Peccy
Joined Thu 06/28/07
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always a cheater? Opinions?
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KalamazooGuy87
Joined Sat 11/10/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:15 PM |
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do you believe in change?
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1956deluxe
Joined Thu 12/06/07
Posts: 6466
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:16 PM |
You already asked this question! 
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XxFallenAngelxX
Joined Tue 06/10/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:16 PM |
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nope some (not all) learn and grow from their mistakes
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KalamazooGuy87
Joined Sat 11/10/07
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granted once a alcoholic always, cheaters once they do it once, are much easier to do it again, why i never attempted such...
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Queene123
Joined Tue 06/26/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:16 PM |
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i agree pretty much, as i dealt with my ex hubby.and im pretty sure he hasent been faithful to his wife, but she can deal with him now
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Winx
Joined Fri 08/31/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM |
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It's not true.
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itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM |
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as i've said before i believe people can change I also believe that if you claim to be a christian you should especialy believe that people can change
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YamilethJ
Joined Thu 11/01/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM |
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Once a cheater, lonelyness will be your best partner.
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SAEgirl10
Joined Sun 06/22/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM |
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ALWAYS A CHEATER
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STARTRAVELER
Joined Thu 02/14/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM |
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QUOTE:
do you believe in change?
nope thought I did got burned a second time !
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Jamesdei07
Joined Tue 05/13/08
Posts: 387
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM |
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absolutly i belive that my x wife proved it
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Jules0565
Joined Fri 06/06/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM |
who knows.. generally yes, but people CAN change..
I just know, I hate cheaters!! lol
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Dragoness
Joined Wed 10/17/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:17 PM |
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I believe people can learn different. I have cheated in the past as revenge for being cheated on but I learned that revenge is not so sweet. If they cheat, don't worry about the get back, just leave.
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KalamazooGuy87
Joined Sat 11/10/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:18 PM |
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QUOTE:
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do you believe in change?
nope thought I did got burned a second time !
alcoholics dont change after 1 incident.....
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XxFallenAngelxX
Joined Tue 06/10/08
Posts: 94
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:18 PM |
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I think people get to caught up in the CANT when it comes to change, when infact in all comes down to the WANT
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1956deluxe
Joined Thu 12/06/07
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:19 PM |
There are NO Absolutes! 
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JulieMP
Joined Sat 03/01/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:19 PM |
Yes, once a cheater always a cheater. Even if they never cheat again they have to own that label because they did it once.
I suppose they could become 'former cheater' or 'recovering cheater' but the word cheater is still in both those new labels.
IT does not mean they can't be forgiven though.
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DrX
Joined Sun 01/13/08
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| Thu 07/17/08 10:19 PM |
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No1sLove
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