UP DATED PROFLE 12/10/07 Not a lot of changes just a few. Always finding mistakes LOL

Are you men looking for beauty queens or are you chicken to commit you say one thing in your profile but in reality your just wanting someone to talk to or have sex with whats up with that.You know real good women are not thin,perfect,and beautiful they are your every day average looking in looks and size they are the ones that will bring happiness into your heart.ok I'm done read on.

To all the men that are on the fence.Don't be afraid to e-mail or IM me,Don't wait for me to IM or e-mail you. Just do it, like it ,think you might like it,it's a maybe or questionable????you won't know until we chat, I'm easy to talk too I only nibble on the second chat.

I do have a lot to offer.... About myself... humm... Well I am 50 years old I have two grandchildren. Eli (6) and Bella (2). I also have 4 grown children that DO NOT live with me.My roommate moved out and I'm very excited to have my privacy back.This will be the first time in 32 years that I've lived by myself. I am so looking forward to it.I work in the mental health field. I teach mentally ill people about recovery, daily living, wellness, and social skills.I tend to be a little flirtatious and am attracted to the older man look,tall,average to larger build and lets not forget the graying hair so honey babe to me. I get a lot of fulfillment from my life and my career am a very caring, honest, faithful, down to earth woman. I am described by others to be big hearted, outgoing, positive, and funny(even when I'm not trying to be). I am new at this,and although I have a wonderful life and much to be thankful for, I find my self needing and wanting more in my life like a good man someone I can love and cherish,share and care about guess I'm looking for a friend at first and maybe someday a loving relationship. I was married to the father of my children for 21 years and have been divorced, well let me say happily single for 7 years.No man or sex since then either clean and free of all diseases. I'm looking for someone who can first of all hug,kiss,cuddle and squeeze also someone who can look beyond skin deep and see true inner beauty. I'm hoping to find a man who cares about others more than himself and knows what he wants in a woman and out of life. I'm a low maintenance woman looking for the same. I'm not into games I'm into taking care of my family, myself, and my man. My relationship with God is the most important aspect of my life. I am not really religious but spiritual and whoever i meet should at least believe in God.I believe in getting along with people,there is way to much hurt in this world and life is to short not to.You don't have to be perfect or rich just honest,and be willing to share your feelings,your likes and dislikes.Please only the serious respond. Don't plan on sex the first time you meet me. I am a large girl but have a lot of energy and able to keep up with the best of you.I'm working out and loosing weight.Don't let my weight distract you I'll be a knockout soon.
Take a chance with me.I really could be what your looking for.LETS CHAT

.If you are just into seeing what all you can get sexualy then don't even talk to me. I hope this message didn't come off sounding to bad.I'm a real nice person and am just trying to get rid of the bull and go directly to the good stuff. THANK YOU.   Send me a message!

Profession: mental health
Interests:  Playing cards, Keeping my mouth very clean for the non-smokers, Art, Meeting new people, Movies, Traveling, Nice intimate nights with my man, Antiques, Estate sales and Auctions