I am interested exclusively in getting to know an intelligent and courteous Caucasian or Native American man for a long-term relationship. Just to clarify, I am a racial mix, but this site didn't provide that as a choice under the ethnicity field. I write romantica (erotic romance novels), and I've finally had one published! I am capable and independent in my daily life, but miss sharing my days and nights with my special man. There are many sides to me - the sword collector, the voracious reader, the museum-troller, the Sunday School teacher - yes, I said 'Sunday School teacher' (adult singles' class), the sports-nut (I love my Chicago Cubs and Bears!), the avid cook and new recipe-lover, the horse fanatic.

Having met my obligations to children and family, it is now my turn! And I want it all - passion, love, romance, passion, passion, love, passion - oops! Sorry, emotional hiccup (but, did I remember to mention PASSION?). And that means that once we have something real to build on, you'll have neither the desire nor the need for any outside attention, even that of a full-time, full-service upstairs maid or high-priced New York City call girl (LOL!). You'll have your hands (and other useful tools) full inspiring my next novel, and that's the truth! And who knows, if we hit it off, I'll even give you the URL to read the first chapter of my book. Be prepared though, it is explicit and not for the shy.

I describe my body type as "average" because in my eyes, it is - at least for women in this country. I am not a bony, boyish size 2, but I am also not capable of tipping a sailboat on its side, depending upon where I decide to be seasick (port or starboard?). Look at my photos, make a decision, but know that there is much more to me than what you see in the pictures.

And by the way, please don't respond if you are a smoker. That's a deal-breaker for me. And be kind enough to post a photo on your profile - don't just ask me to ask you for one. I'm here for the world to see, after all. Thanks for taking the time to let me introduce myself!   Send me a message!

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Interests:  Ancient Egypt, blindfolds, books, camping, candles, cats, Chicago Bears, Chicago CUBS, cooking, cops, corsets, cowboys, dining out, dogs, Dominance & submission, firemen, fishing, flea markets, floggers, flying, garage sales, horses, jigsaw puzzles, live theater, massage, museums, music, Native America, role-playing, soft restraints, sword collecting, swordplay, travel, writing