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Topic: Is marriage an obsolete concept?
MirrorMirror
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Sun 08/17/08 02:34 PM
smile Do you think marriage is an obsolete concept?smile
 
domination
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Marriage keeps the alcohol industry in business smokin
QUOTE:

smile Do you think marriage is an obsolete concept?smile
 
msmyka
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Sun 08/17/08 02:41 PM
Yes.
 
bondageboy08
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Sun 08/17/08 02:41 PM
nope. without marriage, theres no family.


without the family, society crumbles.
 
musicwoman1970
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Sun 08/17/08 02:41 PM
no...but finding the right one is another story
 
ZAfterlife
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Sun 08/17/08 02:41 PM
Even though I'm divorced I still think that marriage is one of the best things in the world!
I just need to lose the rose colored glasses next time and be more aware of how people change (or don't evolve!) over time.
 
MirrorMirror
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Even though I'm divorced I still think that marriage is one of the best things in the world!
I just need to lose the rose colored glasses next time and be more aware of how people change (or don't evolve!) over time.
flowerforyou good adviceflowerforyou
 
ZAfterlife
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QUOTE:

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Even though I'm divorced I still think that marriage is one of the best things in the world!
I just need to lose the rose colored glasses next time and be more aware of how people change (or don't evolve!) over time.
flowerforyou good adviceflowerforyou

Hi Mirror!
Thanks for all the great questions again!!!
 
Dawnette
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Sun 08/17/08 02:43 PM
yes

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cutelildevilsmom
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it is to me..
 
itry
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Sun 08/17/08 02:44 PM
QUOTE:

smile Do you think marriage is an obsolete concept?smile
Not yet...but its on its waywink
 
briancarr
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Sun 08/17/08 02:46 PM
Yes. especially for a Man. From start to finish, if you break it down, there is No, Benifit for a Man to be Married. With Woman being equal,and open Sexually, Why would you get Marriedthink
 
msmyka
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Sun 08/17/08 02:50 PM
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nope. without marriage, theres no family.


without the family, society crumbles.


I disagree. My mom has been with my "stepdad" for over 15 years. He's been around longer and is more of a father than my real dad ever was. They never actually got married but he and his daughter are just as much my family as my mom and brother. To want to be with someone with nothing legally binding you to be together is stronger than marriage certificate saying you HAVE to be together.
 
Jim519
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Sun 08/17/08 02:54 PM
Marriage is overrated
 
scoundrel
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Sun 08/17/08 03:01 PM
Marriage is for life, presumably.

Term Marriage (like Term Life Insurance) might be a better idea.
Marry for 5 years, by contract.
In other words, EARN each 5-year continuance.
Just a thought, if you don't know that you can earn that devotion for 5 years, then promising marriage forever is a raw deal.
 
grammy09
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Sun 08/17/08 03:03 PM
marriage is the hardest things youll ever do alot of giving understanding talking forgiving ya gotta keep things fresh and new it can be wonderfullheart
 
msmyka
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Sun 08/17/08 03:04 PM
QUOTE:

Marriage is for life, presumably.

Term Marriage (like Term Life Insurance) might be a better idea.
Marry for 5 years, by contract.
In other words, EARN each 5-year continuance.
Just a thought, if you don't know that you can earn that devotion for 5 years, then promising marriage forever is a raw deal.

rofl I proposed this idea to my friends with 10 year intervals and they all looked at me like I was crazy!
 
scoundrel
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Sun 08/17/08 03:06 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

Marriage is for life, presumably.

Term Marriage (like Term Life Insurance) might be a better idea.
Marry for 5 years, by contract.
In other words, EARN each 5-year continuance.
Just a thought, if you don't know that you can earn that devotion for 5 years, then promising marriage forever is a raw deal.

rofl I proposed this idea to my friends with 10 year intervals and they all looked at me like I was crazy!


Okay...so WE are loony. At least we're good company. Forward thinking, IMO.
 
briancarr
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Sun 08/17/08 03:06 PM
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marriage is the hardest things youll ever do alot of giving understanding talking forgiving ya gotta keep things fresh and new it can be wonderfullheart
You know the sad thing is, that we live in a throw away time. When something get old, or stale, we just get a new one.sad2
 
grammy09
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Sun 08/17/08 03:09 PM
QUOTE:

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marriage is the hardest things youll ever do alot of giving understanding talking forgiving ya gotta keep things fresh and new it can be wonderfullheart
You know the sad thing is, that we live in a throw away time. When something get old, or stale, we just get a new one.sad2
ill bet the old was just as good just needed alittle kick start
 
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