Caramel coating, gentleman, funny than a beeeeeeeeeeep , kinda easy on the eyes. I have to much leisure time on my hands in the winter. But i make the best of life. It takes a real man to admit when he is wrong and say i'm sorry. To many of us don't know this and will never find our soulmate simply because they show no contrition. Have the respect to bless your family, friends, lovers, and haters, it can't hurt, and may lead you in the right direction on your path. Having a traveling spirit, i see many realms past this one in my dreams, and you really want to be nice to people here if there is any truth to what i've seen. Love is strong but as we know can't survive on it's own. It is but an active ingriedient needed to sustain our good natured side. When love is blended with trust, understanding, patience, communication, and time spent, oh my what a rush!
I'm good people with love in mind and no drama. The world is so unique and if we all show respect to Mother Earth we shall reap the reward of this blessed existence the creator has bestowed upon us all. Do not think for 1 second about how great YOU are, help others an see the good fortune you recieve. Good fortune isn't always measured by monetary gain, you could miss out on so much wishing and hoping, by the time you reach your goal you forget what it was set for. Love, Love Love, but not in vain, be up to the task, and don't complain, when it calls your name, ya better try-2-be ready, cause it'll pass you up so fast, ya heart-wont-beat steady.

This is a sample of my inner soul all written by ME!



Some hope for the yearning to cease as all they exhibit yields little or no fruit.
Growing pains are so agonizing when young and in love with no wisdom of lies or truth.
All a vague mystery at best when iron meets the fire.
Descend for the wrong rationale and be consumed by your burning desire.
Having trust in the judgment of others is fine as long as they're psychically linked to your mind.
It's such a rarity this, to actually find the one person on this earth with which you can mentally bind.
So much ability for grand romance yet we waste it with no contrition.
Promiscuity is in advance of friendship as though we're owed some sort of annuity.
Admonition ignored as we go forth blindly into unfamiliar emotional territory.
Be cautious the way the wind blows you, and were sin grows too, for this could turn out quite opposite a field of glory.
To be held willingly is so comforting and we should never be without this warm feeling.
A sad day if you can't get a hug from the ones you love when your heart starts rocking & reeling.
The first embrace you received was from yourself as you began this journey from the womb.
We can still receive the comfort needed by loving ourselves when faced with loneliness and gloom.
Treat every meeting as the most important part of your day as you bring light to someone new.
Wander aimlessly along the corridor of experience and you'll only find gaping holes to plummet through.
These twists and turns we all have traveled, as our frailties are exposed for every one to see.
The distance between what we've learned and what we have yet to comprehend is based on our daily harvest from the knowledge tree.



I’m not in a rush to find my next hopeless crush.
Miracles don’t just happen every day.
You smiled I’m flush wondering how soft is your touch.
Embarrassingly I don’t know what to say.
Too unsure about which way to go, so I think I’ll stay right here.
If warm wishes need a place to grow there’s a vacancy very near.
My heart’s a fertile grove for love to blossom unreservedly year around.
Deep roots embedded within my soul manifest growth nurtured by one sound.
Your soft voice saying the simplest of words is nourishment for this metamorphosis.
She has eyes that shine through to my being; I fear I can’t exist without more of this.
Holding on to every seed she has planted inside my hearts garden.
Perennial yearnings as I surrender to this new trestle of hopes. Light wind lifts my bouquet as dawn brings tomorrow, allowing me to ascend her eaves with solid ropes.
Rainbows wish they could be stars so more could witness their beauty.
Stars wish someone would grant them a wish instead of always being on night wish duty.


As a man, 1 day my mom will be proud.
As a man somewhere I’ll sing out loud.
As a man if time will allow, I’ll find the love for me amongst the crowd.
As a man I’ll always open doors.
As a man often others I bore.
As a man sometimes I have violent dreams
As a man I seem to always be the one raking leaves.
As a man many mistakes I’ll make.
As a man a lot of time growing up will take.
As a man right will seem wrong at first.
As a man I have an unquenchable intimate thirst.
As a man my expectations are high.
As a man it’s hard to say goodbye.
As a man many hours I’ve spent alone.
As a man I don’t talk long on the phone.
As a man I miss the importance at times.
As a man I’m suspected of heartbreaking crimes.
As a man I can’t be told, I need to be shown.
As a man, good Love I’ll never loan.


Puddles of despair leave them alone, I watch as they grow.
Humblest of beginnings start where most are afraid to go.
Duplicity can end the journey too soon for eager beavers.
I’m fascinated by the amazing shear luck of some non-believers.
Good does reward in time, not always bad to finish last.
Some dead set on crossing the line first often move too fast.
They miss much in this rush set by their impatient pace.
They’re quick to touch a ladies waist without even seeing her face.
Astounded is the boyish reaction when his behavior’s taken as a threat.
For knowledge of how to approach a lady, he has not quite acquired as of yet.
It may never be attained by some of my brethren but this needn’t be the case.
Early and often we should teach our male children to respect females.
This can lead to far fewer incidents of slaps in the face.

The whisper of wind blows faintly as this day draws to an ending.
This is the best time to find my heart surrendering.
If ever feeling the least bit of sadness.
Just allow me a chance to bring back balance.
Swiftly I seal those lingering blues.
Replenish your spirit with comforting news.
Higher still we climax as time stands motionless.
No way could any other lover come close to this.
A magician uses tricks to amuse the crowd gathered.
I rely on my drive; this allows me to have her.
She wants a go getter, not someone waiting to get it.
Laziness is so unappealing in her eyes quite pathetic.
Heavy this burden can weigh on those lacking romance.
Having it served your way is the only way to dance.
Tell any future seeker of your desire the wait is very long.
For the current conductor masterfully plays your song.

Beauty can’t seal your destiny as truth holds tightly to your soul.
Morning comes too soon; I feel it’s a felony.
When what you want is the moon to take control.
Lowered expectations leave me hollow inside.
Sorrow quickly follows, helpless to detour the emotional ride.
I hurry along as your rules change often, but never seem quite fair to me.
I worry a debate may end in anger, so my thoughts rest silently under lock & key.
Bring wisdom to reasons doorstep but you refuse to grant entrance.
How selfishly misguided, now I only have loves remnants.


Heavy load on 1 person to make moves for many.
Optional thinkers consider nothing at length spending
all OUR pennies.
Truant of commen sense they go on while good folk mourn.
MOTHERS feeling the pain from their hearts being torn.
The love for her son on 1 side,
the love of her country the other.
Seems so unfair after all is said and done and for what
price did this pain we uncover?
Homes broken in dispute over varied opinions,
parents buried in turmoil over a family decision.
Sent the fruits of our exquisite existence to hell,
and have them returned dead or with hearts like moldy lemons.
Cold truth is humble pie and so hard to swallow sometimes.
Old fools live long lives while OUR young heros and heroins are dying on the vine.


So make this last until the wind no longer blows.
End it all once spring becomes fall.
Take me away when repulsive thoughts become standard dialogue.
Claim my soul if heartbreaking turns out to be loves protocol.

If forgiveness is never shown then hatred has a warm host.
Swift this beast once full grown, ever fervent to gain revenge on most.
Lonely days far outnumbering those filled with friends and family?
Coldly responding to kindly gestures from strangers based on personal vanity?

All will need a helping of assistance at some point in this existence.
Don’t stall when the call you should be making needs to be done with persistence.
If your faith expires and nothing new resembles the truth sought.
Look deeper, for this quest is one that should never be given up or fought.

Naturally waiting for the worst to happen is how some choose to live.
Actually dating back more than one thousand years never learning to give.
We neglect those most in need and celebrate the few that have financial abundance.
When will we learn the lessons so clearly taught and stop this anti-social preponderance?

Endowment of grace granted to those who have shown balance.

This seems only appropriate as life is so crammed with challenge.

In the grand scheme what ever we can dream can be achieved.

Once established through perpetual repetition and truly believed.

Should time fail to extend as long imagined by originally locked solid plans.

Heaven offers the utmost freedom from pain, stress & heart breaking botched romance.

Ease those petulant thoughts as the wind blows through to a day anew.

May peace filled passage along the road currently traveled bless all you do.

Share your gifts as only this noble feat can unlock the door to ongoing bliss.

Knowing your expectations, the only way you’re assured of acquiring what you wish.

The way to attainment of what it is you need only reveals itself once humbled.

Laughter and patience is the best approach in the face of adversity after we’ve stumbled.

Welcome every day as the last and observe the zeal with which the hours advance.

Exploring all avenues to spiritual grounding asserting positive values can only enhance.

Come willingly toward the harmony requested by self examination of your own desires.

Witness feelings freely soar alarmingly high once introduced to someone who inspires.

Loves Omnipotence

Sure as these pleasurable moments of summer come to a stand still after August greets September.
Nothing has had quite the hold on my mind like your smile far back as I can remember.
Quite sure I can't be the only one affected by this marvel of professional perfection.
Enticing the way your elegance captures time as all can’t help but look your direction.
Just a simple glance from you and to my knees I fall in amazement.
Must be those dimples, by chance my dear do you have any pressing future engagements?
I’ve sought 1 with a heart pure as well un-jaded by trespassing charlatans.
False protectors of her honor fueled by selfish wants draped in the garb of harlequins.
No more the fool, dignity prevents me from making folly of another’s hope for real love.
Some can be cruel as low tide exposing a bounty for predators flying in the sky above.
Embracing the moments of unyielding passion hastily lessens your chance for ecstasy. Take it slow, enjoy the connection of one another and witness the best that 2 can be.
The truth is we‘re all better with a soul mate on our journey throughout life’s bumpy ride. Resourcefulness, honesty, integrity and passion are navigational tools we should have inside.
I’m culpable and now awaiting my sentence for uncontrollably being lost in your eyes.
I throw myself at your courts mercy and beg for leniency or a quick demise.
I patiently drape in the balance of joy & pain searching intently for my hearts recipient.
Ardently giving time what it needs in order to attain my blessing of loves omnipotence.


Blessings To All For My Heart is Open To Suggestion!


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