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Topic: Time and Space
MirrorMirror
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Wed 06/11/08 03:57 PM
smile What if you feel like you need time and space for yourself, how do you explain this to your significant other ?smile
 
kirk443
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Wed 06/11/08 03:58 PM
just be honestdrinker
 
bad_girl
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Wed 06/11/08 03:58 PM
Just say honey, I need some space
 
plk1966
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Wed 06/11/08 03:58 PM
good question!! don't know the right answer though
 
rainysky39
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Wed 06/11/08 03:58 PM
Hun, when you find out please let me know.
 
uk_bloke
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Wed 06/11/08 04:00 PM
throw ur phone in the river, dissapear for a few weeks unexplainably. dont wash, be a mess. return home. 'honey, you will NEVER believe what happened to me....'
 
boneyjoe
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Wed 06/11/08 04:00 PM
get th fu+k out,,,,,,,,hows that????
 
lilith401
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Wed 06/11/08 04:01 PM
It's not you, it's ME!!! It's all about meeeeeeeeee. bigsmile
 
MirrorMirror
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Wed 06/11/08 04:01 PM
smile What if you have your own hobbies and interests and your significant other constantly makes demands on your time?smile
 
Lily0923
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Wed 06/11/08 04:02 PM
I say something to the effect of "Get the f*ck out of my face before I hit you with a cast iron skillet" er...something like that... Or... I disappear with no words... We'll argue when I get back...laugh laugh laugh
 
lilith401
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Wed 06/11/08 04:02 PM
Then they are selfish.
 
chuck366
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Wed 06/11/08 04:02 PM
QUOTE:

smile What if you feel like you need time and space for yourself, how do you explain this to your significant other ?smile


tell her
 
PATSFAN
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Wed 06/11/08 04:03 PM
I'd just walk away................................laugh
 
uk_bloke
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Wed 06/11/08 04:03 PM
ask her why she cant be more like her sister/best friend
 
Lily0923
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Wed 06/11/08 04:06 PM
QUOTE:

smile What if you have your own hobbies and interests and your significant other constantly makes demands on your time?smile


the key is not putting things up for debate.. This is how it's going to work...PERIOD. However if they want their time and space too, you have to respect that. You have to be able to back up what you say... If they argue and say they are going to leave you because of it... You say "Ok, sorry you feel that way, I'm sorry my happiness isn't important to you." and be ready for them to walk... If they do, you were better off without them to begin with.
 
MirrorMirror
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Wed 06/11/08 04:08 PM
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I'd just walk away................................laugh
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Lily0923
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Wed 06/11/08 04:13 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPKUdoBKVqc
 
MirrorMirror
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Wed 06/11/08 04:15 PM
QUOTE:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPKUdoBKVqc
happy I like Kelly Clarksonhappy
 
Lily0923
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Wed 06/11/08 04:15 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPKUdoBKVqc
happy I like Kelly Clarksonhappy


I love her... she's angry like me....love love love laugh laugh laugh
 
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Wed 06/11/08 04:16 PM
lock them in the basement and take off drinker
 
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