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Topic: One GLORIOUS profile Fri 10/10/08 09:32 AM
lol lilith... I would, but his profile has been deleted. I reported it for possibly being fake and they removed it from that site.
 
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Topic: One GLORIOUS profile Fri 10/10/08 09:18 AM
I think I found the winner for the jerk of the day!! Either that, or someone BITTER is trying to get this guy back... Check out this profile:



A little about me...
This is the real me. I am not anything like my other profile states. I say I am a christian but I dont treat others nice at all. I like to exaggerate the truth on a lot of things. I am really just a man that is really insecure and that has a lot of control issues. When I am in a relationship with a woman, I expect her to not have any male friends and that I would be #1. If you do have male friends then I will probably read your emails and check your cell phone frequently because I wont trust you. Most likely we will fight ALL the time because I always have to be right. Yes, I have a kid but I only see him once a year so you wont have to worry about him interferring in our relationship. I hope if you have kids they wont either. I don't believe your kids should come first.

What are you looking for in a partner?
Looking for a submissive woman for marriage. I prefer someone that owns a house and has good credit because I am really tired of renting a room from this lady I live with.

I'd just like to add...
If we hit it off that would be great. If not, I can always do what I did to my last girlfriend and cheat on you then send you pictures of me kissing other woman to prove how happy I am. The truth is, I am so desperate to find that woman to control that I am on 7 different singles sites. I hope this site brings you to me.
 
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Topic: Sweet... Sun 10/05/08 01:14 AM
gnight flowerforyou
 
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Topic: I was thinking............... Fri 09/26/08 03:58 AM
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where's the quote button on this blasted new site?

um I think if you hugged someone who just fired you they'd either call security or just think you're plain nuts.


wow, I'm really tired. There it is. LOL
 
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Topic: I was thinking............... Fri 09/26/08 03:57 AM
where's the quote button on this blasted new site?

um I think if you hugged someone who just fired you they'd either call security or just think you're plain nuts.
 
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Topic: I was thinking............... Fri 09/26/08 03:47 AM
Yay it's almost 4am and I've lost my ability to spell.. I think I need another hug!
 
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Topic: I was thinking............... Fri 09/26/08 03:46 AM
I agree.. manditory hugs for all banana
 
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Topic: come and get some.... Fri 09/26/08 03:30 AM
bigsmile thanks

Breakfast is always better when there's a hug involvedheart
 
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Topic: come and get some.... Fri 09/26/08 03:24 AM
Can I trade my bacon for a hug?
 
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Topic: favorite part Fri 09/26/08 03:23 AM
Even if a guy has gross, dirty hands from working on a car all day... he's sweaty... greasy... with gunk under his nails, a funky odor coming from beneath his shirt, bad breath, his hair all disheveled, his pants full of oil and dirt... he's still the most beautiful thing in the room if I've got the hots for him love smitten

ughtears

What the hell is wrong with me?? laughing
 
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Topic: Ok who is going to....... Fri 09/26/08 03:09 AM
Since you're rich, would you be a doll and send a private jet to Fresno to pick me up and pay my entire way and then drop me back off at home when we're through? Thanks bigsmile heart
 
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Topic: favorite part Fri 09/26/08 03:05 AM
If it's a man I'm attracted to, his whole self is my favorite part.
 
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Topic: Just wanted to let ya'll know Fri 09/26/08 03:02 AM
cool... out of curiousity, how long did you talk and date before you got married?
 
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Topic: how old do i look ? Fri 09/26/08 02:59 AM
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Topic: Finished! Tue 09/23/08 03:44 AM
Have fun, play nice, and good luck! flowerforyou
 
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Topic: Where are all the "Real" people? Sat 09/20/08 04:58 PM
UNfortunately a great deal of people that are completely antisocial in the outside world can pretend they're just like everyone else when they're online. When it comes time to meet someone, a dose of reality hits and they are either married or undesireable in one way or another... and know they will be found out. The fantasy comes to an end at that point, unless the other person believes whatever excuses they keep coming up with and chooses to keep it an online "relationship."

You just have no clue until you meet the person. If they decide to show up.

That's why it's better to choose a shallow and cheap meeting place... like a coffee shop... if they don't show, you've only spent a couple bucks on a coffee you can easily enjoy alone.
 
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Topic: The kid who never stops talking... Wed 09/17/08 01:31 AM
Wow, I'd say you really know your resources. Good for you! Thanks for the info and your comments. It's appreciated flowers
 
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Topic: I think I made a mistake Tue 09/16/08 05:12 AM
For the sake of all parties involved, I hope things work out for the better. God works miracles, but we also have to do our part. It's a good thing his family is aware and has been helping you.

People usually threaten the worst when they are the most afraid of losing something (or someone), so try to remain civil as you have been... but if necessary, take action to make sure that child is safe. I don't know how many times I was threatened by my ex regarding my child... and most of the time, he did it because he was afraid of paying child support or losing his daughter.

People do desperate things in desperate times, regardless of whatever bond you may have shared at one time.

Stay alert about it all and have faith.
 
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Topic: I think I made a mistake Tue 09/16/08 02:08 AM
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We had a very VERY long talk. Smoothed things out. He knows that I have his entire family on my side. As well as mine. They will come between him and our daughter if need be. They will take her back to America if he tries anything stupid.

For now, it is civil in our friendship and shared parenting.

He has heard the threats made by his mother and his brothers and cousins about if he tries to keep our daughter there without my permission and against her will.

*sigh* I hate when crap like this gets ugly, cause it's the princess that gets hurt.


They could also be telling you these things just to appease you. Be weary of it. Do your research. Make sure you know your rights and your daughter's rights NO MATTER what he or is family says. Find out if there are time limits and find out what it would take for him to make her become an Israeli citizen. Learn it like the back of your hand so you can know if these steps are being taken. Don't put blind trust like that in anyone... at least not where it concerns your child. Good luck and God bless.
 
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Topic: The kid who never stops talking... Mon 09/15/08 10:08 PM
Holy crap, that's way extreme. I wasn't thinking it was some clinical issue, but that it's simply been a product of bad parenting. Because her dad has been the primary caregiver over the last 6 yrs (I've been there in the summers and over the phone every 2-3 days), there have been inconsistencies in parenting styles.

Although we have taught our daughter to speak up when she has concerns (especially regarding what she feels to be an injustice), we obviously have not laid down the difference between asserting yourself and butting in constantly.

Also, I'm having to deal with years of her being trained "not to listen to mom, because she doesn't have any right to run your life." There's this, and the fact that she just moved in with me (who's broke) and away from her dad (who gave her pretty much whatever she wanted). So yeah.

So it's a whole wide range of different things.
 

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