itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 10:57 AM |
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up?
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Single_Rob
Joined Mon 02/04/08
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| Mon 04/28/08 10:57 AM |
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up?
I havent been with someone in over 2 years, i will let you know when it happens again, lol
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Bornnaked
Joined Sun 07/29/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 10:58 AM |
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Hell I never give up.
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PATSFAN
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Angelface2000
Joined Mon 03/10/08
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:00 AM |
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QUOTE:
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up?
I havent been with someone in over 2 years, i will let you know when it happens again, lol
WOW!! It will probably be quick then..
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FaithfulOne78
Joined Mon 11/19/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:00 AM |
Try try again!!! 
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Tommo
Joined Sun 09/02/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:00 AM |
Leave nothing to chance! Try again just to make sure 
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ltlone43
Joined Sat 04/26/08
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:01 AM |
I have been known to walk away *ashamed*
I don't have the patience to retrain. *ashamed some more*
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Gypsy41
Joined Tue 05/15/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:01 AM |
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practice makes perfect!!!
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boneyjoe
Joined Sun 12/09/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:05 AM |
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depends on how bad it is,,,,,,,some things just don't work,,,,,,,but if i feel like there is a chance for improvment,,,,,,,i'll hang in there
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Single_Rob
Joined Mon 02/04/08
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:06 AM |
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QUOTE:
QUOTE:
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up?
I havent been with someone in over 2 years, i will let you know when it happens again, lol
WOW!! It will probably be quick then..
yeah, I have to change my pants when I shake hands with a woman at this point
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littleredhen
Joined Sat 01/12/08
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:09 AM |
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I would hope if you are having sex you already have an attatchment & would want to try again. Techniques can be learned
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Nickinolosers
Joined Thu 06/07/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:09 AM |
Not believin' it Rob 
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lilith401
Joined Wed 10/31/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:10 AM |
Well, this happened with a guy I dated in November of last year. It was like high school. I tried twice more but it was just as fast and awful as the first time.
He made no acknowledgement of anything being wrong and brushed it off when I said something about my needs. He seemed like such a nice guy in every other way, but this was like possibly a minute. We used condoms, of course... so imagine if not??
So I stopped seeing him. There were many reasons, but this was a huge factor. Moreso the failure to communicate. To me, intimacy is all about communication.
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hellkitten54
Joined Sun 01/06/08
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:11 AM |
If it's bad, I tend to question my attraction. If it's quick, then I will give him five minutes to gain composure.
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itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:12 AM |
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me being with very few men.i had only one real adult relationship and if he was quick i demanded a repeat most of the time
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lilith401
Joined Wed 10/31/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:13 AM |
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me being with very few men.i had only one real adult relationship and if he was quick i demanded a repeat most of the time
Ha! Mine could not do a repeat. The 38 seconds I got was it.
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Single_Rob
Joined Mon 02/04/08
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:14 AM |
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Not believin' it Rob
ok
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Waterloosunset
Joined Sat 12/15/07
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:14 AM |
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Definitely....
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Marley
Joined Mon 10/02/06
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| Mon 04/28/08 11:23 AM |
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How would you define bad? Painful like electroshock? Or bad like listening to Mr. Bush deliver the State of the Union address? How quick? One lady said thirty-eight seconds. Way too slow if you're running the 100 meter dash on bladder overload. Not quick enough if you've become flatulent on an elevator up to the 99th floor. Relative, perhaps.
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