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Topic: Once you hit a certain age....
banchi20
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Thu 01/03/08 07:10 PM
You can't really date younger without getting into a whole different level of maturity.... I'm 20. And I've come to realize that most the girls around 18. I'm not saying all of them but, the ones I've met are actually not on the same level of maturity I am. And Its hard being 20 and dating over your age especially when all the girls that I take interest in are 'drinkers' or 'partiers' because believe it or not when your 20 they still don't let you drink in clubs haha. So I've tried dating girls my age... and personally I can't capture the interest of any I guess. So I'm wonder maybe I should date more than a few years older.....
 
mry
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Thu 01/03/08 07:12 PM
Its ok, you will be 40 before you know it! laugh
 
IconicMemory
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Thu 01/03/08 07:12 PM
Heck wait till your nearly 40 and realize how much difference is between and 18 and 20 year old
 
IconicMemory
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Thu 01/03/08 07:12 PM
Stupid double post
Edited by IconicMemory on Thu 01/03/08 07:13 PM
 
banchi20
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Thu 01/03/08 07:13 PM
Lol... I hope 40 doesn't come as soon as most say it does.
 
mry
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Thu 01/03/08 07:13 PM
No kidding! I have boys that email me, and I have to laugh...
 
mry
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Thu 01/03/08 07:15 PM
Once your there you will be glad...

We really are NOT that old! laugh
 
tsw123
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Thu 01/03/08 07:15 PM
QUOTE:

Its ok, you will be 40 before you know it! laugh


Aint that the truth!!!!!!!!!!
 
AaronZ
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Thu 01/03/08 07:15 PM
QUOTE:

You can't really date younger without getting into a whole different level of maturity.... I'm 20. And I've come to realize that most the girls around 18. I'm not saying all of them but, the ones I've met are actually not on the same level of maturity I am. And Its hard being 20 and dating over your age especially when all the girls that I take interest in are 'drinkers' or 'partiers' because believe it or not when your 20 they still don't let you drink in clubs haha. So I've tried dating girls my age... and personally I can't capture the interest of any I guess. So I'm wonder maybe I should date more than a few years older.....



here is the golden rule as writen by god, and by god I mean monkey...

1/2 your age round up the add 7 years.

works everytime
 
banchi20
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Thu 01/03/08 07:17 PM
Lmao half of my age would be 10... add 7 years... thats 17 lol. In Texas thats what we like to call jail bait.
 
wanttachat
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Thu 01/03/08 07:17 PM
BAM!!!!!!! you are now 40 laugh laugh laugh laugh its that fast
 
IconicMemory
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Thu 01/03/08 07:18 PM
Seems like only 15 years ago I was 20. Oh wait I was. LOL
 
banchi20
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Thu 01/03/08 07:19 PM
Lol. Ok hold on hold on... I'm not trying to rush my age here by dating older.. just get a different mentality out of a girl other than high school drama/college sorities.
 
PATSFAN
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Thu 01/03/08 07:21 PM
I still think I'm 20laugh laugh laugh
 
IconicMemory
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Thu 01/03/08 07:22 PM
QUOTE:

I still think I'm 20laugh laugh laugh


I do too when I am trying to flirt with a 20 year old.
 
UWannaBSpontaneous
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Thu 01/03/08 07:22 PM
When I was 20 I had permission (from her father) to date a 16 year old and we stayed together for 1.5 years. She was mature enough and we had a great time. But as normal things go she made a few mistakes and I didn't feel like sticking around to resolve them.

Your young, I wouldn't worry about anything and yeah..... older is cool at certain times.
 
banchi20
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Thu 01/03/08 07:23 PM
I like that advice. Thanks.
 
Len76039
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Thu 01/03/08 07:23 PM
Try being 36, freshly divorced with 2 kids (live with ex).

Even though I feel young, I can't go to the club. I would be the male version of the "old b###h" in the movie "Knocked Up". (No I am not vulgur, just using a specific movie reference). I can't believe I am online trying to meet people.
 
mry
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Thu 01/03/08 07:24 PM
WELCOME LEN!! laugh laugh laugh
 
PATSFAN
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Thu 01/03/08 07:24 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

I still think I'm 20laugh laugh laugh


I do too when I am trying to flirt with a 20 year old.
Ahh, and there is plenty of them too..
 
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