hey there....Im 30 yrs old with three young boy in search of a man who knows how to treat a lady. I have spent the last 6 years taking care of my family along with a boyfirend and then a husband. i am not yet divorced but very happily seperated and finacially working on the divorce now. Im also a BBW so if you like the transparent type I am definately not for you. I want to find a man that enjoys relaxing in front of a movie, spending time with kids, oplaying a mean game of spades with friends, and one who loves to because i love to cook. Im not richie rich but i take care of my own no matter what sacrafices i have to make. I am known in my family has the local orphanage. I just return 4 kids back to their parents and a a cousin to his own home. People say i like to take in stray kids instead of stray cats. i think it is a good thing,but as my dad would say you cant save the world. Look, i dont want to walk down the asile tomorrow and i dont need a man to take care of me. i just want to meet someone who can hold his own, know when to hold his tongue at times, and one who knows to keep his hands to himself. I am sick of being treated like a possession and working hand. i want to be treated as an equal and loved. i dont give anyless than i ask for. let me know if you would like to chat.   Send me a message!

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Interests:  movies, dinner out, writing, poetry, painting, swimming, cooking, SPADES is a must and of course my children.