troubleangel25
Joined Sun 06/08/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 08:55 AM |
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im separated and goin through a divorce soon and i want to get on with my life and date but i dont want to drag a innocent guy in the mix have any advice on what to do
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GeniuSxBoY
Joined Sun 06/15/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 08:59 AM |
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just wait till the divorce is settled.
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SKPCG
Joined Mon 03/03/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 09:10 AM |
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just wait till the divorce is settled.
Agreed, unless this is such an amicable divorce with two grown-ups acting like grown-ups, I wouldn't bother dating yet.
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Goofball73
Joined Mon 11/05/07
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| Sun 11/02/08 10:09 AM |
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Live your life. If you meet a guy, and you tell him about your situation....and he wants to be with you, then he asked to get "into" your mess. I'm not saying that you should date a guy during all this. I am saying that if you do meet someone and things just work out, and he understands your situation, then "just do it".
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Riding_Dubz
Joined Wed 05/21/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 10:22 AM |
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just wait till the divorce is settled.
ditto
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BlueskyJ
Joined Tue 06/26/07
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| Sun 11/02/08 10:49 AM |
My divorce took over 3 years to settle.....Why wait?....Live goes on....If you feel ready to date then put yourself out there....
some people see divorce as carrying baggage.....Hey baggage can always be checked in at the ticket counter....everyone carries some baggage too.....just remember to Handle with Care and you'll be fine....
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RKISIT
Joined Tue 01/08/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 10:52 AM |
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im separated and goin through a divorce soon and i want to get on with my life and date but i dont want to drag a innocent guy in the mix have any advice on what to do
do the adult thing,drag'em through the mud its a doggy dog world
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SitkaRains
Joined Thu 10/09/08
Posts: 93
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| Sun 11/02/08 02:43 PM |
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im separated and goin through a divorce soon and i want to get on with my life and date but i dont want to drag a innocent guy in the mix have any advice on what to do
Ok I am not bashing you but there is some glaring things here that stand out. Divorce Soon...
So there are no papers filed and this process hasn't been started and you have been on here for a few months already in my opinion you have alreadt moved on and are actively looking, so where is the problem.
I personally believe you should let some dust settle before you start dating anything serious since there is a growing and letting go process that needs to be done before you get into a realtionship,also stat's are the first 2 -3 relationship after a long term relationship usually doesn't work. So date casually for a while get your life in order then think about a serious relationship if it should happen in the process great if not you are not hurting yourself or others in the process.
Good luck
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AzgirlinMO
Joined Wed 10/29/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 02:48 PM |
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im separated and goin through a divorce soon and i want to get on with my life and date but i dont want to drag a innocent guy in the mix have any advice on what to do
do the adult thing,drag'em through the mud its a doggy dog world
You my friend ... are ruthless..lol
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AzgirlinMO
Joined Wed 10/29/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 02:50 PM |
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im separated and goin through a divorce soon and i want to get on with my life and date but i dont want to drag a innocent guy in the mix have any advice on what to do
I cant imagine what you are going thru..my advise to you is to take it one day at a time. If you find someone who you can have fun w/ but still be up front and honest w/..then I say GO FOR IT. Life is too short ... but be the nice person you are and let them know what is going on. You seem like a smart girl..I wish you a lot of luck hun..:)
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brenlee1965
Joined Sat 06/28/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 02:57 PM |
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im separated and goin through a divorce soon and i want to get on with my life and date but i dont want to drag a innocent guy in the mix have any advice on what to do
I would wait and give yourself time....What's the Rush? So many people jump from the frying pan and into the fire! Why is it so important for people to make sure they have someone in their lives. It's nice to have someone there, I agree; but at this time you probably aren't at your best.....What you "are" and show to others is what you will attract. So be careful!
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AzgirlinMO
Joined Wed 10/29/08
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| Sun 11/02/08 05:18 PM |
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goood advise..wow
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troubleangel25
Joined Sun 06/08/08
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| Mon 11/03/08 10:07 AM |
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thx for the advice what u guys said is what ive been thinking about and just wanted to know what other people thought about the situation from people who might have gone through the same thing
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michiganman3
Joined Mon 10/29/07
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| Mon 11/03/08 12:05 PM |
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Wait
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Winx
Joined Fri 08/31/07
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| Mon 11/03/08 12:20 PM |
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I think it's best to wait until one is healed.
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ddn122
Joined Mon 11/05/07
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| Mon 11/03/08 12:22 PM |
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i recommend NOT dating innocent guys.
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troubleangel25
Joined Sun 06/08/08
Posts: 88
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| Mon 11/03/08 01:28 PM |
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yeah i know not to date the innocent ones til the divorce is filed and done with but thats all the guys i get are innocent ones
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