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Topic: Ok....so.....what would you do?
Godschosengirl
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Thu 01/17/08 05:22 PM
Here's the senerio: This guy who isn't in the threads, who lives in my state contacts me a few weeks ago. He states he likes my profile and has alot of the same religous beliefs. He seems very "in" to me and then.....he drops off the face of the earth for 24hrs. His excuse is "he is a busy guy". This happens on and off over the next few weeks, he doesn't return calls, ignores text messages and his calls to me are becoming increasingly limited. However, he stated that he still wanted to see me this weekend. ( he lives 4hrs away)

Here's the kicker....He's never asked for directions, or made reservations at a hotel and now apparently he doesn't have a car.

Player, liar or just a busy guy?grumble noway huh
 
iceprincess
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Thu 01/17/08 05:23 PM
No car how busy can he be..........I'd say drop him
 
PATSFAN
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Thu 01/17/08 05:23 PM
I would say , Bye , bye!!
 
fastlinnie
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Thu 01/17/08 05:23 PM
player liargrumble
 
cuzimwhiteboy
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Thu 01/17/08 05:23 PM
Sounds like he's walking. happy
 
XstriferX
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Thu 01/17/08 05:24 PM
I have to agree with ice... if he had a car he would have an excuse to be super busy... either that or he is just lying so you'll go to him.
 
luvinlf2themax
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Thu 01/17/08 05:25 PM
Busy is no excuse for rude. I would walk. NOT worth your time..you are a pretty lady...and he doesnt earn respect he does not give. Walk away.
 
angelindarkness
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Thu 01/17/08 05:25 PM
QUOTE:

Here's the senerio: This guy who isn't in the threads, who lives in my state contacts me a few weeks ago. He states he likes my profile and has alot of the same religous beliefs. He seems very "in" to me and then.....he drops off the face of the earth for 24hrs. His excuse is "he is a busy guy". This happens on and off over the next few weeks, he doesn't return calls, ignores text messages and his calls to me are becoming increasingly limited. However, he stated that he still wanted to see me this weekend. ( he lives 4hrs away)

Here's the kicker....He's never asked for directions, or made reservations at a hotel and now apparently he doesn't have a car.

Player, liar or just a busy guy?grumble noway huh

I would wonder if he was married or attached in some other way.
 
ladyblack67
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Thu 01/17/08 05:25 PM
grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble angry angry angry angry angry angry angry DROP HIM CAUSE HES A B*TCH
 
hilyf
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Thu 01/17/08 05:25 PM
Well read your profile and seems this guy goes against alot of things you require....like having a car and being responsible for himself.....I would have to guess by actions of him he just needs attention and has no real intention of meeting.
 
polypeasant
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Thu 01/17/08 05:26 PM
busy.rude.wasteful.player.liar
I say with your looks..NEXT PLEASE!!
 
totage
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Thu 01/17/08 05:26 PM
QUOTE:

Here's the senerio: This guy who isn't in the threads, who lives in my state contacts me a few weeks ago. He states he likes my profile and has alot of the same religous beliefs. He seems very "in" to me and then.....he drops off the face of the earth for 24hrs. His excuse is "he is a busy guy". This happens on and off over the next few weeks, he doesn't return calls, ignores text messages and his calls to me are becoming increasingly limited. However, he stated that he still wanted to see me this weekend. ( he lives 4hrs away)

Here's the kicker....He's never asked for directions, or made reservations at a hotel and now apparently he doesn't have a car.

Player, liar or just a busy guy?grumble noway huh


I'd say liar, if he was a player he'd have a car laugh
 
TheShadow
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Thu 01/17/08 05:27 PM
QUOTE:

Here's the senerio: This guy who isn't in the threads, who lives in my state contacts me a few weeks ago. He states he likes my profile and has alot of the same religous beliefs. He seems very "in" to me and then.....he drops off the face of the earth for 24hrs. His excuse is "he is a busy guy". This happens on and off over the next few weeks, he doesn't return calls, ignores text messages and his calls to me are becoming increasingly limited. However, he stated that he still wanted to see me this weekend. ( he lives 4hrs away)

Here's the kicker....He's never asked for directions, or made reservations at a hotel and now apparently he doesn't have a car. Sorry, even though you might really like this guy. Move on because if a guy is interested in a women He will show you that he is. guys are not hard to figure out.

Player, liar or just a busy guy?grumble noway huh
 
TheShadow
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Thu 01/17/08 05:30 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

Here's the senerio: This guy who isn't in the threads, who lives in my state contacts me a few weeks ago. He states he likes my profile and has alot of the same religous beliefs. He seems very "in" to me and then.....he drops off the face of the earth for 24hrs. His excuse is "he is a busy guy". This happens on and off over the next few weeks, he doesn't return calls, ignores text messages and his calls to me are becoming increasingly limited. However, he stated that he still wanted to see me this weekend. ( he lives 4hrs away)

Here's the kicker....He's never asked for directions, or made reservations at a hotel and now apparently he doesn't have a car. Sorry, even though you might really like this guy. Move on because if a guy is interested in a women He will show you that he is. guys are not hard to figure out.

Player, liar or just a busy guy?grumble noway huh

Hmm wonder what happen. Anyhow, Sorry but move on. If a guy is interested in you. he will show it. don't wast your time chasing anyone.
 
Godschosengirl
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Thu 01/17/08 05:45 PM
Thanks... He actually hung up on me today when I called him and when I called him on it in a text he said he "couldn't talk"..

grumble noway noway My response was well that's no excuse to be rude!!

Anyway.. I then f/u with a text that I'm a very busy person, too but I always find time to call someone that I'm interested in.wink I think He got the message.....

Thank you for validating my thoughts. Love you guys.smooched
 
totage
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Thu 01/17/08 05:49 PM
If only I was a few years older...
 
Godschosengirl
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Thu 01/17/08 05:55 PM
blushing blushing awww totage...smooched
 
MsTeddyBear2u
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Thu 01/17/08 06:04 PM
Run girl run... does'nt sound good! ohwell
 
Godschosengirl
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Thu 01/17/08 06:07 PM
QUOTE:

Run girl run... does'nt sound good! ohwell


laugh laugh laugh I'm runnin!!!


If anyone in my state wants to know who it is...email me..wink
Edited by Godschosengirl on Thu 01/17/08 06:12 PM
 
stevex86
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Thu 01/17/08 06:09 PM
What I would do if I was you would be to move to Oklahoma and date me. I have a car!
 
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