UDATE 6/10/08 - I just surpassed my original goal to get back in shape. At the the end of last year, I weighed almost 190 pounds, and I started my hardcore diet and exercise on Jan 1st 2008. I have now dropped over 50 pounds and I'm at my final goal. (New main pic just posted, at weight of 135 lbs. I have been maintaing this weight for 2 months straight now). The next pic after the current main picture was taken on 2/28/08 after losing about 35 lbs, and at that time I was at 153 pounds. I have since lost almost another20 pounds, for a total weight loss of over 50 pounds, and I am now back at my true ultimate target weight of 135 pounds, which is almost the exact same as the B&W shirtless picture.
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I'm a rather unique person ... on one hand, I'm a college educated career professional (B.S.E.E. - Electronics Engineer, Computer Scientist, IT specialist, web developer, etc.), and yet on the other hand I'm a rock musician (singer/guitarist). (Although I am and always will be an 80's metal rocker at heart, I play everything from oldies to reggae to disco to classic rock, modern rock, etc.) Because I don't exactly fit the mold of the typical career professional, nor the typical wild party 24/7 rocker, it makes me a very hard match to find someone who's truly compatible with my personality.

I have a really strong sense of humor, I love to make others around me laugh and have a good time, and I'm extremely honest and loyal.

I am seeking a kind, considerate, intelligent, honest and attractive SWF with a great sense of humor. I'm seeking someone who has a more "middle of the road" personality like myself: A) not too dull and mundane, living mainly for their 9-5 M-F job, only looking forward to coming home eating dinner, then watching TV on the couch until 9:00PM; nor B) not someone who wants to go out drinking (or other partying) every night of the week, is irresponsible, living with parents, has no job (unless still going to school), and no ambition, or likes to play head games.

I would like to find somebody that thinks for themself and doesn't just blindly follow the pack. Someone who doesn't just buy into whatever the media happens to tell them that they should be thinking at that particular moment in time. I would like to find someone who is open-minded and intelligent enough to be able to read between the lines to get to the real truth in all situations.


I want to find a girl with similar qualities and a similar situation as mine. That means that she has her own life and basically has her act together (i.e. aside from any temporary setbacks, her own place to live, a job or going to school, her own goals, etc.). I want a person who likes to go out sometimes and do fun stuff, yet other times who will be happy to just sit home cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie. It also very important that we treat each other as true equals at all times and give each other mutual respect and consideration.

I offer my other half all of these things: fun, adventure, and good times, along with kindness, consideration, respect, equality, honesty, loyalty always. And I come with no baggage, so hopefully you won't either, or at least have only minimal baggage. Fair enough?   Send me a message!

Profession: IT developer, musician
Interests:  working out, bicycling, 80s metal, classic cars, chess, comedy, computers, fitness, friends, guitar, intellectual, creative, internet, music, performing, quality, movies/TV, rock music, singing