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Topic: when your friends date people you don't like!
theotherbachelor
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Thu 07/03/08 01:04 AM
Okay, how do you handle it when your close friends are dating somebody you don't like. Do you let them find out for themselves or do you intrude into their privacy? I mean I don't like it when people meddle in my life but sometimes.......
 
kayliz88
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Thu 07/03/08 01:08 AM
Well if you know something about them that would be a good reason for your friend not to date them, then it would be a good idea for you to tell them this. But in the long run, they are gonna do what they want no matter what you tell them.
 
domination
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Thu 07/03/08 01:09 AM
Let them find out for themselves...otherwise, you're the d1ck for prying into their affairs..just let it (them) ride it out.

**Unless of course you know (with proof) some damning information relating to the other party**

Then...Lock & Load smokin
 
theotherbachelor
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Thu 07/03/08 01:13 AM
QUOTE:

Well if you know something about them that would be a good reason for your friend not to date them, then it would be a good idea for you to tell them this. But in the long run, they are gonna do what they want no matter what you tell them.


I honestly have never met her but I know that my friend has shown up pounding on my door in the middle of the night four times in the last month totally loaded and raging. I told him to end it once and he didn't listen(they never do, do they). I don't feel I have the right to keep at him but geeze!
 
sweetandstrong
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Thu 07/03/08 01:43 AM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

Well if you know something about them that would be a good reason for your friend not to date them, then it would be a good idea for you to tell them this. But in the long run, they are gonna do what they want no matter what you tell them.


I honestly have never met her but I know that my friend has shown up pounding on my door in the middle of the night four times in the last month totally loaded and raging. I told him to end it once and he didn't listen(they never do, do they). I don't feel I have the right to keep at him but geeze!


Maybe your buddy has a problem. My friends don't pound on my door in the middle of the night. I think that you need to talk to him about why he's getting so pissed.
 
Sluggo
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Thu 07/03/08 01:50 AM
LoL...tell him you did her laugh
 
theotherbachelor
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Thu 07/03/08 01:52 AM
QUOTE:

LoL...tell him you did her laugh
laugh laugh laugh
 
FearandLoathing
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Thu 07/03/08 02:44 AM
Let them date the person, lust makes a fool out of a person and they would only ignore your points anyway...so why not?
 
hikerchick
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Thu 07/03/08 04:30 AM
I would ask him to stop pounding on my door in the middle of the night..and question my own reasons for wanting to be friends with someone who would do that. But he has to make his own decisions about his love life. He won't listen to you.
 
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