I am a veteran, formerly stationed at fort drum. I just relocated back to the watertown, fort drum area and am looking to settle back down.
Once I lose enough weight, I may very well decide to go back into the service, if that is what both my partner and myself want, or I may decide to continue on with my education and get a degree in either law enforcement (criminal justice), or in the political field.
I have sole custody of two wonderful children from a previous marriage. Under normal circumstances I would not have divorced my wife, however due to circumstances beyond my control, I was forced to choose between staying married (and her running around with whomever would take her) and losing the children, or going through the divorce in order to gain custody. I will gladly tell you whatever you want to know, later on down the line, but I think that covers it well enough for now.
I have not been to Church regularly in a couple of years, mainly due to recovering from the divorce (financially and such), but look forward to starting back up on a regular basis here in Watertown. When I AM active with the church, I like to sing in the choir, and lead different childrens groups. I have even been an assistant sunday school principle while stationed in Europe.
I am looking for a lady that can respect me enough to tell me if she is unhappy, or if I am doing something she doesnt like. I am after all, only human. A lady who is willing to go the distance to make the relationship work, because any relatioinship takes a lot of work.
I am NOT looking for a one night stand, or to have any kind of sexual relations until after we have gotten to know each other fairly well; a relationship should be based more off of mutual likes and dislikes, along with respect, without sex being a primary issue. Someday, we may find ourselves in the position of sex not being an option, and what will we do if that is all we had in common?
I do not drink very often, nor do I smoke, though I am guilty of doing both in the past, and I am not really into the club/bar scenes. I believe we can have fun without having to go and get drunk, or be turned into human sardines from the press of other people.
I think I better stop here, lol before you fall asleep from reading my autobiography:laugh: Rest assured though, I will answer any question you have, and am sincerely interested in getting to know you, even if just as a friend. Send me a message!
Interests: different religions, chess, home renovations, cooking, camping, music, dining, singing, travel, writing, gaming, reading, swimming, art, politics, bowling, cats, dogs, other animals, the country, fishing, hunting
When you are feeling alone like no one cares, read this cuz its absolutely true: Every night, someone thinks about you before they go to sleep. At least fifteen people in this world love you. The only reason someone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you. There are at least two people in this world that would die for you. You mean the world to someone. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look. Always remember the compliments you've received. Forget the rude remarks.
So if you are a loving person, send this to everyone on your list including the person the person who sent it too you.
Think about this for a minute...
If I happened to show up on your door step crying,
Would you Care?
If I called you and asked you to pick me up because something happened,Would you come?
If I had one day left, to live my life;
Would you be part of That last day?
If I needed a shoulder to cry on,
Would you give me Yours?
This is a test to see who your real friends are or
If you are just some one to talk to you when they are bored . .
Do you know what the relationship is between your two eyes?
They blink together, they move together, they cry together,
They see things together and they sleep together,
BUT THEY NEVER SEE EACH OTHER... that's what friendship is.
Life is lonely without FRIENDS.
It's 'world best friends week'.
Who is your best friend?
Send this to all Your good friends. Even me, if I am one of them.
See how many you get back.If u get more than 3 then you really are a lovable person...
Save the Earth... it's the only planet with chocolate!!!!
Keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
This is seriously the funniest man alive! Just ask him. He is also intelligent and very sweet. Anyone would be honored to have him a friend.
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