Well, where do I begin? I guess it’s the standard "about myself spiel” I like puppies and butterflies and rainbows....ok that won’t work. Well I am a man. I burp, I scratch, I "read" the Victoria’s secret catalog and what you see is what you get. I am not going to pretend to be someone that I am not just to meet people. Either you like me or you don’t. I am honest, sincere and respectful and expect to be treated the same. I know everyone says they are fun and funny so I am not going to say it. I will however tell you that I am that kind of person who will laugh at himself when I trip UP the stairs, or will laugh until I cry or pee just a little and will even laugh at my own jokes. Life is hard enough and I don't know what I would do without humor in it. So that’s that. I am also a family man. I am close with my 2 boys (8 and 11) and am also close to my X. I love my family time and some of the best times I have had have been at family holidays or even just a hanging out on the porch in the summer time having happy hour. Remind me to tell you about the chipmunk story if we get that far. My family is crazy. And I don’t mean cleaning their shotguns or talking to themselves crazy, I mean we are a loud obnoxious and raucous group when we are together. We have been known to discuss things such as #1 AND #2, sex men’s and woman’s body parts and other assorted "non appropriate" topics during dinner or holiday gatherings. Most of the time we spend ripping on the guests who cant handle their liquor but it’s all out of love and no one goes home angry. I am a romantic...(I married my high school sweetheart). I am compassionate.. (I once stopped to help a suffering dog that got hit by a car). I am sympathetic (I have a family member who has been fighting illness for years and if you know what Gilda's Club is your a peach in my book). I am head strong and have been called stubborn but I have also tear'd up over stupid movies that no one has any business tearing up over (I even own a Sade CD but wont admit it). I can be driven and focused (I ran the 10th anniversary Disney marathon a few years back) and I can also be lazy (nothing beats Michigan football on a fall Saturday). I am a beer snob but also like a nice gin and tonic. I guess all I am saying is that I am nice grounded person that can be a gentlemen for my special lady or a good friend when someone is in need. Ok..now onto you! I am looking for someone who likes to be treated like they treat others. I am looking for a woman who likes to be treated as a woman but is not shy about baiting her own hook or at least the guts to ask me to do it. Someone who can communicate with me. I am old enough that can take the criticism. Ok here is where it gets tricky. I would love to find someone who gives me goose bumps as she brushes by me. Someone who makes me melt when our hand first touch. Someone who will chase me about the room after I smack her butt, only to return the favor. Some who will enjoy getting a text or call during the day and someone that likes to flirt and be playful. Someone who will tell me about their day when asked or someone that is not afraid to say what they want when asked. And lastly someone that is not willing to sit back and let life pass them by. Someone who wants to learn and experience new things. I know no one is perfect, hell I am far far from it but nothing is better in life then having someone you can share it with and who brings out the best in you. Now that was long winded and I better also add that I am shy so you don’t wonder why I am so quiet if we meet but can blather on here for 4000 characters... .....etc. Please drop me a like even if it’s just to say hi. One never knows what could happen unless you act upon it.   Send me a message!

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