tundraguy
Joined Mon 10/27/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:01 PM |
hey all. i am recently separated and going thru the motions. i was just wondering if anyone here has been thru it? i am almost certain mine will be going to divorce court sooner then later. if anyone has any input id love to here it. i think i am past the sad and missing stage its been 5 weeks
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beauty314
Joined Sat 04/19/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:02 PM |
welcome
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alonenotlonely
Joined Thu 01/03/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:02 PM |
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Anyone? You mean everyone?
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SKPCG
Joined Mon 03/03/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:04 PM |
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Anyone? You mean everyone?
I was going to say, I'll bet 90% of us have gone through at least one marriage & divorce.
Welcome and best wishes. I hope you two get back together if it is meant to be!! 
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Rustyeye
Joined Sat 09/27/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:08 PM |
5 weeks, you probably haven't gotten to the sad and missing stage, much less through it.
But have no fear, you have blindly stumbled into a nest of extremely friendly people that will adopt you and help you out.
You're in good hands.
No, I'm not a therapist. But I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.
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coz1976
Joined Sun 07/13/08
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yep
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lnghntr
Joined Sun 08/03/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:10 PM |
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its gonna get worse before it gets better...hang in there and start drinking
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MsCarmen
Joined Wed 05/07/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:16 PM |
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its gonna get worse before it gets better...hang in there and start drinking
Ain't that the truth!!!
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Jim519
Joined Thu 12/27/07
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:16 PM |
Your healed after 5 weeks? Took me almost 5 years.
Must have been a painless split....Wish you the best!
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taboo365
Joined Thu 08/23/07
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| Thu 10/30/08 06:16 PM |
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ya gotta get in to get out
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tundraguy
Joined Mon 10/27/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 07:00 PM |
lol i am shocked at how quickly and how many people have made a post lol. i got treated like crap and didnt realize it i think thats why i am having an easier time after 5 weeks.
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tundraguy
Joined Mon 10/27/08
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| Thu 10/30/08 07:01 PM |
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anyone here id love to be added to your friends list.
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tundraguy
Joined Mon 10/27/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 05:54 PM |
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does anyone have anymore feedback to this topic? from what i have bee nhearing many many people are in or have been in this boat
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lnghntr
Joined Sun 08/03/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 05:57 PM |
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what did ya expect ???? most everyone is divorced now days...its the American way
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tundraguy
Joined Mon 10/27/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 06:05 PM |
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yeah i guess so. i just wanted to hear from people on how or what they did to get thru it. i guess i am part of the american way, never wanted to be but you cant force a square into a circle... without a bigger hammer of course lol
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Ruth34611
Joined Sat 08/02/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 06:09 PM |
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Yep. Been there, done that. Welcome to the site.
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heathersaysgobucks
Joined Sun 01/06/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 06:13 PM |
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hey all. i am recently separated and going thru the motions. i was just wondering if anyone here has been thru it? i am almost certain mine will be going to divorce court sooner then later. if anyone has any input id love to here it. i think i am past the sad and missing stage its been 5 weeks
Wow....it's been 2 years since my ex left the house and I'm still not totally through all stages of it all, albeit much better than I was 5 weeks in. Good Luck and watch the rebound stuff.......heal first!
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MsCarmen
Joined Wed 05/07/08
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I could be wrong, but I think it's different for everyone. For me, I didn't go out with anyone for almost a year. And then when I did, I felt guilty about it, like I was cheating, even though I was divorced. Others find it easier if they just jump back in and start dating again, to help ease the pain. Like I said, I think it's different for everyone.
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tundraguy
Joined Mon 10/27/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 06:15 PM |
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yeah i am not sure how to feel just when i start to get an opinion on the matter in my head she will send me a text and it makes me start thinking all over again. ive been trying to work more and longer days and pickup sidework where i can like today, iam a bit of a workaholic so i am hoping maybe that will help?
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tundraguy
Joined Mon 10/27/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 06:17 PM |
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I could be wrong, but I think it's different for everyone. For me, I didn't go out with anyone for almost a year. And then when I did, I felt guilty about it, like I was cheating, even though I was divorced. Others find it easier if they just jump back in and start dating again, to help ease the pain. Like I said, I think it's different for everyone.
thats kinda how i feel about it. i dont really want her to go look for a new guy so i dont feel like i should be looking either. on the other hand i dont like the feeling of being alone, so maybe that fogs my judgement.... grrrr ... lolol
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