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Topic: why are people so afraid
taboo365
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Sun 10/19/08 05:46 PM
to admit that they're lonely.
like it's some kind of fault,
or a sickness or something.

"Oh, I'm alone, but not lonely"
yeah, right.

I'm lonely as hell, and I'm not
afraid to admit it.

so com'on fess up.
 
Sweetnshy47
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Sun 10/19/08 05:49 PM
OK,Im lonely,there are ya happy!smile
 
celtic_kitten
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Sun 10/19/08 05:50 PM
i get my times... but i am okay with admitting it

 
SKPCG
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Sun 10/19/08 05:50 PM
I was alone and not lonely for years. Now that my brat talked me into looking at a relationship again, and having tasted a bit of the old good stuff, I do get to feeling lonely. I think I really WAS just fine for 12 years of not messing with relationships. Once in a blue, like Valentine's Day or something, I would feel lonesome, but it passed, especially when I would hear my friends' troubles with their love lives!!
 
shoesmonkey
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Sun 10/19/08 05:50 PM
I got used to it.ohwell
 
Riding_Dubz
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Sun 10/19/08 05:50 PM
Women,

can't live with em ,

can't live without em,


laugh laugh laugh laugh wink flowerforyou

Luv u ladies


pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork

 
taboo365
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QUOTE:

OK,Im lonely,there are ya happy!smile
it's a start
 
heathersaysgobucks
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Sun 10/19/08 05:52 PM
I think some people view loneliness as a weakness, and don't want to be viewed as a weak individual.

I go through periods of being lonely. I believe you can be in a room full of people and still be lonely. It's much nicer to have that one person you can look at from across a crowded room and feel loved.
 
Lynann
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Sun 10/19/08 05:52 PM
We have more ways to keep in touch now than ever before but many people are more lonely than ever before.

Maybe our computers and phones have prevented us from going out and having in person contact with others and that's left us feeling more lonely?

I am an only child. I like my privacy and alone time is essential for me. Still, there are times when I am lonely too.
 
shoesmonkey
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Sun 10/19/08 05:52 PM
I DO have a BIG problem with the holiday's though. No family around.
 
brenlee1965
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Sun 10/19/08 05:53 PM
QUOTE:

to admit that they're lonely.
like it's some kind of fault,
or a sickness or something.

"Oh, I'm alone, but not lonely"
yeah, right.

I'm lonely as hell, and I'm not
afraid to admit it.

so com'on fess up.


You can be alone and not lonely. It's called liking yourself enough to not be bored with YOU.

We all are lonely at times and I agree.....people shouldn't feel like this is some horrible thing.

I admit it!
 
FireOfThePhoenix
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Sun 10/19/08 05:54 PM
I don't mind being alone, and at times want nothing more than to be left alone.


But that's not to say I never get lonely, I think all of us feel that occassionally
 
RareEntity
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Sun 10/19/08 05:55 PM
yea im lonely, i admit it.
 
taboo365
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Sun 10/19/08 05:56 PM
most days I can deal with it
and feel pretty good,
but once in awhile
like today, it really hurts inside.
 
justme659
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Sun 10/19/08 05:57 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

to admit that they're lonely.
like it's some kind of fault,
or a sickness or something.

"Oh, I'm alone, but not lonely"
yeah, right.

I'm lonely as hell, and I'm not
afraid to admit it.

so com'on fess up.


You can be alone and not lonely. It's called liking yourself enough to not be bored with YOU.

We all are lonely at times and I agree.....people shouldn't feel like this is some horrible thing.

I admit it!



Yes, but even I get bored with myself after months and months of no one to talk to.
 
CoffeeSonata
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Sun 10/19/08 05:58 PM
I have my moments but im ok for the most part. Who dosent get lonely? Everyone does.
 
BertDCaveman
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Sun 10/19/08 05:59 PM
When I get lonely I just go out to the garage and work on stuff it cures it fast.

So yeah I get lonely for short periods of time
 
JustAGuy2112
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Sun 10/19/08 06:00 PM
There are times that I get pretty lonely. For the most part, though, I am simply alone.
 
FETTS61
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Sun 10/19/08 06:07 PM
i may be lonely but im never alonehappy
 
noblenan
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Sun 10/19/08 06:16 PM
QUOTE:

There are times that I get pretty lonely. For the most part, though, I am simply alone.


Ditto! flowerforyou
And, the distance issue of this Internet dating thing sucks! It certainly doesn't help the situation at all!!! frustrated
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