chriswantstocuddle
Joined Thu 04/03/08
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well heres the problem..... me and my girl had been going out for maybe a week and a half and we really liked each other and we communicate well and everything is good then her mom tells her she can't date me anymore..... what do i do... i really like her and she has stolen my heart..... any advice would be good.
thanks in advance
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SpecialAgent
Joined Sun 08/10/08
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How old is this girl, friend?
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ahuhalicious
Joined Fri 03/07/08
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wait till she turns 18 
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SKPCG
Joined Mon 03/03/08
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well heres the problem..... me and my girl had been going out for maybe a week and a half and we really liked each other and we communicate well and everything is good then her mom tells her she can't date me anymore..... what do i do... i really like her and she has stolen my heart..... any advice would be good.
thanks in advance
Did they run a background check on you and found you were kin to Jack the Ripper or that you are a neo-nazi and they are Jewish or WHAT ????? 
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chriswantstocuddle
Joined Thu 04/03/08
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she is 18 and really sweet
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moonlight_ride62
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how old are you
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chriswantstocuddle
Joined Thu 04/03/08
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well heres the problem..... me and my girl had been going out for maybe a week and a half and we really liked each other and we communicate well and everything is good then her mom tells her she can't date me anymore..... what do i do... i really like her and she has stolen my heart..... any advice would be good.
thanks in advance
Did they run a background check on you and found you were kin to Jack the Ripper or that you are a neo-nazi and they are Jewish or WHAT ?????
hahaha nope they are christian-ish and im agnostic but i dont think its a religious thing.
and no i dont have a criminal record.
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chriswantstocuddle
Joined Thu 04/03/08
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how old are you
im 21
she turns 19 this year i turn 22
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plk1966
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what was the reason her mother gave?
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SpecialAgent
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I would either, a) be cautious of dating a woman who still has to do what her mother tells her, or b) assume she's giving me an excuse because she doesn't want to see me anymore.
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moonlight_ride62
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I would either, a) be cautious of dating a woman who still has to do what her mother tells her, or b) assume she's giving me an excuse because she doesn't want to see me anymore.
yes this is something to think about here...I agree
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chriswantstocuddle
Joined Thu 04/03/08
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what was the reason her mother gave?
her mother didnt give a reason... just tried to get her to go out with other guys and then just flat out said that she couldnt see me anymore...
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markc48
Joined Wed 05/07/08
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mom is trying to protect her. when your still that young you don't know what your going to do or be in life.
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chriswantstocuddle
Joined Thu 04/03/08
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I would either, a) be cautious of dating a woman who still has to do what her mother tells her, or b) assume she's giving me an excuse because she doesn't want to see me anymore.
yes this is something to think about here...I agree
she has to do what her mom says because she still lives with her mom and i still live with my parents....
i miss her
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chriswantstocuddle
Joined Thu 04/03/08
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mom is trying to protect her. when your still that young you don't know what your going to do or be in life.
protect her???
by makeing her stay away from me?
ok i guess thats possible
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Tromette
Joined Wed 08/06/08
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| Sun 08/10/08 06:11 AM |
Don't push it.
If you upset the mom, you'll likely upset her as well. Let it be her call.
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chriswantstocuddle
Joined Thu 04/03/08
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Don't push it.
If you upset the mom, you'll likely upset her as well. Let it be her call.
she said if she could get away from her mom she would be with me... so i know she wants to be with me she just cant whle living under her moms roof....
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BlackBuddafly
Joined Mon 08/04/08
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| Sun 08/10/08 06:26 AM |
For 1.Seriously A WEEK, it takes me about a week to get a special cake order, can u really be that IN LOVE in a week? And 2.She's only 19, she needs to be dating and seeing whats out there not being in a committed relartionship, shes too young for that, especially still living with mom and dad. She should get a chance to be an adult, live on her own while single, not going from mom and dad house to living with a man. Too much too soon, but ur young too, u should be doing the same & that is the reason her mom doesnt want her dating u.
Good Luck.
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Edited by BlackBuddafly on Sun 08/10/08 06:30 AM
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SolitaryMan52402
Joined Sat 11/10/07
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| Sun 08/10/08 06:27 AM |
I went through some what the same thing with my ex and her parents, we ended up getting married and 23 yrs later she walks out on me. BTW her parents think im TOPS and I miss them dearly.
Might be her mom thinks your rushing in to it, or your driving a Van
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mcattygarnett
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I would either, a) be cautious of dating a woman who still has to do what her mother tells her, or b) assume she's giving me an excuse because she doesn't want to see me anymore.
I have to agree with this, something isnt right here.
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