looking for friends or a good guy. I got a lot on my plate. i need a good man. if ur just looking for sex im not the one ur looking for. I will not have it on a first date. . i have a 3 month old baby so u have to love kids. i can be a good friend and hopefully more. i took a little profile thingy and this is what it said i needed


you need someone who responds to the fact that you enjoy the reassurance of physical contact and emotional sharing, but who helps keeps dependency in check in the relationship so that you two do not lose your identities as individuals and whose character is deserving of your loyalty and affection.

you need someone who believes and acts on the belief that the intimacy of a relationship is sacred.

I worry that romantic partners will not care about me as much as I care about them

you need a partner who is energetic, enthusiastic and has high self-efficacy like you and will support or even participate in your personal and professional interests that feed your sense of identity and accomplishment.

you need someone who is not looking to be taken care of, but rather who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and satisfying relationship.

you need someone who is eager to give, collect and discuss information with you patiently versus communicate with you on superficial levels out of convenience.

you need a partner who is patient, a “big picture thinker” and can relinquish control and pride to make the best decisions for the good and growth of the relationship.



you need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love and who appreciates being the center of attention in the bedroom.

You need someone whose highest priority is your relationship and is willing to do the hard work to keep a transcendent level of love alive in the relationship.   Send me a message!

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Interests:  horses, watching movies, clubs, hanging with my family