/08 01:57 PM |
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 What is the point of dating someone you wouldn't consider marrying? 
There is no point....for me anyhow. Maybe I wouldn't be thinking actual marriage, but I definitely would not date someone I don't consider long term potential. Although sex is great and all I don't date just to get laid. That's just a nice benefit with the right person. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: Last time was... |
Sun 11/02/08 07:08 PM |
| Ah, you take turns.....ok....well I could see where that costs more. Drinks to me doesn't mean getting wasted either really. Just drinks or whatever. Child care yep, that can be expensive too. |
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heathersaysgobucks
Joined Sun 01/06/08
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| Topic: How Do You Know.... |
Sun 11/02/08 06:29 PM |
| Ohhhhhhhhhhhh.......BWAHAHAHAHAHA.....sometimes I just don't get it...haha |
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heathersaysgobucks
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: separated |
Sun 11/02/08 06:13 PM |
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hey all. i am recently separated and going thru the motions. i was just wondering if anyone here has been thru it? i am almost certain mine will be going to divorce court sooner then later. if anyone has any input id love to here it. i think i am past the sad and missing stage its been 5 weeks 
Wow....it's been 2 years since my ex left the house and I'm still not totally through all stages of it all, albeit much better than I was 5 weeks in. Good Luck and watch the rebound stuff.......heal first! |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: what to say to daughter after mother walks out on us |
Sun 11/02/08 06:01 PM |
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I need some help on how to talk to 10 year old daughter about her mom leaving us and not contacting us for over 9 months.
any help out their would be nice
thank you.
Wow.....I'm so sorry to hear of this happening to yet another person. I agree with the answers already given.
One of my twin daughters is going through a really really rough phase this last year with her Dad too. I have to say I did not do everything right. I started out following the advice of others here, but it got so hard for me to try to gloss over the lies and heartbreak he was causing. I finally just had to be upfront and honest and tell her it's ok to be sad and angry, but we have to get on with our lives and not allow this to tarnish everything else we have going on here.
I don't think a child should ever have to think that running away or dumping your responsibilities is an ok thing to do. Yes, I would love for her to have a good relationship with her Dad, but lately I think what little they do have is causing more harm than good. You and only you will be able to decide what's best in your situation, but I surely wish you the best of luck and will put up a little prayer for you both tonight. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: Guys PLEASE.... |
Sun 11/02/08 05:48 PM |
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omg your situation sounds like me and my best friend.
him and i have been friends for 7 years. we live states apart. his wife insists i want her husband and so i should leave him be.
well im not going to let that tear up our friendship so we are friends behind her back.
and its purely friendship.
so she found out the other day and was threatening me. and im scared of her why?!?
stupid drama lol.
You really need to be friends so much with someone that you'll go behind the back of their supposed life partner? No matter how petty she is being, he chose her and it seems pretty disrespectful of both of you to continue on behind her back. I would say why not get to know her as well and maybe she won't feel threatened by you. Then you get an added friend and get to keep the man friend as well. I just think that would be so much better for all concerned. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: How do you a guy is really into me in Cleveland Ohio? |
Sun 11/02/08 04:39 PM |
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Of course you ultimately have to decide. Use your gut instincts and get out when it doesn't feel right. I'm just saying when people say the same things over and over it kind of loses its meaning.
It's never about being perfect. Hell if that was the case none of us would ever find love. It's about finding the one that is perfect for YOU. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: How do you a guy is really into me in Cleveland Ohio? |
Sun 11/02/08 04:26 PM |
| Hun, this is like the 4th time we have read something similar from you. If someone is treating you badly you have to look inward and find out why you are allowing it. Maybe now is not the time to be looking for a guy but rather finding out more about yourself? If your dead set on dating right now look for people who have similar ideals and ask questions before you agree to a date. Above all, NEVER allow someone to walk all over you. Good Luck. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: A Few Extra Pounds... |
Sun 11/02/08 03:55 PM |
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It's what in the heart that counts and not the weight.
And the bank account means something too ya know.  
Not nearly as much as you might think it does. I guess I can only speak for myself, but I appreciate a man who works hard and is responsible......but don't need someone to pay my bills. It is hard to date someone who can't afford to really go out on a date, but since I'm in close to the same predicament (I'm a single mom which means pretty much always close to broke..lol) I wouldn't mind less expensive dates and just good old fashioned getting to know each other.
I know you were just being facetious....but this does seem to be a tough spot for some people in this day and age of a lot of single parents. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: any one intrested |
Sun 11/02/08 03:38 PM |
Your very handsome......Maybe put a little bit more on your profile about yourself? I think you'll do just fine. Good Luck!
I know you weren't really asking for help, but I think you might peak someones interest with some more information. |
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heathersaysgobucks
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| Topic: How Do You Know.... |
Sun 11/02/08 03:08 PM |
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Yes others always see it before you do the way a man looks at a woman when he thinks no one else is noticing can tell alot
Sigh......that only happens in fairy tales, right?
I would not know how gay men look at eachother LOL
??? I didn't quite get that one? Fairy tales have gay men in them? |
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