former "fatty" now a slimmie...lol i had gastric bypass surgery last may and lost 130 lbs! that's a frickin person! lol anyhoo i have turned into quite the exercise freak... i like to walk about 9 miles on the trails 3x a week and workout at the gym (ladie's gym) the rest of the time...i haven't been in a real relationship in years because frankly..i'm just really picky...you would be too if you dealt with a sociopathic alcoholic for 5+ years....lol i want to stay away from toxic people and start getting to know healthy minded people that like to take care of themselves...men or women it's fine....now about me...well some people consider me a tad ummmm eccentric....i'm really into the paranormal and the occult, love cemeteries, smooshed face dogs, babies and forensics shows...i have a pretty dry sarcastic sense of humor and if i like you i will razz you relentessly....lol i kind of gave up on love...it's the old cliche' , the good ones are either taken or gay....lol if love blossoms from a friendship i won't poo poo it away though...i have quite a fondness for english and polish men even though i'm sure theyre far and few between in connecticut (right off the boat ones) lol hmm what else? ah things i hate....ill manners, excessive swearing (makes one sound ignorant), disrespectul, indifference, non-animal people <evil lol, and self-centeredness....if youre any of these things to me i will make you cry...lol anyway if youre up to someone challenging drop me a line!   Send me a message!

Profession: caregiver
Interests:  walking, hiking. working out, nature, animals, cooking, museums, the paranormal, people watching, shopping