9/15/08 - Update:

I'm taking a break for a while so I'm putting up a vacation picture. If you
stop by and want to contact me you still can through this site. However, please know that unless you live nearby and intend to meet me in person after a few phone chats, then I just don't have time for anything else.

Good luck to everyone!


5/1/08 Please note:
My Settings are changed to the 20 to 60 age range. That is only for my friends from the Forums to be able to contact me. I am not interested in dating anyone under the age of 38 so please respect that. Thank you!


About Me - Short Version:
Great Man sought by Fabulous Big Beautiful Woman (BBW) for mutually satisfying long-term relationship. Something so right that our hearts lead us to marriage. But you must know this, while marriage is the ultimate interest, I am not desperate. We should start out slowly. Building a base of friendship first as the cake. Love, lust, understanding and passion are the icing! A scattering of family, travel, adventure, mutual friends, lifestyle are the toppings!

Not interested in one-night stands or phone/internet sex. I'm the Real Deal here looking for The Real Deal. Is that you? Then we should meet! Please DO NOT contact me if you are not open to the possibility of Long Term. ;)

My ideal relationship is where we both: 1) trust the other person completely; 2) highly respect one another; 3) are good friends; 4) enjoy each other's company everyday, including constant craving of each other's touch; 5) are active socially, spiritually, physically, emotionally, and mentally; 6) can naturally inspire each other to want to be the best we can be.

Long Version:
Just ask.


If any of this appeals to your mind and your heart, then we should meet.

Note: My pictures are 2007-2008 full body and clear headshots. I believe in truth in advertising. Won't you please post the same?   Send me a message!

Profession: when it's relevant
Interests:  all forms & styles of art, and lots more, people and cultures, learning, decorating, remodeling, cooking and food, music, movies/indie films/docs, reading & writing, being outdoors, sailing/boating, travel, mountains and oceans, great conversations