http://www.justsayhi.com/Lily0923
5' 3"
Average
Blond
White / Caucasian
Let's try this again now that I'm in a better mood.
I'm looking for someone to compliment my life, not dominate it. I'm very active...No Stage 5 clingers need apply.
I'm strong, I'm strong willed, I'm ornery, i'm funny, I'm witty, I'm intelligent, I hate bad manners, I love watching people, I detest dumb men, and I hate dumb women with the firey passion of a thousand suns, I am completely literate, yet have the worst spelling skills in the world...ask me however about my grasp of the vernacular. If you don't know the correct way to use there, their, and they're, or your and you're or right and write, or you think saying dis is the correct way to type this, or dat for that, or if you ever need to AXE me anything.....please don't bother with me, as I won't bother with you.I will make fun of you if I like you, if I don't, I will be polite and courtious. I'm not afraid to be unliked or to tell someone how I feel about them. I'm stubborn, but fair
I'm romantic, but won't show it, that is until I know for sure, I don't trust easily, but when I do, i'm loyal to a fault, I am a cynic with a big dose of optimism, I'm very confident without being cocky, (well sometimes about some things)
I don't make alot of first moves, I like to sit back and watch people before I interact with them, I can tell alot about someone's character in the actions they take and the people they associate with. I'm judgemental, but not about the things you would think someone was judgemental about.
I'm a lions den, i'm a lobster, and I'm an omlet, and I think I am biscotti...ask me about those things, some are pretty indepth analyzations of my psyche.
If you'd like to know more about the macabra that is my mind, please e-mail me, but if it has that "hey baby" feel to it, I will either ignore you or make you cry.
Rules of dating Lily, if you find these to be harsh, you're not the man for me, no need to email me to tell me this.
1, You must say what you mean and mean what you say.
2. You must not be intimidated by me, hence you must be a strong man.
3. You can be negative at times, but NEVER with yourself.
4. You must be honest, a white lie now and again is acceptable, as long as no one is hurt in the process.
5. You must know yourself, your strenghts AND your weaknesses.
6. You must take what I say, and know that I follow through with it. THE GOOD THE BAD AND THE UGLY.
7. You must know that I give as good as I get, if you disrespect I WILL retaliate, and it will be over the top, and much nastier than you can dish out, so be ready for that.
8. I am kind, caring, loving, and above all loyal, but you MUST never mistake kindness for weakness, for that I AM NOT.
9. If you are honest with me, I will be honest with you, if your sentiments come from a place of truth I will never be angry about it.
10. No mama's boys need apply. I have a child, I won't take care of you. However I will do caring and wonderful things just to make you happy, if this turns into something you EXPECT, if will cease quickly and rapidly.
11. I am independant, not the kind of woman who WANTS to change my tire, but I CAN change my tire, if you do it for me, I will gratiously accept it, but don't think I NEED you to do it for me.
12. I'm a generally happy person, you must be also, no whinning, no crying, no boo hooing..... If you want to talk about something I will gladly talk it out with you, if you are looking to make yourself a victim, go get counceling somewhere else thank you very much.
13. If I tell you that I want to talk that means I want to talk, if I tell you I want to be alone, it means I want to be alone. You must have the same stance, I don't play games.
14. I am a smart woman, I know when I am being lied to, please refrain from insulting my intelligence.
15. If you want to date a bubble head size 0...GO FIND ONE. Do not assume that I am going to agree with everything you say, simply because you say it.
16. I have guy friends, they love me, and I love them, they aren't going anywhere, GET OVER IT.
17. I'm Irish, I know this should come tatood somewhere on me like a warning label. No one EVER wonders where they stand with me. When I'm happy, you'll know it, when I'm angry NO ONE will doubt it.
18. I like to drink and have a good time, I am never sloppy or forget who I came with. Neither should you.
19. I flirt, you should flirt, there are however boundries and lines that DO NOT get crossed. If you do not know these, let's review them.
20. Last but certainly not least, BE YOURSELF, Do not put on a fake front as to who you are. I certainly will not. Send me a message!
Profession: Vagabond.
Interests: music, movies, art, theatre, having fun
Divorced
Yes, sometimes they live at home
No
No
Occasionally
Other
To message Lily0923, you MUST meet the following criteria:
- NOT looking for an intimate encounter
- NOT married
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CleanBathroom : 08/26/08 She wants to eat a waffle cone. Regards, CB aka Waffle Cone |
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lilith401 : 08/18/08 Lily is my sweetheart. She is a great friend and smart cookie. Every word in her profile is true... she is a sweet, funny, and happy person. No games there. I adore you, lady! |
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CleanBathroom : 08/17/08 I like her. |
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JaceKnows : 06/13/08 She came across the land one night Saw that her world was there and right Knew what to do and had her own plan When she reached out to take an old friend's hand It happened so quickly yet so real The world around her and those things to feel She knew right away she could relax for a bit Because her friend Jason thought she was the sh!t... It's Friday the 13th as I write this, but I'm more than lucky to have met such a wonderful friend. She rocks! |
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MirrorMirror : 06/12/08 NIGHT OF ROMANCE I had an entire flock of butterflies fluttering around in my tummy. I had been ready for our date for about an hour already. Even did extra stuff like a long warm bubble bath, facial, manicure and my hair styled. I really wanted to make a good impression on him. My best friend set up the date and all she would tell me was that he was a great guy, nice, funny and gorgeous. Not even his name! So of course at first I was skeptical. I mean, who wouldn't be? Why would such a great catch be so single? The more I thought about it, the more I realized I was acting like a kid in high school, judging before you know the facts. Then my imagination ran rampant on me and I pictured everyone from Fabio to Kevin Costner. In less than an hour I would know. I felt so silly as I waited impatiently. I tried to busy myself with small chores around my apartment, but never really could relax or get the rather tempting 'movie' starring me and Mr. Mystery and our upcoming date. As I was dancing around the kitchen with the mop I was brought back to reality by the sound of the doorbell. And the butterflies returned with reinforcements. I checked my hair as I passed the mirror in the short hallway to the door. Ok, I still looked like I just stepped out of the salon. It felt like an eternity to me as I watched my hand raise up to grasp the doorknob. I took a couple of deep breaths and opened the door. I about fell over. I made a mental note for later, definitely tell Jackie thank you! He was tall, probably about six feet, dark brown hair, deep green eyes, a gorgeous smile and a body that just wouldn't quit covered in khakis and a button up the front hunter green shirt. I just knew I stared at him for a good twenty minutes before I finally said hello. That's when he brought his hand from behind his back and handed me a bouquet of spring flowers. I hadn't even noticed that he was hiding something and felt my face grow warm. He laughed a soft heart felt laugh and asked jokingly if we were going to stay in the doorway all night. If we were that would be all right, but could we please get some chairs? He broke the ice. I invited him inside and put the flowers in some water. He made small talk as I got out the vase. I learned his name was Michael and that he didn't actually live that far away. He had just moved here a few months ago and was getting to know the area. I'll admit, I wasn't completely listening to him. I was still hung up on how much of a stud he was. I mean, just from what I've seen, I can tell he works out or at least did. We worked our way out of my apartment and into his car, talking the whole time. We were really clicking and I couldn't believe it! He asked me if it were all right that he picked out the restaurant for us just to make sure. I couldn't help but think, "Ohhh he's polite too?" Don't' get me wrong, he had opened and closed the car door for me, but let's face it, some guys will do that just to make a good impression. He seemed to be totally what all my past boyfriends weren't. A Gentleman. We got to the restaurant and I was pleasantly surprised. Italian, my favorite! The ambiance was perfect, low light, candles on the tables and booths for privacy. We talked all through dinner, laughing and joking. I don't think there was a single moment of that awkward silence that goes along with most first dates, let alone blind dates. After dinner he drove me home and told me he had a fantastic time. His smile sent ripples down my spine. I didn't know what came over me, but I invited him up. That's a big no no for me on a first or even second date for obvious reasons. He accepted my invitation for coffee and we headed up, only after he helped me back out of the car. I went straight to the kitchen and began to brew the coffee and he followed. We joked some more and chatted about this that and the other. I walked over to where he was to get the coffee cups, our bodies meshed together and I felt weak in the knees. He leaned forward and kissed my lips softly. I was taken by surprise but quickly melted into the kiss. After we pulled back he smiled and laughed. He looked me straight in the eye and told me he really needed to thank Jackie. This evening couldn't be any better. Wanna bet, was my thought! I wanted more. For the first time in history, I wanted more on the first date than the guy I was with. I asked him if he would like the dime tour of my place and just as politely as he had been all night he accepted, only difference this time was we were holding hands. As we entered my bedroom, having shown him everything else I made sure to get close to the bed and leaned in for another kiss. He slowly brought his hands up and pulled me into a warm embrace. With that I deepened the kiss, letting our tongues dance slowly. That's how I would describe the rest of the night, a long slow dance. He let me make the initial moves to make sure of what I wanted and once it was clear, he took over. We removed our clothes, gently tossing them aside onto the chair. His muscular body glowed against the soft light from the hallway. I was entirely his. He laid us down onto the bed, our bodies meshed once again and as his fingers lightly caressed my body, and his lips lightly kissed my neck. I wanted to scream! It was everything I'd dreamed of but have never had. This was most definitely not a dream. His hands continued their slow, soft movement along my body as we began to make love. He filled me completely and we were one. He kept the pace slow and steady, continuously kissing my lips, neck and earlobes as his hands caressed my sides every so often gently cupping my breast. It wasn't long before he brought me to climax. My soft moans filled my small room as my orgasm washed over me. Only after he felt my body relax again did he stop. He kissed me passionately and slid his body off mine to lie next to me. We cuddled with my head on his shoulder and my arm wrapped tightly around his waist. I definitely need to thank Jackie was my last thought before drifting off to sleep |