RomanticSoul
Joined Sat 11/24/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:51 PM |
That would be nice! 
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SuzinVA
Joined Wed 04/25/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:52 PM |
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Yup, there are millions of them.
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Tsmooth21
Joined Fri 07/27/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:53 PM |
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yep im one of them
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SomeCut005
Joined Thu 11/29/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:53 PM |
Then where the hell are they?!!!!!
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SuzinVA
Joined Wed 04/25/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:55 PM |
They're out there, but their probably not right in your face about it. You have to dig a little deeper 
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pennyg281
Joined Thu 11/08/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:56 PM |
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I have found wery few men who don't judge me by my looks. But theior are a few who care about what matters. Honesty, Integrity, Decent Morals, and a Brain. Not her Bust or Waist size.
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Marie55
Joined Wed 08/30/06
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:57 PM |
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They are out there, just gotta rake through the rocks to find the "diamonds." Good luck.
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iam4u
Joined Fri 10/13/06
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:57 PM |
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QUOTE:
That would be nice!
We are all but HUMAN,,and if anyone said YES to this ...
THEY would be lying, because of THAT FACT,,,human...
and someone's looks,,,,,,,IS AN IMPACT of SOME NATURE to the other one...so even a blind person would WANT to touch your face before giving you their life as a mate...
Thats my REAL THOUGHTS on YOUR question.
But ANYONE and EVRYONE might say THEY CAN,,,,,but,, 
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LadyOfMagic
Joined Fri 09/29/06
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:59 PM |
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As my mothers ex-boyfriend use to say "Men are Visual Creatures" and they have to have "perfection"..and if you're not what THEY see as perfect..they don't want you.
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funches
Joined Sat 12/01/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 04:59 PM |
Does 1 Man Exist That Doesn't Go By Looks?
stevie wonder
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 05:04 PM |
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QUOTE:
QUOTE:
That would be nice!
We are all but HUMAN,,and if anyone said YES to this ...
THEY would be lying, because of THAT FACT,,,human...
and someone's looks,,,,,,,IS AN IMPACT of SOME NATURE to the other one...so even a blind person would WANT to touch your face before giving you their life as a mate...
Thats my REAL THOUGHTS on YOUR question.
But ANYONE and EVRYONE might say THEY CAN,,,,,but,,
AMEN to that!
Men for the most part are automatically "attracted" by SIGHT. Thats just how we are made..period. Not saying we do not care about someone based on looks, or to say that we "judge" someone on thier looks would be also totally wrong.
Even most women are FIRST attracted by sight as well. Women are much easier swayed to personality, character, heart and those overcome the "looks" factor.
But even women have looks factors into it. Men I already know the real answer to, so I will ask the women a simple question..and be honest with yourself.
You find a man with all the qualities you want...caring, faithful, great humor, intelligent, romantic, etc...and you find TWO with the EXACT same traits...now one is me and one is Brad Pitt..who would you choose?
SEE! I'm finished!  
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Rick1980
Joined Mon 12/03/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 05:12 PM |
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I'm sorry, but no relationship can work without physical attration.
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Marie55
Joined Wed 08/30/06
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| Sat 12/08/07 05:14 PM |
I have never liked Brad Pitt, ever.
Now if you compared yourself to Michael Landon, well then, hmmmmmm, but he is dead, so .
Trace Adkins? 
Even the prettiest boy can turn out to be the biggest
jerk and wife beater there is. Do you know how many
"pretty boys" are in prison for killing their girlfriends
and wives?
Looks aren't everything. Heart, personality, fidelity,
honesty, loyality and a whole bunch of other qualities
play into it. Sure, looks are a first attraction, but then
he can open his mouth and be arrogant or obnoxious and that kills it right away. Much rather have someone with the above
qualities.
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AllSmilesInTulsa
Joined Mon 05/28/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 05:18 PM |
I must admit it is physical appearance that catches my eye. It may not be what keeps me there but my interest in getting to know a man is based on the initial physical interest.
OK Ladies,,, let the bashing begin.
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Sumthingdifferent
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 05:18 PM |
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QUOTE:
I have never liked Brad Pitt, ever.
Now if you compared yourself to Michael Landon, well then, hmmmmmm, but he is dead, so .
Trace Adkins?
Even the prettiest boy can turn out to be the biggest
jerk and wife beater there is. Do you know how many
"pretty boys" are in prison for killing their girlfriends
and wives?
Looks aren't everything. Heart, personality, fidelity,
honesty, loyality and a whole bunch of other qualities
play into it. Sure, looks are a first attraction, but then
he can open his mouth and be arrogant or obnoxious and that kills it right away. Much rather have someone with the above
qualities.
And that proves my point, even with women. IF you find two men with the exact same qualities and you had that choice...me or Trace Adkins..I'd still be without a date!
So it does matter to both genders. Just more to men because we are visual. you can;t blame us for that, you'd have to blame God, cause He made us this way.
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Marie55
Joined Wed 08/30/06
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| Sat 12/08/07 05:27 PM |
But to take it a step farther, since I am no Sara Evans,
the Trace Adkins of the world aren't interested in me.
I actually married someone who was very good looking when
I was 19 and took 10 years to get out, the worst mistake
of my life. I learned a lot from that marriage.
I may "notice" a guy for looks now, but I dig a whole
lot deeper first. I "don't judge the book by the cover" as
I have grown up, the very hard way by the way.
I just think it is much more important to see the whole
package. First impressions do attract you, but if there
is no heart or personality, then I don't see what would
keep a person there. At this point in my life I look for
heart and personality and how I am treated, not on the man's
looks. Just my thoughts anyways.
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BlueskyJ
Joined Tue 06/26/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 05:40 PM |
Simple truthful guy answer: NO
But that doesn't mean other factors aren't important too...
Personality, Humor, Values, Interests etc are also part of the package....I wouldn't leave any of them out.....
By the way, women contact me all the time saying "I like your profile", but when I remove my picture....funny, I get no contacts....same when I put an ugly picture of myself up....so don't tell me looks aren't important for woman too....
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munch151
Joined Tue 11/13/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 05:44 PM |
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QUOTE:
QUOTE:
That would be nice!
We are all but HUMAN,,and if anyone said YES to this ...
THEY would be lying, because of THAT FACT,,,human...
and someone's looks,,,,,,,IS AN IMPACT of SOME NATURE to the other one...so even a blind person would WANT to touch your face before giving you their life as a mate...
Thats my REAL THOUGHTS on YOUR question.
But ANYONE and EVRYONE might say THEY CAN,,,,,but,,
Preach it dude! If there's no attraction then everything else could add up to friendship. The good thing is that everyone has their own tastes in potential partners and I know plenty of guys that like a huge variety of women.
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RomanticSoul
Joined Sat 11/24/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 08:12 PM |
Rick1980:
So, if men are based solely on "looks", does that mean some women should quit dating for life, according to what you believe? I think that's crap, personally, and indicates major shallowness, big time.
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RomanticSoul
Joined Sat 11/24/07
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| Sat 12/08/07 08:13 PM |
Blueskyj:
Although I don't know what your age is, I've learned a lot about not going on looks over the years.
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