pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: Southern Habits |
Tue 11/04/08 09:37 AM |
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Are you reading the Karma Sutra on the toilet there, Q?
it's a southern thing
Funny how we can't see either of your hands...
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: Bolting for the door. |
Tue 11/04/08 08:40 AM |
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any reference to meds, a wife or girlfriend, or informing me of their time(s) spent in jail
OMG, were you sitting at the next table? You heard all of that? Yes, I was the woman running full blast for the door screaming!  |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: Southern Habits |
Tue 11/04/08 08:16 AM |
Good Lord. Let's see now...people are offended at all the overweight stuff. People are offended at the sexually explicit stuff. People are offended by the regional slurs. And people are offended by being called non-threatening, non-abusive, non-profane names, too. And these people come to dating sites & public forums. Anonymously. Part of why I'm scared to address anyone by anything any more.
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I call those I dont know, sir, ma'am, especially if they are older than I.
All depends on circumstance of our meeting if professional - I address in a professional manner.
If in a social scene, I usually avoid pet names, but I am known for using 'sunshine' and or 'sexy'. But only after I get a read on the other person and feel they would not mind, unless my intent is that they mind 
I do that, too. But I call people I know "baby". It's not conscious; it just slips out.
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I say "yes mam" or "yes sir" to people of all ages. I said "yes mam" to a teenage waitress one evening and she just looked at me with this horrified look and asked, "Do I look that old?" 
I smiled and told her no and that I was only using the manners my Mom had instilled in me. It's just habit with me.
Yep. Military, Christian parents; strong code of manners, no excuses for not using them. The taste of Ivory liquid (getting mouth washed out) will be with me always. I don't use racist epitaphs of any kind. I don't use sexual ones either (unless with my friend lol). Is it time to go to "Hey, you?" Dang. What a prickly world it's turned into.
Just sayin'. Or, trying not to.... |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: What's your opinion on Snakebite Peircings? |
Tue 11/04/08 12:04 AM |
| msmyka is right; they close up when you take them out, no harm done. You have to take care of them (obviously), but they're not permanent like tats. I had visible piercings when I was younger; when I grew up, so did they. Now the private ones...that's a different story lol. |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: ever tried a little kindness? |
Mon 11/03/08 08:32 AM |
| There's also the fact that we have more contact with people due to the net in whatever context. The percentage of d-licks may be the same, there're just so many more people we expose ourselves to. Maybe that didn't come out right...expose...sigh...but you know what I mean. |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: whats tyour idea of a perfect day? |
Mon 11/03/08 08:29 AM |
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laying in bed smoking rocks watching midget porn
Where the %&^$#@ do you find all these midgets? & WHY?? roflmao |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: Some Junk in the Trunk ? |
Mon 11/03/08 07:23 AM |
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I'm a little guy. I'd like a little gal. And sometimes I just like a little.
Cool lol |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: Trust ??? |
Mon 11/03/08 07:18 AM |
| I trust Smith & Wesson |
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pyrochik
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: your EX!!!! |
Sun 11/02/08 08:51 PM |
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(1) very talented scam artist. But then again, isn't one enough? |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: A Few Extra Pounds... |
Sun 11/02/08 08:30 PM |
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Unless you like it rough.
Well....only in the bedroom....but I do not like to have my head bitten off. 
Yeah, but aren't those nibbles to die for?? |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: your EX!!!! |
Sun 11/02/08 08:23 PM |
| hmmm. My ex is a sociopath. He's serving 2 life sentences. Honestly? I wish he had done it before he commited the crimes he was guilty of. The world would be a better place. That may not be fair, but it would be just. |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: A Few Extra Pounds... |
Sun 11/02/08 08:59 AM |
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Thanks for this thread, Goof. My weight has been issue for me ever since I was started on steroids for my lupus. I had been skinny my whole life except for the two years during pregnancy and recovery from pregnancy. It was very depressing for me to suddenly be "fat".
It's really nice to read that I'm not "out of the game" because of this. 
Yes, Ma'am, that was my downfall, too...prednisone is a b..ad word. And all the other crap they give us for it. I'm in remission & controlling a lot of things by diet, so I've lost around 80 lbs. so far. It sucks when you're heavy because of meds, just soooo not fair. There should be a disclaimer!!! |
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pyrochik
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: Do you see this as REAL? |
Sun 11/02/08 08:37 AM |
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I find this place to be a valuable source of social interactions with no real pressure of the physicalities of dating. Here you can laugh or cry with no one judgeing you for it (most of the time). You can exchange differing view points and make friends with people from anywhere without being concerned about having to put out in the first date. Occasionally, I do meet people from these sites but, I get to know enough about them before hand to clearly know that I apprecieate them for who they are....not what they look like.
Well said!! 10 points for the boys team! |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: A Few Extra Pounds... |
Sat 11/01/08 12:32 PM |
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This size has also become "safe" for me. The less appealing I am to others, the less change and heart ache for my life.
Sounds screwed up- I know.
I did that, too, for almost 15 years. I missed so much & I did it to myself. Circle goes round and round, doesn't it? If it hadn't been for the fact I was DYING, I would still be there. Now I worry I've gone too far the other way. I still have to make myself look in mirrors & I'm supposed to be average now--but I look the same to me. Coming here is like my first step at getting back into the world, and it's hard. If it's screwed up, at least you have a lot of company. |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: why is it? |
Sat 11/01/08 12:19 PM |
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Let them run thier yapper.
So what?
Old age, experience and treachery will beat out youthful ignorance and inexperienced enthusiasm any day.
Point of reference: An old bull and a young bull stand on a hill top and look down at a herd of cows. The young bull says...."Let's run down there and f$ck a cow!!!!"
The old bull says "No....I am gonna walk down there and f$ck them all"
Hahahahaha!!! That's great! I almost shot coffee out of my nose. Helluva way to wake up... |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: What are you going to be |
Fri 10/31/08 09:10 AM |
When you grow up? Rewind your mind...if you could go back, knowing what you do now, what would you be today?  |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: lady s..... |
Thu 10/30/08 01:19 AM |
| I'm one of 7 (yep, SEVEN) girls; I was the tomboy by default. I own a house in the woods, so...I do ALL the yardwork, tree cutting, painting, some car stuff (alternator took me two days to change, I cried often lol), and I use the roto-tiller but the rows are kind of artistic. "Help the man?" I'd get dirty, get the beer, make dinner, & still count myself as the lucky one.... |
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pyrochik
Joined Mon 09/01/08
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| Topic: the complicated women :/ |
Thu 10/30/08 01:05 AM |
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I want someone to answer Iggy Pop's deep questions...
Fire Girl Iggy Pop
I loved you when It was alright
I'll love you when It all goes wrong
I love you when My eyes are open
I'll love you when My eyes are gone
Fire girl-say you will
I have no time To watch TV
Yours is the face That interests me
I loved you when You lost your raincoat
I'll love you when You lose your fear
Fire girl-say you will
Pockets full of rain, Bewildered by this change
Underneath the sky, I just want to fly
Fire girl-say you will
I'm so lonely So just do it
Say you will
I got a pocket full of rain |
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