itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
Posts: 18946
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:00 PM |
Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next time cheer up people!!!
|
|
Edited by itsmetina on Fri 10/03/08 07:00 PM
|
|
|
|
auburngirl
Joined Fri 04/27/07
Posts: 11337
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:01 PM |
|
|
|
|
MirrorMirror
Joined Fri 10/26/07
Posts: 40772
|
|
|
|
RKISIT
Joined Tue 01/08/08
Posts: 5024
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:04 PM |
|
everyone just needs to get laid,period
|
|
|
|
|
|
itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
Posts: 18946
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:04 PM |
keep trying people
|
|
|
|
dolphin14
Joined Tue 01/22/08
Posts: 843
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:04 PM |
I just think that the more people get hurt the longer it takes people to get over it and so they are bitter about it. My true belief is that what doesn't break u, makes u stronger and everything happens for a reason. If u learn one thing from a bad relationship then u have grown. People need to smile and laugh more, not enough of that in the world today.
|
|
|
|
PATSFAN
Joined Mon 12/10/07
Posts: 24042
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:05 PM |
 Negative
|
|
|
|
MirrorMirror
Joined Fri 10/26/07
Posts: 40772
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:05 PM |
 I wanna hear more sexuality
|
|
|
|
The_Pete_Man
Joined Sat 09/15/07
Posts: 1695
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:06 PM |
Hey Tina,
Thanks for the encouragement and the refreshingly short pep talk.......it's easy to get caught up in the heartbreak end of it
|
|
Edited by The_Pete_Man on Fri 10/03/08 07:07 PM
|
|
|
|
itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
Posts: 18946
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:08 PM |
|
QUOTE:
Hey Tina,
Thanks for the encouragement and the refreshingly short pep talk.......it's easy to get caught up in the heartbreak end of it
I'm telling the women are here on this site get to know the ladies
|
|
|
|
ledi180
Joined Sun 04/15/07
Posts: 2667
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:08 PM |
Sign me up  QUOTE:
everyone just needs to get laid,period
|
|
|
|
lavos28
Joined Sat 10/27/07
Posts: 1114
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:09 PM |
|
ive met alot of amazing people on here in the last few days so my perception of this website has changed for the better
|
|
|
|
AtrueOne
Joined Fri 04/04/08
Posts: 1258
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:20 PM |
|
QUOTE:
Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next time cheer up people!!!
It's the negativity that can keep you from finding the one....look at the world around you and start looking at the good things in your life and know that if someone comes along you have so much to share and if they dn't you still have so many wonderful tings around you.
|
|
|
|
itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
Posts: 18946
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:29 PM |
|
I only know too well how it sucks to be alone but you can't just give up.Hey maybe the last person the broke your heart will be the last.If you never open up and take a chance then you'll be right where you are now alone
|
|
|
|
Scarlett_156
Joined Wed 09/17/08
Posts: 469
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:46 PM |
Just this morning (Friday 3 Oct 2008) a 21-year-old man I met more than a year ago on another site sent me an email soliciting a (repeat) session of physical affection. He's a very affectionate, industrious, handsome, non-drug-abusing fellow...
I know I'm not really his type, though we make good friends who communicate well. The reason I met him in the first place was because his girlfriend (who he truly loved) had broken up with him in a very cruel manner. I spent a good deal of time just talking to him about how bad the whole thing was for him.
I know lots of good (not "nice") men who are ready, willing, and able to give a woman their hearts. They end up talking to me, and sometimes more than talking.
What's up with that sh!t, anyway? I'm not cheating, or helping someone to cheat; I'm helping someone to cope with awful damage that was inflicted BECAUSE he opened his heart to someone else, and let himself love that person and be used by her. He's tough, smart, really good-looking, able to make a living, and available--and he's spending his Friday night asking me what I'm up to.
What is wrong with this picture...? yours in Chaos, Scarlett
|
|
|
|
itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
Posts: 18946
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:50 PM |
|
QUOTE:
Just this morning (Friday 3 Oct 2008) a 21-year-old man I met more than a year ago on another site sent me an email soliciting a (repeat) session of physical affection. He's a very affectionate, industrious, handsome, non-drug-abusing fellow...
I know I'm not really his type, though we make good friends who communicate well. The reason I met him in the first place was because his girlfriend (who he truly loved) had broken up with him in a very cruel manner. I spent a good deal of time just talking to him about how bad the whole thing was for him.
I know lots of good (not "nice") men who are ready, willing, and able to give a woman their hearts. They end up talking to me, and sometimes more than talking.
What's up with that sh!t, anyway? I'm not cheating, or helping someone to cheat; I'm helping someone to cope with awful damage that was inflicted BECAUSE he opened his heart to someone else, and let himself love that person and be used by her. He's tough, smart, really good-looking, able to make a living, and available--and he's spending his Friday night asking me what I'm up to.
What is wrong with this picture...? yours in Chaos, Scarlett
get him to join the site ya never know
|
|
|
|
|
|
wacky_yet_grounded
Joined Sat 07/19/08
Posts: 711
|
| Fri 10/03/08 07:55 PM |
Hey I just turned 49 and although I'm a die-hard romantic I am also as goofy as they make 'em but I haven't given up hope! 
|
|
Edited by wacky_yet_grounded on Fri 10/03/08 07:55 PM
|
|
|
|
NURSE2000
Joined Wed 04/02/08
Posts: 545
|
| Fri 10/03/08 08:23 PM |
|
QUOTE:
Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next time cheer up people!!!
I think this is a great pep talk. I needed it. I was married to my BFF. After the divorce I Discovered he has Liver Cancer. I tried to get back with him. I thought it was love. But it was more I felt sorry for him and I do love him as a friend but I realized I am not in love with him. After that i finally opened up to another guy who I thought he cared about me. Well I caught him cheating on me..
He now want us to friends. I said friends without benefits. He booked. I am so tired of of being stuck with bad guys.. I know there are good guys out there. I just keep attracking the bad ones.
I am taking a break in the dating scene... All I want is to find some good friends to hang out with. Maybe if I find a few good friends, I will learn to trust again and try the dating thing again..
|
|
Edited by NURSE2000 on Fri 10/03/08 08:28 PM
|
|
|
|
Scarlett_156
Joined Wed 09/17/08
Posts: 469
|
| Fri 10/03/08 08:28 PM |
|
QUOTE: get him to join the site ya never know
How ironic. :\
|
|
|
|
itsmetina
Joined Sun 12/09/07
Posts: 18946
|
| Fri 10/03/08 08:29 PM |
|
QUOTE:
QUOTE:
Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next time cheer up people!!!
I think this is a great pep talk. I needed it. I was married to my BFF. After the divorce I Discovered he has Liver Cancer. I tried to get back with him. I thought it was love. But it was more I felt sorry for him and I do love him as a friend but I realized I am not in love with him. After that i finally opened up to another guy who I thought he cared about me. Well I caught him cheating on me..
He now want us to friends. I said friends without benefits. He booked. I am so tired of of being stuck with bad guys.. I know there are good guys out there. I just keep attracking the bad ones.
I am taking a break in the dating scene... All I want is to find some good friends to hang out with. Maybe if I find a few good friends, I will learn to trust again and try the dating thing again..
maybe u'll find someone that way friend 1st
|
|
|
|
You always cheer me up Tina