Lily0923
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Has anyone here read "The Scarlet Letter"?
I think it is very appropriate in this setting.
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izzie
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when i see a girl younger than me single and with a child i think she wasn't responsible enough to use a condom or wait till married and if divorced she wasnt strong enough to work it out of choose a good guy to have a child with... i see immaturity.
WOW!!!
i am not allowed to say anything to this because i will go off on you and probibly get banned... just know that i think what you said is the most absourd thing i have ever heard in my life..
people change..and sometimes when you get married.. the person you end up with is not the same person you started out with...
men say women do it all the time.. well im saying it now.. men do it!!
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GeniuSxBoY
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Has anyone here read "The Scarlet Letter"?
I think it is very appropriate in this setting.
I don't think it applies at all. No one is wearing an A on their chest or being killed for having sex without being married.
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DeniseC86
Joined Tue 09/23/08
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Let's throw two of them out and say that I didn't plan on getting pregnant hence thats why I mentioned condoms. Besides I like to think of my son as a surprise. He was born a week before my birthday. Best birthday gift ever!!!
Well, your son's birthday gift was to have no father.
don't yell at me...just looking at it from other people's point of view
ARE YOU SERIOUS???? No one has ever said that one to me. But I guess I should expect all kind of stuff at this point   
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itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
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when i see a girl younger than me single and with a child i think she wasn't responsible enough to use a condom or wait till married and if divorced she wasnt strong enough to work it out of choose a good guy to have a child with... i see immaturity.
WOW!!!
i am not allowed to say anything to this because i will go off on you and probibly get banned... just know that i think what you said is the most absourd thing i have ever heard in my life..
people change..and sometimes when you get married.. the person you end up with is not the same person you started out with...
men say women do it all the time.. well im saying it now.. men do it!!
oh i'm lookin for this one
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Lily0923
Joined Sun 12/02/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:03 AM |
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Has anyone here read "The Scarlet Letter"?
I think it is very appropriate in this setting.
I don't think it applies at all. No one is wearing an A on their chest or being killed for having sex without being married.
No, but women are being demonized for having children "out of wedlock" and who is demonizing the men for it?
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Dredz_Hang_Low
Joined Fri 12/28/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:06 AM |
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when i see a girl younger than me single and with a child i think she wasn't responsible enough to use a condom or wait till married and if divorced she wasnt strong enough to work it out of choose a good guy to have a child with... i see immaturity.
WOW!!!
i am not allowed to say anything to this because i will go off on you and probibly get banned... just know that i think what you said is the most absourd thing i have ever heard in my life..
people change..and sometimes when you get married.. the person you end up with is not the same person you started out with...
men say women do it all the time.. well im saying it now.. men do it!!
look you can get mad if you want. however your visceral response only shows your own immaturity. i am not here for your pleasure. the fact of the matter is that is how i feel and that is how a lot of people i know feel.
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Dredz_Hang_Low
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:07 AM |
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Let's throw two of them out and say that I didn't plan on getting pregnant hence thats why I mentioned condoms. Besides I like to think of my son as a surprise. He was born a week before my birthday. Best birthday gift ever!!!
Well, your son's birthday gift was to have no father.
don't yell at me...just looking at it from other people's point of view
damn even i think that was rude!
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izzie
Joined Wed 02/21/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:08 AM |
narrow minded chavuanistic (sp) attitude!!
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when i see a girl younger than me single and with a child i think she wasn't responsible enough to use a condom or wait till married and if divorced she wasnt strong enough to work it out of choose a good guy to have a child with... i see immaturity.
WOW!!!
i am not allowed to say anything to this because i will go off on you and probibly get banned... just know that i think what you said is the most absourd thing i have ever heard in my life..
people change..and sometimes when you get married.. the person you end up with is not the same person you started out with...
men say women do it all the time.. well im saying it now.. men do it!!
look you can get mad if you want. however your visceral response only shows your own immaturity. i am not here for your pleasure. the fact of the matter is that is how i feel and that is how a lot of people i know feel.
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GeniuSxBoY
Joined Sun 06/15/08
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:08 AM |
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Has anyone here read "The Scarlet Letter"?
I think it is very appropriate in this setting.
I don't think it applies at all. No one is wearing an A on their chest or being killed for having sex without being married.
No, but women are being demonized for having children "out of wedlock" and who is demonizing the men for it?
Don't be silly, the real reason men are running away is because guys would rather not be tied down and possess any responsibility for someone else's life. Guys (my age) like to eat, sleep, drink beer, have sex, flirt, make money, and play sports.
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Edited by GeniuSxBoY on Tue 09/30/08 09:09 AM
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izzie
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:09 AM |
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Let's throw two of them out and say that I didn't plan on getting pregnant hence thats why I mentioned condoms. Besides I like to think of my son as a surprise. He was born a week before my birthday. Best birthday gift ever!!!
Well, your son's birthday gift was to have no father.
don't yell at me...just looking at it from other people's point of view
damn even i think that was rude!
thought??? nice change for some people
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Dredz_Hang_Low
Joined Fri 12/28/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:11 AM |
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Has anyone here read "The Scarlet Letter"?
I think it is very appropriate in this setting.
I don't think it applies at all. No one is wearing an A on their chest or being killed for having sex without being married.
No, but women are being demonized for having children "out of wedlock" and who is demonizing the men for it?
i dont think they are demonizing women for having children. i think of it more like do you like blonds or red heads? skinny or thick women? with children or without? its a preference thing. and i think a higher percent of guys would prefer a woman without children.
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izzie
Joined Wed 02/21/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:11 AM |
and what of the childrens fathers??? the one who ran away.. you deamonize us for stepping up and taking care of the children.. but who is deamonizing the dads who ran away??
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Has anyone here read "The Scarlet Letter"?
I think it is very appropriate in this setting.
I don't think it applies at all. No one is wearing an A on their chest or being killed for having sex without being married.
No, but women are being demonized for having children "out of wedlock" and who is demonizing the men for it?
Don't be silly, the real reason men are running away is because guys would rather not be tied down and possess any responsibility for someone else's life. Guys (my age) like to eat, sleep, drink beer, have sex, flirt, make money, and play sports.
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Winx
Joined Fri 08/31/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:12 AM |
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"Why guys won't date single moms????"
In my perspective, other people's kids are annoying because they yell, scream, fuss, whine and you must change them, change plans for them, find babysitters for them, cater to them, spend money on them...and if it's not your baby, it's not even worth it. Women have a different perspective because they get that free check in the mail so their kid is actually their job. Men don't get that luxury
Very nice. Would that be the " welfare " free check, or the " child support " free check that you are referring to???
Ya know, for having the word " genius " in your screen name, you sure do say some exceptionally stupid things.
I like you more every day.
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Dredz_Hang_Low
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:13 AM |
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Let's throw two of them out and say that I didn't plan on getting pregnant hence thats why I mentioned condoms. Besides I like to think of my son as a surprise. He was born a week before my birthday. Best birthday gift ever!!!
Well, your son's birthday gift was to have no father.
don't yell at me...just looking at it from other people's point of view
damn even i think that was rude!
thought??? nice change for some people
go fly a kite
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itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:14 AM |
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Let's throw two of them out and say that I didn't plan on getting pregnant hence thats why I mentioned condoms. Besides I like to think of my son as a surprise. He was born a week before my birthday. Best birthday gift ever!!!
Well, your son's birthday gift was to have no father.
don't yell at me...just looking at it from other people's point of view
that was very rude
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Lily0923
Joined Sun 12/02/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:14 AM |
I'll tell you what guys...
Unless you care for a sick child in the early hours of the morning.
Unless you get a child ready every morning to go to daycare/school so you can also get yourself ready to go to work, come home and feed a child and do homework and then a bath and bed FIVE days a week.
Unless you have cancelled plans because the ex "couldn't" pick up the child when they are supposed to because THEY had a gold outting or whatever other social event THEY had.
Unless you wipe away tears from skinned knees, broken hearts, disappointment, spilled ice cream...whatever.
Unless you care for a child day in and day out, DO NOT JUDGE A SINGLE PARENT FOR THE CHOICES THEY HAVE MADE.
You have not a God damn clue in your God damn tiny little brain what a single parent does EVERY day of their life.
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izzie
Joined Wed 02/21/07
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:14 AM |
but.. im a helpless girl... i dont think i can fly a kite by myself!
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Let's throw two of them out and say that I didn't plan on getting pregnant hence thats why I mentioned condoms. Besides I like to think of my son as a surprise. He was born a week before my birthday. Best birthday gift ever!!!
Well, your son's birthday gift was to have no father.
don't yell at me...just looking at it from other people's point of view
damn even i think that was rude!
thought??? nice change for some people
go fly a kite
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Amagurl
Joined Tue 08/19/08
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:14 AM |
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It may be the fact that they are another man's child..it's kind of a possesive thing. I've known lots of guys who get into a relationship and raise another man's child as his own.
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DeniseC86
Joined Tue 09/23/08
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| Tue 09/30/08 09:15 AM |
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Has anyone here read "The Scarlet Letter"?
I think it is very appropriate in this setting.
I don't think it applies at all. No one is wearing an A on their chest or being killed for having sex without being married.
No, but women are being demonized for having children "out of wedlock" and who is demonizing the men for it?
Don't be silly, the real reason men are running away is because guys would rather not be tied down and possess any responsibility for someone else's life. Guys (my age) like to eat, sleep, drink beer, have sex, flirt, make money, and play sports.
i like to eat, sleep, drink beer  , make money and watch sports. If I said I like to have sex, would that make me seem like I asked to get pregnant...hmmm 
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