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Topic: Rate my profile I can't find a man????
cindym76
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Joined Mon 10/27/08
Posts: 18
Thu 10/30/08 09:36 AM
Looking for that special man that can make me all warm and tingly inside. I am a honest and all around great woman, just wanting to find a real man to hold and to be held back. Please come find me and tell me if you would date me?
 
mmmike
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Joined Sat 10/13/07
Posts: 203
Thu 10/30/08 09:42 AM
Say more what you are like
 
Horrorcomedybuff
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Joined Tue 10/28/08
Posts: 35
Thu 10/30/08 09:43 AM
I would date you, but I'm also very young smokin
 
mmmike
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Joined Sat 10/13/07
Posts: 203
Thu 10/30/08 09:44 AM
I would date you but im so old ha ha
 
MicahStevens
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Joined Thu 10/23/08
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Thu 10/30/08 09:45 AM
There's not much to go on other than your pictures. You're pretty, so that's not a problem, but there are lots of pretty girls.

With a more detailed description you give a guy more to go on to break the ice with too. Something to talk about initially, etc..

Spend the time and talk about what you like, what you don't like, what kind of boy you're looking for, etc.. and be honest. That way you won't waste your time talking to someone you know you won't like.

Being superficial is okay.
 
mmmike
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Thu 10/30/08 09:47 AM
QUOTE:

There's not much to go on other than your pictures. You're pretty, so that's not a problem, but there are lots of pretty girls.

With a more detailed description you give a guy more to go on to break the ice with too. Something to talk about initially, etc..

Spend the time and talk about what you like, what you don't like, what kind of boy you're looking for, etc.. and be honest. That way you won't waste your time talking to someone you know you won't like.

Being superficial is okay.
 
mmmike
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Joined Sat 10/13/07
Posts: 203
Thu 10/30/08 09:47 AM
so very right
 
DragonFlyTat
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Joined Fri 08/29/08
Posts: 383
Thu 10/30/08 09:55 AM
you need to elaborate more on your likes and dislikes...happy
 
loverboyf933
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Joined Thu 08/31/06
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Thu 10/30/08 10:05 AM
QUOTE:

Looking for that special man that can make me all warm and tingly inside. I am a honest and all around great woman, just wanting to find a real man to hold and to be held back. Please come find me and tell me if you would date me?


U can date me anytime sexy... "Age ain't nothing but number!"laugh flowerforyou
 
NewMingle
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Joined Sat 10/11/08
Posts: 62
Thu 10/30/08 11:10 AM
I wish you were in my area...

A couple tips:
Get rid of the "no drama" line...
It just begs questions in guy's minds:

"What does she MEAN by Drama?" a guy would ask who doesn't cause/have drama - in essence scaring off the guy you want to attract.

"Maybe she's all guarded and uptight and defensive because she's been through too much of this... whatever 'drama' is?" Again, scaring off a more laid-back guy you would want to attract.

Also - pictures.
You've got some great pictures up, they show your beauty and personality. Awesome.
So, as an interested guy - I click "view all", and suddenly there's these... ...other people in there... no explanation in the description who they are... are they kids? Nah... Siblings? Family? Ex boyfriends? Cousins? Wait - there's a blonde holding up a fish! Big! Oh, OK...that's not her.
...begs more questions, more speculation!

I'd get rid of ANY pics that aren't you. wink
Replace them with a nice line that says "I love my family." 'nuff said!

Then - last bit of advice:
Move to Buffalo, NY. I'd love to take you out. bigsmile
 
TexasScoundrel
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Joined Wed 10/29/08
Posts: 37
Thu 10/30/08 11:25 AM
Your profile doesn't give me a feeling for who you are and what makes you tick. You need to express what about you is unique.

What motovates you?

What do you love?

Why do you love it?

Not your children. Every mother loves her children. This is about you.
 
Lillie70
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Joined Sun 07/06/08
Posts: 187
Thu 10/30/08 11:29 AM
I agree with the above comments! (go to NY and meet him)!!

But I also believe in a little mystery and intrigue....

Don't need to give your life story straight away!

Good luck! flowerforyou
 
Lillie70
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Joined Sun 07/06/08
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Thu 10/30/08 11:29 AM
The comments from 'Newmingle' I mean! lol
 
Scottsmaninakilt
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Joined Tue 10/14/08
Posts: 105
Thu 10/30/08 02:07 PM
You look like a beautiful Irish Rose flowerforyou But we also need to know what will nouruish your delicate pedals and
how sharp and thick are your thorns. Please let us know more about you.
 
Pete026
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Joined Sun 10/14/07
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Thu 10/30/08 02:11 PM
Am I the only one who likes short profiles?
The mystery leaves more stuff to talk about flowerforyou
 
Alzeimer
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Joined Thu 10/23/08
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Thu 10/30/08 03:59 PM
QUOTE:

Looking for that special man that can make me all warm and tingly inside. I am a honest and all around great woman, just wanting to find a real man to hold and to be held back. Please come find me and tell me if you would date me?



Stay who you are it is just a question of time and luck yes luck sadly the right person could be sitting beside you on the bus, in a theater or anywhere and you won't know it but if luck is with you you might bump him by accident and there your life will never be the same.

Sometimes we look to hard for something and miss the obvious.
 
cindym76
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Joined Mon 10/27/08
Posts: 18
Thu 10/30/08 06:19 PM
yeah but I have always heard beauty before age. U r not old, that is only in your head.
 
cindym76
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Joined Mon 10/27/08
Posts: 18
Thu 10/30/08 06:23 PM
thank u for the advice I really did not know what to write about
 
PacificStar48
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Thu 10/30/08 06:43 PM
Most of it has been said. Forget the I don't want to meet stuff and drop the pics that are not you. Surely you have some preferences in music, sports, movies, foods, vacation ideas, lifestyle. It will be more likely to be a few good responses if you lay the frame work rather than a bunch who just like your looks.
 
cindym76
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Joined Mon 10/27/08
Posts: 18
Thu 10/30/08 06:53 PM
well aren't u so cute.
 
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