As for me... I think I'm a fairly straight forward, maybe a little old fashioned kind of person. I can have a quick whit when I feel comfortable (at least, the laughter around me seems to suggest that) -- but I don't generally like to be the center of attention in crowds. Also, open communication means a lot to me. If a guy is open with his feelings, there will definitely be a payoff with time.
My main sport/activity is climbing. I'm rather busy with that, running, weight lifting, and now that the warmer weather is on its way, probably kayaking in some local lakes -- obviously, I enjoy being outdoors, but I really like being with friends, no matter the activity. My children are my biggest blessing right now, so when I have them, I do my best to keep them and myself on track. When I don't, I enjoy my time in as wholesome and ACTIVE a way possible with my favorite people.
Honestly, at this point, I'm just checking things out. I'm not sure I'm looking to commit to someone really soon but probably will at some time in the future. I think I'm still recovering from my last heart break ... sooooo... not in any rush to go through something like that again!
Turn Ons:
Open communication
Honesty
Character
Creativity
Whit & humor
Physical fitness/active lifestyle
Willingness to at least TRY climbing
Strong and balanced faith with an open mind
Turn Offs:
My faith is important to me, so one-night stands are not an option. Don't even go there. :)
If you're just looking for a pen pal, please move on.
I tend to like slightly younger men and they seem to like me but don't expect a reply unless you're over 30
I'm not attracted to guys more than a couple of years older than me so probably won't reply to anyone over 49
Out of date photos are not helpful
Judgementalism isn't so fun to listen to
Sorry to be so frank, but no sense wasting anybody's time.
All the best! Send me a message!
Profession: self employed & student
Interests: climbing, running, travel, kayaking, hiking, fitness, learning
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