Im a 38year old Latino from new York city, looking for fun and just hanging out with friends and making new ones. im going to be honest and real,life's to short for everything we want to really accomplish in our time here on earth. I'm not looking to be anyones sugar daddy, nor am i looking for a sugar momma nor to play the game, Im not like every other man out there and i am insulted by the very thought that women's first
impression of me is so. I am me, i am honest about where i stand and give no excuse for anyone else but me, I don't play the game, players today, dont seem to understand the rules or try to change or rewrite them as they go along, big no-no im my book, they don't understand the simple fact that romance does not and should not have anything to do with sex, if it happens, it happens. but im not looking for it, thats why valentines day should be everyday, not just on February 14,think on this, men show you how much they say they love you only once a year?, when it should be every day of your life.
they think that they can get some with out any hard work,why is that, because its the one day that they know that its the one time in the year. that flowers, candies and the words,"i love you" will get them sex with out having to ask or in some cases beg for it. well i believe it should be more about romance, not f**king, making love to a woman is and should be an adventure. Its about the emotional connection that s established between two people, and i am one that will do my best in showing a woman the finer aspects of romance, i took a massage course to help improve my romantic attributes. so i can give great massages and also i am a very patient and understanding man willing to give of myself if ever need be,i wanna be the ear to hear your problems and if possible, help solve them or the shoulder for you to cry on it its needed and the hug if you ever need to be help i am the calm that can help steady yourself, because these things are all that are required to be a real man (at least to me)and i will not tolerate abuse from any man who does not like my views on how women should by right be treated.

i am also a lingerie aficionado and love for my women to wear them , to me there is no bigger turn on, and lets not forget the mind, anyone can have sex with the body, but to make love with the mind' now thats romance.i enjoy making love and i consider my self insatiable, I am not looking for the love of my life, not looking to settle down or be someone's soul mate, if it happens well, thats a different story, i wanna have fun. for once i'm going to let love find me. but if you wanna have a fun time and have a friend that will show you something classy, look me up on yahoo under the name sperez410,or on aim/aol with the name saintelmo1eye. and i guarantee you will not be just a name on my friends list. and we will chat as often as you like or is allowed us. i mean its silly really , why have some one put you on their friends list if your not talking to them.   Send me a message!

Profession: insurance and travel
Interests:  movies, music, reading, writting, dancing, quite night at home, sponteanious events