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Topic: Why are men jealous of my dogs?
doxielover
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Sat 08/16/08 08:51 PM
Okay well only one guy was ever jealous of my dogs and I just don't understand it.

I have three mini dachshunds... you know hotdog dogs and yes I take really good care of them. Can't stay over my SO's place because I need to be home to take um out and make sure their safe. So yeah it sucks that I cant just drop everything and be with a guy for 2 days straight but is it really that bad?

I figured it shows people that I have a big heart and that im responsible and maternal... but all it seems to do is turn guys off.

Believe me I treat my men as well or better than my dogs. I used to cook 4 course meals for my ex and clean his entire place, do his laundry and even have breakfast and everything ready for him in the morning even though he got up almost 3 hours before I had too.

Well after a year and a half with him he gave me an ultimatum... "If you except this ring you know that you can only have 2 out of the 3"... so ofcourse I picked 3 out of 4 and dumped the guy. Why do I have to choose? I guess I just havent found the right guy yet... but am I completely crazy?

Are having pets such a bad thing relationship wise?
 
Wolf19
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Sat 08/16/08 08:52 PM
<-----hes annoying as hell,you want him?tongue
 
doxielover
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Sat 08/16/08 08:54 PM
haha sure i'll take him :-)
I can't refuse a cute little furry baby
 
Kristee87
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Sat 08/16/08 08:54 PM
Ya I went to this thing in Newburgh,Indiana for dogs and everyone kept telling me my dog wasn't a border collie it looked like some off the wall name for a dog, but she sure did catch some guys attentions with those beautiful honey suckle eyes of hers lol. so I understand how men can get jealous because they mostly don't see us women liking dogs lol
 
YourLove1
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Sat 08/16/08 08:56 PM
i know , their jealous of my weiner too banana banana banana

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Kristee87
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Sat 08/16/08 08:57 PM
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i know , their jealous of my weiner too banana banana banana

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Wolf19
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Sat 08/16/08 08:57 PM
<----chick magnet....banana tongue
 
shadowdog
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Sat 08/16/08 08:58 PM
is it cuz you're having an affair with the dogs?--
 
Kristee87
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Sat 08/16/08 08:58 PM
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<----chick magnet....banana tongue


I bet, they are very cute ;)
 
catwoman96
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Sat 08/16/08 08:59 PM
i love my dog.....but i love my cats more...
if i wasnt in love with a man..i can see how he would be jealous of my beloved animals.
 
Wolf19
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Sat 08/16/08 09:00 PM
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<----chick magnet....banana tongue


I bet, they are very cute ;)
oh yeah,people just cant help but go up to him and pinch his little cheekssmile
 
Jtevans
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Sat 08/16/08 09:01 PM
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Ya I went to this thing in Newburgh,Indiana for dogs and everyone kept telling me my dog wasn't a border collie it looked like some off the wall name for a dog, but she sure did catch some guys attentions with those beautiful honey suckle eyes of hers lol. so I understand how men can get jealous because they mostly don't see us women liking dogs lol



i have a rat terrier and everyone argues with me that she is either a Chihuahua,Fox Terrier,or a Jack Russell Terrier.


i hate that crap!.i've had her 7 years,i think i know what kind of dog i have grumble
 
Magbalihi
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Sat 08/16/08 09:01 PM
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Okay well only one guy was ever jealous of my dogs and I just don't understand it.

I have three mini dachshunds... you know hotdog dogs and yes I take really good care of them. Can't stay over my SO's place because I need to be home to take um out and make sure their safe. So yeah it sucks that I cant just drop everything and be with a guy for 2 days straight but is it really that bad?

I figured it shows people that I have a big heart and that im responsible and maternal... but all it seems to do is turn guys off.

Believe me I treat my men as well or better than my dogs. I used to cook 4 course meals for my ex and clean his entire place, do his laundry and even have breakfast and everything ready for him in the morning even though he got up almost 3 hours before I had too.

Well after a year and a half with him he gave me an ultimatum... "If you except this ring you know that you can only have 2 out of the 3"... so ofcourse I picked 3 out of 4 and dumped the guy. Why do I have to choose? I guess I just havent found the right guy yet... but am I completely crazy?

Are having pets such a bad thing relationship wise?


Come live in the country with me when I'm able and have all you want!!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
 
doxielover
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Sat 08/16/08 09:02 PM
my weiners 18 inches long and weighs 10 pounds
jealous much?

lol anyway weiner dog jokes aside... If I tell someone I love them and show I mean it why does it have to be a fight between them and the dogs? Why can't they accept them like i accept whatever they have?
 
MirrorMirror
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Sat 08/16/08 09:02 PM
smile I don't like women who bring their dogs into my house and they pee or poop on my floor or get into stuff.smile Its caused relationship problem when Ive had to tell them not to bring their animals over anymore.smile
 
JustAGuy2112
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Sat 08/16/08 09:02 PM
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Okay well only one guy was ever jealous of my dogs and I just don't understand it.


Don't try. Some guys are just so insecure that even a dog makes them feel insignificant

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I have three mini dachshunds... you know hotdog dogs and yes I take really good care of them. Can't stay over my SO's place because I need to be home to take um out and make sure their safe. So yeah it sucks that I cant just drop everything and be with a guy for 2 days straight but is it really that bad?


Well..I have turned down going to a woman's place after the bar because I knew my dog would be stressing if I didn't go home. Try explaining THAT one to a woman....lol

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I figured it shows people that I have a big heart and that im responsible and maternal... but all it seems to do is turn guys off.


It does show that, and wouldn't be a turn off to all.

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Believe me I treat my men as well or better than my dogs. I used to cook 4 course meals for my ex and clean his entire place, do his laundry and even have breakfast and everything ready for him in the morning even though he got up almost 3 hours before I had too.


Ummm...refer back to the insecurity issues.

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Well after a year and a half with him he gave me an ultimatum... "If you except this ring you know that you can only have 2 out of the 3"... so ofcourse I picked 3 out of 4 and dumped the guy. Why do I have to choose? I guess I just havent found the right guy yet... but am I completely crazy?

Are having pets such a bad thing relationship wise?


You should never be put into a position of having to choose between a guy ( ANY guy ) and your dogs.

I can flat out promise that if any woman ever told me that to be with her, I would have to get rid of my dog...well..let's just say my dog would still be here.

You aren't crazy. You just love your pets.flowerforyou
 
doxielover
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Sat 08/16/08 09:03 PM
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i know , their jealous of my weiner too banana banana banana

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i think thats it... their jealous that I have three weiners and they only have one.. haha
 
Wolf19
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Sat 08/16/08 09:04 PM
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my weiners 18 inches long and weighs 10 pounds
jealous much?

lol anyway weiner dog jokes aside... If I tell someone I love them and show I mean it why does it have to be a fight between them and the dogs? Why can't they accept them like i accept whatever they have?
they would think that you would pay attention more towards your dog than them
 
catwoman96
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Sat 08/16/08 09:04 PM
my cats are very friendly! and so is my puppy!
 
YourLove1
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Sat 08/16/08 09:06 PM
QUOTE:

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i know , their jealous of my weiner too banana banana banana

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i think thats it... their jealous that I have three weiners and they only have one.. haha
i have 7
 
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