doodlebuggrrl
Joined Wed 04/30/08
Posts: 528
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:06 AM |
Ok...Ok I know what you're thinking but, it's not like I want the man back that cheated on me a million miles away. But, Im having a huge urge just to put my ring back on..to keep people off my **** ya know.. Not like I want him back thats not it but...I keep going back and forth wondering if im ready for someone else.
12 yrs is hard to forget in a short period of time.
I'd love imput but, please no Dr. Phil crap lol
|
|
|
|
FireOfThePhoenix
Joined Thu 02/07/08
Posts: 9079
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:08 AM |
I say leave the ring off (of course it's been over a year for me and I can still see the Mark on my ring finger after 10 years of wearing the band)
You will know when you're ready, it does take time and patience with your heart to recover.
|
|
|
|
polaritybear
Joined Tue 10/16/07
Posts: 2030
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:08 AM |
|
mmmm, Im self righteous and bald and my mustache is awesome...wait, no Dr. Phil? I lose.
|
|
|
|
Scarlett_156
Joined Wed 09/17/08
Posts: 469
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:09 AM |
Just because you put the ring back on doesn't mean that you have to tell him (the ring guy). I say "I'm married" all the time. Doesn't mean that I am!
I hope this was hellful. yours in Disaster, Chaos
|
|
|
|
|
|
jessicapickle
Joined Sat 09/15/07
Posts: 1990
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:09 AM |
|
QUOTE:
mmmm, Im self righteous and bald and my mustache is awesome...wait, no Dr. Phil? I lose.
...Fail.
|
|
|
|
polaritybear
Joined Tue 10/16/07
Posts: 2030
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:10 AM |
|
QUOTE:
QUOTE:
mmmm, Im self righteous and bald and my mustache is awesome...wait, no Dr. Phil? I lose.
...Fail.
Adopt this dog.....featuring a cat = fail.
|
|
|
|
doodlebuggrrl
Joined Wed 04/30/08
Posts: 528
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:15 AM |
|
I just have moods when I dont wanna be fkcued with ya know...then again I have times when I feel so alone.
|
|
|
|
doodlebuggrrl
Joined Wed 04/30/08
Posts: 528
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:15 AM |
|
QUOTE:
I just have moods when I dont wanna be fkcued with ya know...then again I have times when I feel so alone.
Its been 1 yr this month since the notice of divorce
|
|
|
|
marv1964
Joined Sat 09/29/07
Posts: 3
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:18 AM |
|
If you just want to look married go buy a new ring yourself and wear it. or just tell the people bugging you to buzz off.
|
|
|
|
doodlebuggrrl
Joined Wed 04/30/08
Posts: 528
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:27 AM |
|
QUOTE:
If you just want to look married go buy a new ring yourself and wear it. or just tell the people bugging you to buzz off.
huh...You dont get it
|
|
|
|
marv1964
Joined Sat 09/29/07
Posts: 3
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:34 AM |
huh...You dont get it
been divorced b4 I do get it. was just trying to give her a different perspective. everyone gets lonely now and then.
|
|
|
|
doodlebuggrrl
Joined Wed 04/30/08
Posts: 528
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:35 AM |
|
QUOTE:
huh...You dont get it
been divorced b4 I do get it. was just trying to give her a different perspective. everyone gets lonely now and then.
No you dont get it...period.
|
|
|
|
polaritybear
Joined Tue 10/16/07
Posts: 2030
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:39 AM |
|
QUOTE:
QUOTE:
huh...You dont get it
been divorced b4 I do get it. was just trying to give her a different perspective. everyone gets lonely now and then.
No you dont get it...period.
L2 quote.
Dont bash Marv hes just trying to help no? 
|
|
Edited by polaritybear on Sat 10/04/08 12:40 AM
|
|
|
|
doodlebuggrrl
Joined Wed 04/30/08
Posts: 528
|
| Sat 10/04/08 12:47 AM |
|
.............
|
|
|
|
jessicapickle
Joined Sat 09/15/07
Posts: 1990
|
| Sat 10/04/08 01:38 AM |
There is something to be said about being polite.
*cough doodlebug cough*
|
|
|
|
doodlebuggrrl
Joined Wed 04/30/08
Posts: 528
|
| Sat 10/04/08 01:13 PM |
|
QUOTE:
There is something to be said about being polite.
*cough doodlebug cough*
You get alot of exercise from finger pointing?
|
|
|
|
|
|
polaritybear
Joined Tue 10/16/07
Posts: 2030
|
| Sat 10/04/08 01:40 PM |
|
QUOTE:
QUOTE:
There is something to be said about being polite.
*cough doodlebug cough*
You get alot of exercise from finger pointing?
Doubtful, just an increase in dexterity.
|
|
|
|
whispertoascream
Joined Fri 11/17/06
Posts: 19743
|
| Sat 10/04/08 02:07 PM |
|
Hmm you ask for advice and then do not like the advice given to you. I think I will take my advice else were. Your lost.
|
|
|
|
padams9098
Joined Tue 03/11/08
Posts: 1363
|
| Sat 10/04/08 02:28 PM |
I know a lot of women wear that ring to keep people from hitting on them. But here's something people don't seem to think about:
Say you have the ring on, and you meet a guy while wearing said ring. He's your dream man, everything you've ever wanted. Except for one thing, that you don't even know about yet. He was willing to flirt with someone he saw as being married (you had the ring on, after all). So, since he's willing to go out with a woman who he thinks is married, he WILL cheat. I hate to stereotype, but I would say that's a given.
|
|
|
|
Jess642
Joined Sat 03/31/07
Posts: 13655
|
| Sat 10/04/08 02:30 PM |
People can't see a ring on an internet dating site......
bit redundant dontcha think?
Thats not yo yoing it's game playing...
|
|
|
|
