I am single 37 years old I have sole custody of my three teenagers. I am very honest about everything in my life. I am about 5'5" and 175 lbs, my pictures are kept current and show exactly what I look like. (No I won’t send you any pictures for your personal collection so don’t ask)

I am very honest, open and far from perfect. I am strong willed, independent

I am looking for a relationship NOT a fling, one night stand, quickie etc. If you don’t want to try for the long haul we can be friends.

I know sex is a part of every relationship BUT it is not the ONLY aspect of a relationship, so if you don’t want to get to know me in ALL aspects of my life and only "sexually" then keep on looking. We all have a small kink / freak in us but I am more then that.

I am a NON drinker, NON smoker, NO / NEVER drugs. I do not care if you smoke or drink but if drugs is something you do then don’t even bother me (I don’t care if it is a social thing either I cant be around them and wont have anyone in my life who does them)

I am tired of the games and men thinking I am "bs'ing" them when I say I have SOLE custody of my kids, sole custody means I have then 24/7/365. They are ALWAYS with me. I do go out, I do see friends, I do have a life, BUT I also have to be home every night for my children, so sleep over’s at a party or at your place they do not work for me.

Now for what I AM looking for:

Someone close to my age not 15+ years older

An honest, accepting man, of my life, lifestyle, family, work.

It would be good if you least like dancing, you do not have to dance well just enjoy it and not worry what other think when you do it.

Willing to work with me and not against me, at the same time I will work with him and not against him. I would like him to be a tad taller than I am (that is mainly because I love to wear heels).

Now in the "past" no two men I have dated have looked anything alike I do not go after a specific type of person. It is all about how my kids and I are treated. I do expect to be treated with the utmost respect and in return I will also treat him with the utmost respect. Hint: I will treat you as a king and would like to also be treated as a queen.

Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO HOO what a ride!"   Send me a message!

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Interests:  Dancing, Music