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Topic: We all have them...
pkh
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Wed 03/26/08 12:42 PM
Now come on be honest,none of us are perfect we all have some faults,if you could change only one thing what would it be.


I have many but one thing I've done for years is take on everyones problems,I can save them or fix them,take away there pain I worry so much about everyone around me that I don't put myself first ever,and I'm trying do do that now.
 
ladyblack67
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Wed 03/26/08 12:44 PM
I would make myself just a LITTLE stupider
 
azrae1l
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Wed 03/26/08 12:44 PM
my taste in women, i seem to always end up with the ones that will screw my life like it was the only camel in a town full of desperate al-quida men.....
 
aLittleBird
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Wed 03/26/08 12:46 PM
I have lots of faults too but the biggest one that I need to get rid of is falling for "sob stories" that really aren't sob stories...just manipulations...dumb boys...grumble
 
LadyOfMagic
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Wed 03/26/08 12:47 PM
QUOTE:

Now come on be honest,none of us are perfect we all have some faults,if you could change only one thing what would it be.


I have many but one thing I've done for years is take on everyones problems,I can save them or fix them,take away there pain I worry so much about everyone around me that I don't put myself first ever,and I'm trying do do that now.

I would change the fact that I am too feakin forgiving..I always let people back into my life hoping that they have changed and most of the time they have changed..for the WORST.
 
aLittleBird
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Wed 03/26/08 12:48 PM
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I would make myself just a LITTLE stupider


lol...why on earth would you do that?
 
aLittleBird
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Wed 03/26/08 12:48 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

Now come on be honest,none of us are perfect we all have some faults,if you could change only one thing what would it be.


I have many but one thing I've done for years is take on everyones problems,I can save them or fix them,take away there pain I worry so much about everyone around me that I don't put myself first ever,and I'm trying do do that now.

I would change the fact that I am too feakin forgiving..I always let people back into my life hoping that they have changed and most of the time they have changed..for the WORST.



ooooo...been there too....
 
LexFonteyne
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Wed 03/26/08 12:49 PM
QUOTE:

I have many but one thing I've done for years is take on everyones problems,I can save them or fix them,take away there pain I worry so much about everyone around me that I don't put myself first ever,and I'm trying do do that now.


Same here, I've reached the point where I'm just completely fed up with trying to help certain people and never getting the least bit of consideration in return. Apparently, the two-way street is a thing of the past.

 
PragmaticMind
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Wed 03/26/08 12:50 PM
QUOTE:

Now come on be honest,none of us are perfect we all have some faults,if you could change only one thing what would it be.


I have many but one thing I've done for years is take on everyones problems,I can save them or fix them,take away there pain I worry so much about everyone around me that I don't put myself first ever,and I'm trying do do that now.


I'm a lot like you. I tend to put myself; goals, education, dreams, etc. aside to take care of those around me (even those I don't know). It has been a huge struggle for me and until I allow myself (as I'm trying now) to seek out in life what would bring me individual happiness, love & completion; I will continue to be taken advantage of or simply give in to ones weaknesses. However, I'm very strong-willed and can tell people no; I guess sometimes I just feel like I have nothing better going on in my life (at times) so to feel a void perhaps, I take on their messes giving me something to fix and attend to!
 
exit56
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Wed 03/26/08 12:50 PM
i wish i was special
so very special
but i'm a creep
i'm a weirdo
what the hell am i doing here
i dont belong here
Creep by Radiohead
Edited by exit56 on Wed 03/26/08 12:50 PM
 
iam4u
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Wed 03/26/08 12:51 PM
QUOTE:

Now come on be honest,none of us are perfect we all have some faults,if you could change only one thing what would it be.


I have many but one thing I've done for years is take on everyones problems,I can save them or fix them,take away there pain I worry so much about everyone around me that I don't put myself first ever,and I'm trying do do that now.
wow,,pkh,,we suffer alike,lol,lol,
But I would add that I live a bit to much on being honest.. and I could relax that a little..
And the ones I pick, are not really what I should be picking,lol,lol..drinker heart
 
LightVoice
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Wed 03/26/08 12:52 PM
in all honesty, if I could only change ONE thing, I would increase my energy level! There seems to always be more to do than I have the energy for laugh As a result, I tend to procrastinate. I'd like to change myself so I just tackle whatever needs to be done right then & there.
 
62easygoing
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Wed 03/26/08 12:53 PM
change only one thing...........that one thing would be...........To think before, I speak. wink wink
 
brokenwing22
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Wed 03/26/08 12:54 PM
i would try to be more open and let my feelings show moreflowerforyou
 
LadyOfMagic
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Wed 03/26/08 12:54 PM
I think I'm gonna take my heart and lock it in a little steel box..and throw away the key..that way it's safe and can't be broken anymore.
 
pkh
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Wed 03/26/08 12:54 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

Now come on be honest,none of us are perfect we all have some faults,if you could change only one thing what would it be.


I have many but one thing I've done for years is take on everyones problems,I can save them or fix them,take away there pain I worry so much about everyone around me that I don't put myself first ever,and I'm trying do do that now.
wow,,pkh,,we suffer alike,lol,lol,
But I would add that I live a bit to much on being honest.. and I could relax that a little..
And the ones I pick, are not really what I should be picking,lol,lol..drinker heart
lol I can relate to your choices too.
 
Jillybean31
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Wed 03/26/08 12:56 PM
I would ditch my shy side. Meeting a handsome guy is like...umm...you're handsome...duh. The only way to get past that point is if they think it's cute...which total turns ME off...so forget it now.

Can I have two? I'd shrink my ears too.
 
pkh
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Wed 03/26/08 12:59 PM
QUOTE:

I would ditch my shy side. Meeting a handsome guy is like...umm...you're handsome...duh. The only way to get past that point is if they think it's cute...which total turns ME off...so forget it now.

Can I have two? I'd shrink my ears too.
lol sure you can have two,if I can have about10
 
Jillybean31
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Wed 03/26/08 01:29 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

I would ditch my shy side. Meeting a handsome guy is like...umm...you're handsome...duh. The only way to get past that point is if they think it's cute...which total turns ME off...so forget it now.

Can I have two? I'd shrink my ears too.
lol sure you can have two,if I can have about10
I'm sure we all have millions
 
smilingeyes_976
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Wed 03/26/08 01:29 PM
I'm too damn gullible..(sp?) I tend to take people at their word no matter how many times they've shoved their lies down my throat... grumble

lol
 
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