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templter

Joined Fri 10/06/06
Posts: 696

Sun 07/13/08 10:28 AM

I had a child with a married woman. Her husband never denied I was the father. I supported her. I gave money for the child not only to her mom but also to the husband. When the child was 2, I went to the Child Support Enforcement agency (In Ohio) and file for paternity. The forms I filled out where for a woman. They didnt even have the right forms for a man. The mother was on welfare separated from her husband. It the CSEA 2 years to say theres was nothing I could do as there was an established paternity all ready. I couldnt get it done without the mother or husband coming forward. I continued to support her through buy her what she needed, being there for her. I have had a great relationship with her since day one. Well nine years later the CSEA went after the husband for back support. He didnt want to pay it and denied the child was his. The CSEA finally came to me to do a paternity test. At court the judge interview the child and ask her what she wanted. She says I want to live with my dad. She was 11 then and has lived with me ever since. So never give up on your child and you will be rewarded. Curious if anyone one else has been thru something like this...

templter

Joined Fri 10/06/06
Posts: 696

Sun 07/13/08 10:33 AM

Sorry cant type and same prob with speelling.

itsmetina

Joined Sun 12/09/07
Posts: 16509

Sun 07/13/08 10:33 AM

i noticed a fathers rights advertisement and parents right one too are the advertisements based on the threads now?

templter

Joined Fri 10/06/06
Posts: 696

Sun 07/13/08 10:35 AM

? I was just shaing a story in my life..

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i noticed a fathers rights advertisement and parents right one too are the advertisements based on the threads now?

templter

Joined Fri 10/06/06
Posts: 696

Sun 07/13/08 10:36 AM

I understand what you are saying now...HUH

MsCarmen

Joined Wed 05/07/08
Posts: 2589

Sun 07/13/08 10:36 AM

Glad to see everything worked out for you. flowerforyou

In most states, you only have 60 days after an Acknowledgment of Paternity paper is signed to get paternity established. Once that expires, they pretty much assume that you are saying you are the dad and not wanting to have any tests done to confirm it.

itsmetina

Joined Sun 12/09/07
Posts: 16509

Sun 07/13/08 10:37 AM

QUOTE:

I understand what you are saying now...HUH

i meant no offence i feel your pain believe me i've got my own story flowers

BobbyJ

Joined Fri 02/22/08
Posts: 1265

Sun 07/13/08 10:38 AM

QUOTE:

i noticed a fathers rights advertisement and parents right one too are the advertisements based on the threads now?

We are being watched!

noway

chickayoshi

Joined Tue 12/11/07
Posts: 2943

Sun 07/13/08 10:38 AM

Thanks for sharing.

templter

Joined Fri 10/06/06
Posts: 696

Sun 07/13/08 10:38 AM

QUOTE:

Glad to see everything worked out for you. flowerforyou

templter

Joined Fri 10/06/06
Posts: 696

Sun 07/13/08 10:39 AM

No pain now all joy..Thx smile

QUOTE:

I understand what you are saying now...HUH

i meant no offence i feel your pain believe me i've got my own story flowers

cowboyjon

Joined Wed 06/18/08
Posts: 1

Sun 07/13/08 10:40 AM

this is great i salute u my bro if only more could hear this . i raised 5 kids by myself fathers that step up to the plate are still the best woman think they are so great when fathers are the best keep it up fathers !!!!!!!!!!!!1

mcattygarnett