I'm seeing someone these days, so you might as well sail on by. Best of luck!

Interlaced with the routines of life, there are adventures big and small. An adventure might be an afternoon road trip to wander a small town's main street. It might be a weekend in Duluth. It might be crossing an ocean.

The best adventures are shared with someone who embraces life - a kindred spirit. Yes, we have to attend to our day-to-day responsibilities, but we eagerly anticipate the next getaway.

For a long time, I wanted to charter a sailboat in the Caribbean. Last year, I took the classes to qualify me to do that. I had a chart of the Virgin Islands framed and hung on the wall to help motivate me. The kids and I did a long weekend charter on Lake Superior so they'd be comfortable on a big boat. Last winter we returned from a fantastic week in the BVI with great memories. Now I have to figure out what to do for an encore.

I'm certified as an open water scuba diver, though I've only managed a few dives in the last 10 years. I'm a baseball umpire at the high school varsity and American Legion levels. I'm a competitive pistol shooter - I mostly compete against myself, but the matches are fun. I spent 15 years in the army as a reservist doing interesting things, but those days are behind me.

I had a long, happy marriage before becoming a widower, so I know what commitment is about and how to compromise. I know there's someone out there with whom I can share the deep connection and chemistry that makes for something lasting. Someone to join me on the rest of my adventures.   Send me a message!

Profession: IT Project Manager
Interests:  sailing, reading, travel, dining out, movies, photography, scuba diving