Me
I just might be the most random OCD girl there is. I love to laugh more than anything. If I could spend my last hour on this earth doing anything, it would be horse back riding because it feels like flying. I plan everything I can, but I love surprises even if they are the bad kind... I think it just makes the good ones so much better. I don't like things most people do and I do like things that most people don't. I don't care for ice cream, I love brussel sprouts. The first thing I notice on a guy is his arms... I think it's a feeling safe kind of thing. I have a list of things to do before I die. I like things in color order. I like the smell of the river in the morning and I'll take it even if it means no bathroom and touching the side of the tent covered in dew in the morning. I know there is more to attraction than looks (but it is a factor) and someone can't force attraction and it is one of the most important things in a realtionship. I have been in a few relationships and now I know more than ever what really matters and I know exactly what I want. I have never cheated on anyone and I am one of the 7% that no matter what happened, under no circumstances could I ever even think about it.

What I want
I want a guy who makes me smile with a thought, someone who knows when I am scared and doesn't make fun of me for it, someone who knows I can take care of myself, but he does it because he can and he wants to, I want someone who holds my hand, someone who may or may not be good at something but does it because it makes me happy, someone who can sleep next to me even if I snore or put my cold feet on him, I want someone who appreciates that I make him breakfast or fold his clothes or put notes in his lunch box. someone who will help me make the bed. someone who isn't afraid to ask for help. someone who likes to talk and listen and lighten the mood with a joke. someone who knows that life is too short to be unhappy and that you need to make the most of it.

Narrowing it down
The last thing I want to do is waste anyone's time, so here are some specifics on what I am not looking for.
I love kids, but I am not really at that point in my life right now, so I would consider kid(s) to be a downside, not a deal breaker but a pretty big con.
I am NOT that kind of girl, so if that's what you are looking for please move on. I will not reply to any messages that refer to me as baby or sexy... those are not acceptable first contact pet names.
I am not looking for someone who does drugs or is a heave drinker. smoking is a con, but if you are willing to quit I'd be glad to help.
I need to feel safe in a relationship and I know this sounds somewhat shallow, so please don't take upfront blunt honesty wrong, but I don't think I'd feel comfortable with someone under 5'5.
I need someone who is planning on getting somewhere in life, I have goals and ambition and I need to be with someone that I can support and they can support me.
If you have communication problems and you don't want to improve, please don't bother.
If you are a cheater or a liar, please don't bother. I need a real man.
This isn't a deal breaker, but I would just like to get it out there, I know a lot of guys are very active and consider working out a hobby. I stay healthy, but I don't consider working out fun. I messed up my knee riding or well crashing on a quad and it does give me some trouble with overuse, so I don't run or jog or hike (more than 3 mi.). I don't go to the gym. I just want you to know that because I know for some it would cause compatibility issues and it is a deal breaker for them.

I will not answer any messages with out a picture either on your profile or attached

Messaging Me
I know getting up the nerve to message someone or thinking up what to say is difficult... so please unless anything said above cancels you out, just try. What's the worst that could happen? The worst is you could not be "the one" (which is what I am looking for). If you think about it you have a better chance of winning the lottery or getting struck by lightening than being "the one". Don't worry about the subject line, I will read it either way, I promise and I always do what I say I will. Content is all that really matters, so for that, please avoid the one liners. Tell me about yourself, something your profile doesn't say. Say why I caught your eye, what you do for a living, some goals, fears, favorites. So, please take a chance.   Send me a message!

Profession: Sales and Marketing
Interests:  Movies, Hanging Out, Camping, Fishing, Bowling, Shooting Pool, Random Creative Entertaining Activities