I am a nice guy of course not the type that all those people sing and write about that finish last but the kind that stand their ground love to compete would rather lead than follow but is not controlling. Jealousy and envy are not in my vocabulary and am not motivated by either one vindication and revenge are steps backwards that are wasted energy. I learned that from a bad marriage and other peoples actions. If you can relate we are headed in the right direction if not do not hate me just move along nothing to see hear. I love intelligent conversation ( although i am never a participant in them) and witty banter or just crazy useless dialog to fill time. I am attracted to strong independent intelligent women that stay in shape that is whether large skinny short or tall I gravitate toward people with physique and good stature. women that have muscle or that are of good stature are the bombay. I am not attracted to lazy builds or softies that are so pale that they are opaque. If you lay on the couch for a majority of your waking hours besides work than I that means you. sorry being in shape is a high priority that doesnt imply that you are a decathalete or iron-woman running triathalons but it does mean not chubby or skinny with no tone. Besides that I am very open minded about who will be the one to rock my world.   Send me a message!

Profession: self employed consultant
Interests:  Gardening, landscape design, Vintage auto, Percussion and music, surf and skate, all water activities, working with hands, clothes, women.