Who am I? I'm just me... the basics, 27, single, no kids, independent. In general I'm quiet, laid back, usually shy at first. I'm an introvert that wishes I could be an extrovert. I care about others, especially in a relationship, however, although I hate to admit it because I feel selfish, I do tend to focus more on my own things. I'd have to say comedy and laughter are the most important things in my life. I HAVE to laugh constantly, and usually even if I may look upset or lost in thought, someone will say something cheesy like "Hey, don't smile to hard." and I'll usually snap out of it and laugh. Anyway...

I am the type of guy...
that will walk you down the street standing next to the curb to keep you safe, that will open doors for you, that will wake up a little earlier just to make breakfast for you, that will cook you dinner, that will plan romantic evenings to spend together, that will take his time and listen to your wants and needs, that will take the warm drink so you can have a cold one, that will say he is full, so you can have that piece of pie he knows you really want, that will hold you close and comfort you when you wake up to a bad dream, that will ask you how your day was when he gets home from work, that will watch that movie you love even though he thinks its really boring, that will listen to that girly song just cause he knows you love it, that will take you out and buy you stuff even if his money is a little tight, that will cheer you up when you are down, that will bring you flowers for no reason at all, that will not cheat on you even though he thinks some girl is hot.

I am the type of guy...
that might get jealous if I don't feel I'm getting as much attention as I should, that might get mad cause his plans for the day didn't go as he wanted, that might lazy at times, that might hurt your feelings and make you cry, that might break your heart although I will not try.

I am the type of guy....
that loves to snuggle up and be close, that loves to do anything to put a smile on your face, that loves to run his hands through your hair, that loves to give you a massage when you're feeling sore, that loves to make you happy any way he can, that loves to love you and fell loved in return.

I am the type of guy...
that hates it when I feel ignored, that hates it when you assume I will do something for you just because I have before, that hates it when things don't go as planned, that hates it when you lie to me, that hates to be put on the spot, that hates to not feel he has the respect he deserves.

I am the type of guy...
that loves when you hold me close and tell me you love me, that loves it when you scratch my head and the back of my neck, that loves it when you hold my hand, that loves it when you give me little kisses all over, that loves it when you listen to me and understand my feelings, that loves it when you cheer me up when I've had a bad day, that loves it when you understand that I'm not perfect. I'm just me.

I've tried to change for people in the past, but I've realized, why should I change, I should be loved for me, so here I am. Love me or hate me, this is me.

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Profession: retail / customer service
Interests:  the beach at night, bowling, pool, video games, card games, music, board games, movies, people watching, writing blogs and poems, internet, art, drawing, cooking, shopping, going out to eat