MirrorMirror
Joined Fri 10/26/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:33 AM |
 What are your opinions on living together before marriage?Why?
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chevylover1965
Joined Sat 09/29/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:35 AM |
yup, all for it !
this way you will know if thing's or going to work out between the two of you ...
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laughsandgiggles
Joined Sun 10/28/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:35 AM |
Hmmm well i've done both- gotten married without living together and it didn't work and i've lived together without getting married and it didn't work.
my thoughts- just live alone and see each other on the weekends.
hmmmmm maybe its just me  
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lilith401
Joined Wed 10/31/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:36 AM |
I think it's great. I would never marry anyone without living with them first. I get half the bills paid, free sex, coffee made for me (hopefully), and no one biotching about what a biotch I am. That comes after marriage. 
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directandwrite
Joined Thu 09/11/08
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:36 AM |
Don't really have a problem with it morally if it is just living together...the question becomes, for me, what else are they doing together if they are living together before married...which opens a whole new can of worms and moral debate what with religion and personal opinions...
So to be perfectly frank with you, I have mixed feelings on it.
Hope you're doing well Mirror! 
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sexybabyforu
Joined Thu 10/30/08
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:37 AM |
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i see it as a good idea.cause there is alot quicks thats they may have or habits.that if u where to just get married what happens if u hate it.i would rather get too knw person before i have relationship with them..
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adirtygirl
Joined Tue 03/11/08
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:37 AM |
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compare it to buying a car site unseen and not driving it first...how do you know you will make a good fit.....
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Gypsy41
Joined Tue 05/15/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:40 AM |
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Ive done both!!! I think the key is to really get to "know" that person before hand before doing ANYTHING!!! Im not into the surprize psycho crazy violent people!!! I like to know this stuff before I marry anyone ever again!!!
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Pink_lady
Joined Sun 08/24/08
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:40 AM |
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QUOTE:
I think it's great. I would never marry anyone without living with them first. I get half the bills paid, free sex, coffee made for me (hopefully), and no one biotching about what a biotch I am. That comes after marriage.
[color=violet]Yup! thats how i see it too!! sums it up nicely! lol!
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Gypsy41
Joined Tue 05/15/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:47 AM |
Hey!!! Im only a b*tch when they dont do what they are told!!! 
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chevylover1965
Joined Sat 09/29/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:49 AM |
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it put's the lotion on it's skin !
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lilith401
Joined Wed 10/31/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:49 AM |
No, we are biotches when we remind them of broken promises, if you do what they said they were going to do, if you do it in front of them, if you do anything you did before you got together, if you go anywhere, wear anything other than sweats, if you wear sweats, etc etc etc etc etc.
Infinity.
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MirrorMirror
Joined Fri 10/26/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:50 AM |
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QUOTE:
Don't really have a problem with it morally if it is just living together...the question becomes, for me, what else are they doing together if they are living together before married...which opens a whole new can of worms and moral debate what with religion and personal opinions...
So to be perfectly frank with you, I have mixed feelings on it.
Hope you're doing well Mirror!
Im doing pretty good, thanks,I hope your doing well.
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jeff52649
Joined Sun 09/16/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:53 AM |
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Living together is a good idea. I do not think you really know someone until you live with them.
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lilith401
Joined Wed 10/31/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:55 AM |
And see if they hang up the towel or shut the shower curtain, or have these freaky little quirks. One guy freaked because I closed but did not latch the cupboards. I also left my coffee cup by the sink and not "in it"... heavens to betsy.
It is odd how much those things add up. And c'mon, trash pickup is always the same day, why is it so hard to remember?
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Gypsy41
Joined Tue 05/15/07
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| Tue 11/04/08 11:57 AM |
OMG I forgot about the snoring!!! I cant deal with it!!! SHADDDDDDDDDDDAP ALREADY!!!
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Down2earthdebbie
Joined Tue 12/05/06
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| Tue 11/04/08 12:19 PM |
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I think you should try living together before getting hitched!
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