iceprincess
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| Topic: Child Support Spreadsheet required... |
Thu 10/30/08 12:05 PM |
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My opinion on child support (being a single parent) is that it should be treated just like SSI the parent receiving should have to account for every penny, deliniating out what portion goes for housing, food, clothing, "play", transportation, ect and provide documentation supporting this.........and reports should be supplied to the non-custodial parent and state child-support office quartely.....the Gov't has a right to know where there money is being spent and so should parents who have to pay.
I did this on my own for my ex when he paid and there was never any issuehe could raise about where "his' money went......to me the money is the childrens our marriage ended he was in no way obligated to support me any longer.
How did you figure out roof over head, utilities, detergent, gasoline driving them around, toothpaste, and such?
I took the average cost of those items in my area rent-700, groceries to logically feed 3 people for a month-200 (i choose to cook, don't do boxed meals this includes laundry supplies),gas-320(80per tank i use 1 tank per week going to from work and running after kids), utilities:fuel oil for the winter season-700,electricity on budget-140 no trash or water bill
Total for this comes to-2060/3=686.67 and since I'm an adult and logically use more of these items I figure I am responsible for 2/3 my ex paid 750 for 2 children so there was approx 64 or 32 a month per child left over for my children to with as they chose.
You could raise the argument that what he gave me barely covered the cost I estimated of raising my children but he didn't bring them into this world alone and I don't believe he is responsible for paying for them alone.No i never figured cost of clothing and school supplies and extra cirruculars but we alternated years on paying for these items in and we each spend enough throughout the year on extra things so it has never been an issue. On a personal level we detest each other but but I have never seen that as a reason to try andfleece him when i could.
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Trust ??? |
Wed 10/29/08 09:49 AM |
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People are too unstable to trust. The best you can do is hope and put forth a little faith. I mean really - People suck donkey nuts for the most part.
We are all out for our selves to one extent or another. Between our own moodiness, lust and self absorption and other peoples moodiness, lust and self absorption it’s a wonder we just don’t all just try and kill each other.
Even people who try to be kind get kicked around and what happens most of the time when they do?? Eventually they get tired of the crap and turn into Assholes. Who can blame them really?
After enough people have screwed you over, talked behind your back, stolen from you, cheated on you and broke your heart why not be an Ass?
I don’t want to hear that bull about people making a choice to be good even though they have been treated poorly either. That is a load of crap. People who get kicked around and decide to be good afterward are always either cowards full of fear or mental weaklings.
That’s the truth as I see it.
PEOPLE SUCK!!!
Actually it's those who hide behind that wall of anger and general guardeness that are weak. It takes more courage to put yourself out there now knowing the potential of what could happen than it does to stay locked up within one's self.
That's not to say jump blindly caution is always healthy to a degree........but you also don't turn a blind eye to what might be just because you've been scathed by the fates....... |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Child Support Spreadsheet required... |
Tue 10/28/08 08:21 PM |
My opinion on child support (being a single parent) is that it should be treated just like SSI the parent receiving should have to account for every penny, deliniating out what portion goes for housing, food, clothing, "play", transportation, ect and provide documentation supporting this.........and reports should be supplied to the non-custodial parent and state child-support office quartely.....the Gov't has a right to know where there money is being spent and so should parents who have to pay.
I did this on my own for my ex when he paid and there was never any issuehe could raise about where "his' money went......to me the money is the childrens our marriage ended he was in no way obligated to support me any longer. |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Should women pay when out on a date? |
Tue 10/28/08 07:09 PM |
I've always felt whomever was in the better finacial position paid. If you both have it then it's up for grabs.
I feel I'll get it back eventually in one form or another.
Me paying every so often also doesn't make it feel so much like I'm being bought...It's a big hangup of mine..I owe no man anything on any level. |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Ladies, your feelings |
Wed 10/22/08 09:30 PM |
| I figure if your so lacking in verbal skills that the worst thing you can think to say to me is to call me a c*nt or b*tch i've already won the argument. Why bother upstaging your lack of intelligence further by continuing to argue with you. This for me holds true be it man or woman, if your so lacking in intellectual skills that you must resort to names you should quit while your ahead. |
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iceprincess
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iceprincess
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| Topic: 2months and not eating |
Wed 10/22/08 04:54 PM |
Applesauce has a lot of acid in it............not a good thing to be giving a two month old. If your really worried give him hypoallergenic formula and check with the dr about maybe giving some baby rice or oatmeal but definitly not table food. 14lbs at 2 months is a really good weight. But if your worried try a pediatric specialist.
Sounds like he may be colicy my daughter was for the first 3 months of life and she was 6 weeks premature. we used to have to hold her and do squats for about 2.5hrs everynight to get her to calm down and go to sleep............I had an awesome ass....LOL may want to try it colicy babies love "white noise" and smooth constant motion. |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Adult meds given to kids |
Sat 10/18/08 02:05 PM |
My daughter had some of the same issues from birth i couldn't even breast feed.Had to be placed on hypoallergenic formula and fed approx every hour and was on zantac. We had feeding issues till she was about 4 months old and could never take reg or soy formula.
It took two specialist to come to figure it out. I'd seek one out. |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Pro Life?.... |
Sat 10/18/08 01:58 PM |
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IT'S WRONG !!!!...you know it and I know it...
Judge not lest yee be judged.
Used to be pro-life no matter what the reason....come on what could be so damn bad that you'd have to have an abortion.
GOD made me eat my spoken and unspoken words.......till you've been there you can't make an educated choice nor can you judge another for thiers. |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Is Barack the Bobby we missed? |
Tue 10/14/08 10:49 PM |
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I don't like either!!!!!! But McCain spent over 5 year's as a POW so he know's about getting screwed by our government!!!!!!
And he knew sure knew how to screw over his first wife. 
Winx,,, What did she do for those 5 year's?????
From what I've read, she was taking care of the children.
Question i have is who are we to judge? His wife had a choice and she chose to overlook his infidelity....her choice. Do some research on PTSD and issues most pow's have after coming and reacclimating to regular society. His actions are far from uncommon. Irregardless it has no bearing on whether he is better suited to running this country. |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: 545 PEOPLE |
Tue 10/14/08 10:38 PM |
| hence why we have elections...........obviously we as the "American" public aren't pissed off enough about any of it, we keep relecting the governing body. That or half of us abstain from voting and sit back and complain that the half of us that did weren't enough to get them out of office. |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: How many actually |
Tue 10/14/08 08:48 PM |
| I vote just so I have a right to complain......LOL |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Why |
Tue 10/14/08 02:22 PM |
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Three things popped into my head: A snausages commercial, a lucky dog commercial, and a screenplay starring Eddie Murphy........
Ok I'm confused...........but hey whatever works for you........LOL |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Why |
Tue 10/14/08 01:25 PM |
Why the hell do i do this
To me
Why the hell do i try
Anymore
I know your using me
I allow you too
I give you what you ask
To keep you coming back
What do I get out of it?
What am I gaining?
More heartache
More questions I can't answer?
Do I really think you'll ever love me?
Do I belive you'll ever change?
Am I deluding myself that you care?
Do I allow myself to be used
Because in doing so i control you?
I have it
You want it
So who is using who
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Women Who Dont Shut Up |
Thu 09/25/08 10:15 AM |
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Strength
A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape ...
but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape...
A strong woman isn't afraid of anything ...
but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear...
A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her ...
but a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone...
A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future...
a woman of strength realizes life's mistakes can also be God's blessings and capitalizes on them...
A strong woman walks sure footedly ...
but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls...
A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face ...
but a woman of strength wears grace...
A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey ...
but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong...
This was my grandmother and one of the strongest women i knew. This is my mother. And i hope to god in some semblence me.
I have my opinions and i voice them in a manner which has them actually heard not forced on others or at least i try. Of all the things i want on my resume a "*****" isn't one of them. Nobody likes a "*****" we may let you have your way to a point and we may let you"make" your point to ignore it later all in hopes you'll shut the hell up or at minumum leave the rest of the world in peace for a short while. *****es are not who we want as influences in our childrens lives or as confidiants. *****es have no room for growth as they are already rigid in their opinions and actions and choose to force them on the rest of the unsuspecting population |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Do you Click or Clique? |
Thu 09/25/08 10:00 AM |
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I don't really remember much in regards to Highschool other than i was the "smart girl" and I was the Ice Princess.
As for my work world I do my job expect you to do yours and keep your personal life at home. If I wanted to know what was going on in your personal world I'd ask.
As for online I figure ignore all you like after all what is done or not done in cyber world is not gonna affect whether i feed my kids today or have a job tomorrow.
So what cliques does that make me?
the RKISIT clique 
LOL I just call it living in reality.
Goal: survival of you and yours......... |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Do you Click or Clique? |
Thu 09/25/08 09:54 AM |
I don't really remember much in regards to Highschool other than i was the "smart girl" and I was the Ice Princess.
As for my work world I do my job expect you to do yours and keep your personal life at home. If I wanted to know what was going on in your personal world I'd ask.
As for online I figure ignore all you like after all what is done or not done in cyber world is not gonna affect whether i feed my kids today or have a job tomorrow.
So what cliques does that make me? |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Lexy Syndrome |
Thu 09/25/08 09:41 AM |
| providing the object of your affection doesn't chop off your head hold it up for the world to see and then start eating parts of you...........:) |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: VIEWS |
Wed 09/24/08 04:29 PM |
| your welcome......... |
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iceprincess
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| Topic: Dear God |
Wed 09/24/08 11:42 AM |
| Thanks' ive gotten through it and decided to share they byproducts' so to speak of my journey. |
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