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| Topic: Here I am...ROCK ME LIKE A HURRICANE!!! |
Tue 11/04/08 05:24 AM |
Hey that was Scorpions!!
You have some really nice pics in your profile.
I am sure you won't have any problems finding whatever you are looking for!
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unsure
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| Topic: what formula should be used..... |
Fri 10/31/08 10:17 PM |
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your payment would be based upon the median of the area you are in, not the average of the whole state, is what I am suggesting. This way if you are in a lower income area (or rather the children are), your payment(s) would be based upon that area instead of say rhode island.
And if hte children moved to a higher priced area, then the payment would be reviewed.
And like it is now, you couldnt just move cause you wanted to move etc. You would have to show reason why you are moving the children to where you go; i.e a better job.
So what you are trying to say is this...If you decide to live in the pricey places, your ex should be charged for that? I totally disagree with that!! If you decide to live in a high priced place...thats your choice, not your childrens! You are making it sound like its all on your children...You ARE the adult. If you can not afford to pay the bills, then you move somewhere cheaper...ITS JUST THAT SIMPLE!!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: Guys PLEASE.... |
Fri 10/31/08 10:03 PM |
Honestly, I think you did a wise thing by cutting the ties with him. I think something is kind of fishy myself. I kind of think that IF he doesn't have something still going on with his babies mama, that would be really shocking!!
I know when my "ex" picks up my boys...he doesn't even come in my house. IF he even thought about picking up my cell phone and checking out my numbers on there, I would be really upset. That is an invasion of my privacy and he is showing NO respect for me!!
I think you really had no choice but to kick his butt to the curb! In the long run, I think you saved yourself some heartache!! You sure don't need a psycho texting you all the time!! Good Luck |
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unsure
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| Topic: Loved Mingle Until... |
Thu 10/30/08 07:56 PM |
| I honestly would just block him and report him. There truly are a lot of nice people on here BUT once in awhile you will find a jerk!! Sorry that you had to find that jerk |
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unsure
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| Topic: Fllirting with text? |
Thu 10/30/08 07:47 PM |
I think its really easy to text flirt...you just have to think about what to say. If they say something really cute...then you put *blushing*
I know the guys really like it 
I am actually a texter more then a talker, I can express myself much better by writing then I can by talking...I know it sucks but hey!!
Good luck
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unsure
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| Topic: omg!!!!! i did it!!!!!!!! |
Thu 10/30/08 07:32 PM |
| LOL congrats!! I have been here over 2 years and I just have a little over 3700 posts!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: can a friend..... |
Thu 10/30/08 07:27 PM |
I would never risk the friendship! A true friend is so hard to find, so I would rather keep that and go find a lover somewhere else.
What would happen if things didn't work out between you? Then things would become strange on the "friendship" part. So I would never risk loosing a friend to take it a step up in the relationship...only because you might loose him both ways!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: COME ON BABY.....GIVE US THE SKINNY...WE WANNA KNOW!!! |
Thu 10/30/08 06:53 PM |
HMM ok I guess I will play
1. I am a cancer surviver..I had colon cancer in 04 and just went into remission last year 
2. I was deeply in love with a man from New Zealand and I swear he was my soul mate. I spent 18 days in New Zealand with him and he came here with me!!
3. My son and his girlfriend just got robbed and my son had a gun pointed to his head the whole time. It was a life changing experience for all of us!
4. I lost 125 pounds in 04 and I am still struggle every day trying to maintain it!!
5. My son went to Purdue but I want Notre Dame to win!!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: So, what are your kids dressing up for for Halloween? |
Mon 10/20/08 03:35 PM |
| Awww my boys are to old to go trick or treating this year!! I have no grandkids either so I guess I will be staying home and passing out candy this year!! Hey, take lots of pictures though...before you realize it, your kids will be to old to get dressed up..have lots of fun!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: English guy lost in the Indiana cornfields.. |
Mon 10/13/08 05:03 PM |
Hey and welcome to Indiana!!
I am very close to South Bend so I am a little ways from you but I know all about the cornfields 
I hope you find what you are looking for!!
Have fun and enjoy!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: mingle couple of the year goes to.......... |
Wed 10/08/08 09:30 PM |
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Well I already professed my disinterest in dating berg..... Is there more?
I think we all are hoping there is more!!!!
Hmmmm.... what do you KNOW?!?!?
Well geesh, if there really isn't anything good, make up something so we can start a thread about you tomorrow!!!  Don't worry, your name won't be mentioned!!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: mingle couple of the year goes to.......... |
Wed 10/08/08 09:23 PM |
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I often advise people to keep their personal business out of the forums.
can you type that again alittle louder though
I OFTEN ADVISE PEOPLE TO KEEP THEIR PERSONAL BUSINESS OUT OF THE FORUMS.
So.... just to be clear.... if I have something very very personal. Something about, say, my love life.... should I, or should I not post it on a public forum so that everyone can be a part of it?
I would say NO!! BUT is there something you want to tell us???
Well I alreaedy professed my disinterest in dating berg..... Is there more?
I think we all are hoping there is more!!!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: mingle couple of the year goes to.......... |
Wed 10/08/08 09:17 PM |
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I often advise people to keep their personal business out of the forums.
can you type that again alittle louder though
I OFTEN ADVISE PEOPLE TO KEEP THEIR PERSONAL BUSINESS OUT OF THE FORUMS.
So.... just to be clear.... if I have something very very personal. Something about, say, my love life.... should I, or should I not post it on a public forum so that everyone can be a part of it?
I would say NO!! BUT is there something you want to tell us??? |
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unsure
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| Topic: child support |
Wed 10/08/08 09:05 PM |
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My aunt moved to another state to avoid paying child support to her ex. She is behind over $65000 and her ex and the court can't do anything because she moved to another state.
Thats a bunch of bs. I am sorry but it is. Child support is now an interstate issue, and no matter what state you are in, all you have to do is call the national child support hotline and get them involved.
I just moved to new york from michigan with ym kids, and new york is getting involved with the back support, to the case of freezing her bank accounts, getting on micihgans case about why a bench warrant as not been issued, etc.
All the parent has to do, is call.
You are wrong here!! Illinois will not work with Indiana. I think you need to check things out before you speak...it would be nice if every thing you said was true but its not!! Illinois will not do any thing to people that live there. They said it was Indiana's problem not theirs! |
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unsure
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| Topic: mingle couple of the year goes to.......... |
Wed 10/08/08 08:47 PM |
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I don't know if they are talking about anyone special on here or not...but I think the problem with meeting someone on the internet is this~~when you first start talking to someone online, you think every thing is great!! But in all honesty, you don't know this person. They only tell you what they want you to know!! They forget to tell you the little annoying things about themselves like..oh I eat with my mouth wide open or I lay around on the couch A LOT!! Sure its easy to sound so wonderful to each other on the phone or in an email BUT when it comes to being in person...you can't lie anymore because its right there in your face!!!
This is why I won't ever meet anyone and expect to fall in love again from the internet. HMM I already went to New Zealand and traveled 9000 miles thinking I met the right one, I guess I should have known better
man eating with their mouth open? deal breaker right here....
OMG tell me about it!! I had to keep saying, could you please close your mouth while you eat! I felt like his mom or something...yep it was a deal breaker!! I have 2 kids already and don't need another one to raise!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: mingle couple of the year goes to.......... |
Wed 10/08/08 08:42 PM |
I don't know if they are talking about anyone special on here or not...but I think the problem with meeting someone on the internet is this~~when you first start talking to someone online, you think every thing is great!! But in all honesty, you don't know this person. They only tell you what they want you to know!! They forget to tell you the little annoying things about themselves like..oh I eat with my mouth wide open or I lay around on the couch A LOT!! Sure its easy to sound so wonderful to each other on the phone or in an email BUT when it comes to being in person...you can't lie anymore because its right there in your face!!!
This is why I won't ever meet anyone and expect to fall in love again from the internet. HMM I already went to New Zealand and traveled 9000 miles thinking I met the right one, I guess I should have known better |
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unsure
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| Topic: too harsh? |
Mon 10/06/08 03:05 AM |
HMM you are not a ray of sunshine thats for sure! You are way to young to feel so negative. Life throws you curves and gives you bad relationships all the time, thats how you learn!! You don't just give up though!!
Honestly, you really need to change that profile OR you are never going to have anyone want to even talk to you. What if someone "falls" for you and they would be scared to even tell you. Why? Mostly because you are so negative!! Change it and accept that the past, is just that...THE PAST!!
You have some really nice pictures on there but change the dark profile my dear!! |
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unsure
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| Topic: can anyone help me? |
Tue 09/30/08 06:04 PM |
| You really need to communicate with him, without communication..then you don't have much. If you don't feel like you can talk to him..then your relationship is in trouble. Just talk to him! |
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unsure
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| Topic: I Have a Serious Question for the Guys |
Wed 09/24/08 11:04 AM |
Hmm I don't think you really need to concern yourself with her, I think you need to find a new roommate! Does she atleast pay half the rent? Does she really do anything except make a mess?
You say that you have children, well I think I would be finding someone better then her to be a good role model for my kids!! You don't want your kids to think its alright to buy things instead of paying your bills.
I think you should kick her out and take her boyfriend!!  |
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unsure
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| Topic: dam i messed up |
Tue 09/23/08 06:29 PM |
Actually, you are lucky she is so understanding. I myself would not be so understanding. My thoughts would be, why wasn't my number in his cell phone? Usually I give someone 2 chances, they don't get a 3rd!! Now if I thought that person was out drinking...then no, they wouldn't get another chance.
I would say buy her flowers!!!
Good luck |
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