Syggie
Joined Mon 07/07/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:07 PM |
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Say you meet someone online and you spend a few weeks chatting and talking to this person and you fall for her/him, and he/she tells you he/she is in love with you too... but then find out he/she has been having sexual partners while this is happening. Would you consider that as cheating? Would you even consider it as having a "relationship" with someone you've never met in person?
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MAKE_ME_GIGGLE
Joined Thu 02/07/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:08 PM |
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I'd say thats having your cake and eating it toooooooooooooooo
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voxsteven
Joined Wed 05/21/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:09 PM |
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QUOTE:
I'd say thats having your cake and eating it toooooooooooooooo
I'd say thats having your date and eating it toooo
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DTHRomeo
Joined Wed 06/20/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:10 PM |
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She can have her cake and eat it ... by herself
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Waterloosunset
Joined Sat 12/15/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:10 PM |
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It depends on several factors, but I think the most important one is if the word love was mentioned. Since you said it was then you must RUN AWAY. This woman will rip your heart out and eat it for breakfast.
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Edited by Waterloosunset on Thu 07/17/08 04:12 PM
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boneyjoe
Joined Sun 12/09/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:11 PM |
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i would say,get in line then walk away,,,,,,there to many good women out there to put up with that crap
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iwashottpinkilicious
Joined Mon 04/28/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:11 PM |
Sounds like she doesn't deserve you! Her loss!
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SadieJ
Joined Wed 02/07/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:11 PM |
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Just what DTH said...
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soldierforamerica
Joined Wed 10/24/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:11 PM |
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IM confused, what does sex have to do with love
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DTHRomeo
Joined Wed 06/20/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:12 PM |
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Just what DTH said...
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PATSFAN
Joined Mon 12/10/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:13 PM |
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Yup, cheating!!
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IndigoIllusions
Joined Sun 05/25/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:14 PM |
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If it's only online chats, then it would be too soon to be talking about love anyway, but if they are having sex with anyone, hopefully it would only be with one person, and that should, in my opinion, be there "partner" in a relationship, so therefore shouldn't be trying to engage online relationships.
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auburngirl
Joined Fri 04/27/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:14 PM |
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Yeah, I'd agree. If he's in love with YOU, nothing else would do!
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mcattygarnett
Joined Fri 12/07/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:14 PM |
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I would say yes it is.
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Voluptuous
Joined Tue 12/18/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:16 PM |
HELL YES!!!
Nasty fricken female!
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Jules0565
Joined Fri 06/06/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:16 PM |
  I really hate this topic.. lol
The way "I" see it... #1 she/he is cheating on the person they are sleeping with.. by even chatting to you online even saying the "I love you" words. And getting that deeply involved in the communication  That's taking it WAY beyond friendship.
#2 if he/she is not in a committed relationship and THEN using the words "I Love You" to you.. then in a sense, yes, they're cheating.. those words are for a SERIOUS COMMITTED relationship..
*steps off soapbox"
I'm done.....
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plk1966
Joined Fri 03/21/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:17 PM |
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yes its cheating, with love comes a certain level of committment and sex has alot to do with it.
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twincancam
Joined Fri 01/05/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:17 PM |
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Got to remember my friend online anybody can be who they want and say whatever they want
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DTHRomeo
Joined Wed 06/20/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:18 PM |
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I really hate this topic.. lol
The way "I" see it... #1 she/he is cheating on the person they are sleeping with.. by even chatting to you online even saying the "I love you" words. And getting that deeply involved in the communication That's taking it WAY beyond friendship.
#2 if he/she is not in a committed relationship and THEN using the words "I Love You" to you.. then in a sense, yes, they're cheating.. those words are for a SERIOUS COMMITTED relationship..
*steps off soapbox"
I'm done.....
Yeah ... why say i love you if you don't mean it?
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moonie77
Joined Sat 05/26/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 04:18 PM |
I was wondering the same thing...
I wouldnt know what to think.
I am pretty sure my feelings would be hurt.
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