MirrorMirror
Joined Fri 10/26/07
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:23 PM |
 Are you up front on what you will and will not put up with in a relationship? So what are your rules?
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goofyyankee06
Joined Sat 06/28/08
Posts: 93
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:24 PM |
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I won't put up with guys that lie to there girlfriends or hit them!
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dawnyhi
Joined Sat 06/14/08
Posts: 1063
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:24 PM |
rule be nice
don't be mean..
pretty simple..
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massachusetts
Joined Fri 11/16/07
Posts: 425
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:25 PM |
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Lay out the rules in the beginning thats what i've found to be the only way!
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cutelildevilsmom
Joined Sat 04/07/07
Posts: 8130
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:25 PM |
bull****..
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ledi180
Joined Sun 04/15/07
Posts: 2667
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:25 PM |
I'm not sure I'd call them rules per se. I think over time in my past relationships the guys know what I will put up with and what I think is complete crap.
In the dating world, which I'm fumbling through, I'm pretty up front pretty quick about my not wanting to be smothered or have them be sexually agressive etc.
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massachusetts
Joined Fri 11/16/07
Posts: 425
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:26 PM |
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if you dont then you are just looking for a dominator
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sororitygurl4life
Joined Wed 04/25/07
Posts: 2118
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:26 PM |
a scrub! as tlc would say hahah
i wouldn't put up with a guy who didn't have a good job.
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FearandLoathing
Joined Fri 12/28/07
Posts: 9696
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:29 PM |
I'm not upfront, don't tell them that is...I want to see if they do them out of a "natural act" instead of holding themselves back or doing it in spite. I learn more that way.
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missy51970
Joined Fri 11/02/07
Posts: 10077
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:29 PM |
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Read my profile...its all on there
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rodfcutler
Joined Sun 10/21/07
Posts: 1615
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:31 PM |
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their girlfriends!
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SVImager
Joined Wed 12/05/07
Posts: 490
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:35 PM |
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lying.
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06
Posts: 13636
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:37 PM |
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QUOTE:
Are you up front on what you will and will not put up with in a relationship? So what are your rules?
I pretty much announce it on a regular basis -- I like to make sure everybody has a clear understanding....!! No, I will NOT meet you at a bar....
And the whole list is in about 32 places in my profile, I think....haven't counted lately....
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FireOfThePhoenix
Joined Thu 02/07/08
Posts: 9079
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:41 PM |
I have 2 kids I'm not looking at supporting someone else
So you have a job or are able to fully support yourself
I do enough driving shuttling said children around, I am not going to be a soccer mom carpooling driver for you as well
You must have your own place of residence and if you're my age still living like an 18 year frat house than no, it's not going to work
No drugs
And if you're into beating women, I hit back 
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patty52
Joined Mon 08/11/08
Posts: 126
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:42 PM |
LIES..
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lcjw
Joined Thu 10/11/07
Posts: 1456
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:42 PM |
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cheating, and lies.
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Ruth34611
Joined Sat 08/02/08
Posts: 4539
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:44 PM |
1.No bed hoggers
2.No remote control OCD
3.No eating the last serving of ice cream in the freezer
4.No snoring so loudly that the room vibrates
I reserve the right to add to this list as needed.
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Duffy
Joined Sat 10/07/06
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:46 PM |
u got rules? um what exactly r rules in a relationship>
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Gams
Joined Sun 10/14/07
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:47 PM |
Rules.........the begining of the end.
first rule, there are NO RULES, only lifes rule....treat me and my things as you would wish you and your things to be treated.
Then enjoy the company and allow two lives to unfold naturally.
Rules often serve to only temporarily surpress or box a persons natural temperment or character. I have found it more effective to let things flow! Trying to make another into my IDEAL is a recipe for failure and sets the bar too high. None of us are perfect. It either fits or it doesn't.
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LadyOfMagic
Joined Fri 09/29/06
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| Thu 08/14/08 01:48 PM |
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QUOTE:
Are you up front on what you will and will not put up with in a relationship? So what are your rules?
Abuse and cheating and lying gets you gone!
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